Mhlawumbe kuzozwakala okungavamile okwanele, kodwa noma yibuphi ubuhlobo buyahluka ngokuvumelana nesimo esithile. Ngokuvamile, abantu bahlukana futhi banesimo sengqondo esihlukile, kodwa uma uqonda, ezinye izici ezivamile zingabonakala. Ngokuvamile, kunezinhlobo eziyisihlanu eziyisisekelo zobuhlobo.
Umphathi womuntu
Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo umlingani uzothola imali, futhi owesifazane uhlinzeka ngemuva okuthembekile nge "hero" yakhe. Uma wonke umuntu enelisekile ngendima enjalo, ubuhlobo buzobe bude futhi buqinile.
Izici zalesi simo:
- umyeni uphezu kwekhanda lakhe;
- zonke izinqumo zenziwa ngumlingani, owesifazane ulalela;
- umsebenzi oyinhloko womlingani ukuhlela impilo nokukhulisa izingane;
- umfazi angakwazi ukusebenza, kodwa lokhu akusilo ukubizwa kwakhe okuyinhloko;
- indoda iyazisa konke umyeni akwenzela yona;
- ebuhlotsheni obunjalo, ukukhetha phakathi komsebenzi nomndeni akufanele ngisho nomfazi.
Ukubambisana okunjalo kufaneleka kwabesifazane abathanda ukuba ngumama wendlu. Kwesinye isikhathi, kungase kuphakanyiswe izingxabano nezingxabano ezinkulu, okungaholela ekuqedeni ubudlelwano.
Ikhaya lomfazi
Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, zonke izinqumo zenzelwe owesifazane, futhi umuntu uyazivumela ngokuzithandela. Ngokuvamile isimo esibhekene nayo emphakathini wanamuhla: uma owesifazane ehola imali, futhi umuntu usebenza empilweni yansuku zonke, zombili ezamukelekayo.
Izici zalesi simo:
- owesifazane owenza umsebenzi owenza ukuphila okusebenzayo;
- le ndoda izolile futhi ilula;
- umlingani angasebenza, kodwa umholo wakhe awunasisekelo;
- umyeni ukhulisa izingane eziningi;
- yonke imibuzo ehlukene ilala emahlombe owesifazane.
Uma abalingani bathanda lesi simo, khona-ke inyunyana inamandla ngokwanele. Owesifazane kufanele ahlakaniphe futhi angamhlambalazi umyeni wakhe ngobubele bakhe.
Ukulingana
Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, bobabili indoda nowesifazane banamalungelo alinganayo, okusho ukuthi into esemqoka kule nyunyana ayikho. Ngalesi simiso, iningi lemindeni yanamuhla lihlala.
Izici zalesi simo:
- bobabili abalingani basasebenza;
- indoda nowesifazane bazama ukuzibona empilweni;
- ezimweni eziningi bobabili abalingani baya emsebenzini noma benza imisebenzi yomphakathi;
- owesifazane akakhathaleli ngokuphila, kaningi bahlanganyela nogogo, nannies noma abaninikhaya;
- ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, indima ebaluleke kakhulu edlalwa yikhono lokuxoxisana;
- kungase kube nesabelomali esihlukile.
Ngokuvamile ukuthandana nokuthandana kulahlekile ebuhlotsheni obunjalo, imibhangqwana ihlala njengabangane, abaxhunyiwe yizingane noma imbangela evamile.
Ikhaya
Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu uthando kanye nobuhlobo komunye nomunye. Ozakwethu ngakho ujabulelane ukuthi akekho omunye onomdla kubo.
Izici zalesi simo:
- umsebenzi nokuziqaphela akukhathaleki;
- uthando lunikeza amandla namandla;
- umgomo oyinhloko ukuhlinzeka induduzo ekhaya kanye nenduduzo;
- Zombili izinhlangothi zithandwa kakhulu futhi zithandana;
- Ungabheka ukuxhumana ngaphandle kwalababili.
Ngokuvamile, ngenxa yokuthi abalingani abangenalo uxhumano nezwe elizungezile, abathandi basheshe bagcwala. Uma ungahlangani nanoma yini enye ngaphandle kobudlelwane, lo mbhangqwana ungabelana ngoba bayomane babe nesithukuthezi futhi bangenasithakazelo.
I-Creative
Owesifazane uyimfihlo yomuntu, uyamgqugquzela kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezifeziwe.
Izici zalesi simo:
- Le ndoda ibonga kakhulu owesifazane wayo;
- umlingani uzama ukuziqhenya ngothandekayo;
- owesifazane ungenangqondo kakhulu futhi ufuna;
- lo mbhangqwana ukhululekile kakhulu.
Uma owesifazane eyeka ukugqugquzela umlingani, angaya ekufuneni enye iminyuziyamu. Ngakho-ke, lo mlingani kufanele abe njalo phezulu.