Umbuzo wokuthi ungabuyisela kanjani umuntu ongenakuphela, ngoba kulula kakhulu ukuwalimaza ngezinto eziphilayo. Kunezindlela eziningi zokubeka umhlukumezi wakho esimweni esinamahloni, kuyilapho ungamvumeli ngisho nokuthi uyisizathu saloozinkinga zakhe.
Indlela yokuziphindiselela kumphathi?
Akuwona wonke umuntu onenhlanhla ngeziphathimandla, futhi ngezinye izikhathi empilweni yangempela kunezimpi zamandla zangempela, ngemuva kokukhuluma nowe ocindezelekile futhi ongajabuli. Ungakhathazeki, eqinisweni, ukuphindiselela kumqondisi akuyona inzima kakhulu.
Cishe uyazi ukuthi yiziphi iziteshi zomsakazo enkampanini yakho ezilalelayo. Uma kunesidingo, khuluma ngalokhu - kuyasiza kuwe. Ekuseni noma emini, okungukuthi, ngesikhathi umsakazo uzolulalela omaziyo abaningi bakho, bhala "hello" kumsakazo, ozofundwa ngokuzwakalayo. Kungabonakala kanje: "Ngithumela imikhonzo ku-Ivanov wami omuhle u-Ivan Ivanovich. Ungumuntu omuhle kakhulu, imoto yakho / imoto / imoto ebomvu ingishaya imimoya! I-Edik yakho. " Ake ucabange ukuthi uzohlangana kanjani nomsebenzi emsebenzini!
Indlela enhle yokuziphindiselela
Indlela efanayo eyinkimbinkimbi, okuyinto, noma kunjalo, okuzodinga ukutshalwa kwezimali yisipho esingaziwa sokuzalwa kwakhe. Hlela ikhekhe elihle ngokubhalwe phansi "Ukuzalwa okujabulisayo, othandekayo" namanani amabili wesilisa avela ngenhla. Cela ukuyihambisa ngaphandle kokupakisha, ukuze wonke umuntu ehhovisi angase abonise ubuhle obunjalo.
Ungabuyisela kanjani umngane?
Uma umngane ephenduka ngokungazelelwe angabi umngane noma isitha, ngakho-ke ... udinga ukuphindiselela, futhi angabe esaphinda afune ukwenza noma yiluphi uhlobo lokukhaphela.
Lapha ungakwenza ngokuzijabulisa okulula nokungaziboni, njengasebusheni. Isibonelo, ngaphansi komuthi emnyango wokuphuza iqanda. Iphunga liyoba "elimnandi" kangangokuthi omakhelwane bangase bacabange ukuthi uyisimanga futhi bafihle izidumbu ekhaya.
Enye indlela engenabungozi ukuthululela i-superglue engena esikhunjini. Akuyona yonke into okufanele ibe lula, vumela ukungena kwekhaya lakho kube yinkinga kuye.
Ungabuyisela kanjani umyeni wakhe?
Njengoba sazi, ubuhlungu obukhulu bubangelwa thina yibo ababekade bebathandekayo kubo bonke. Uma umyeni wakho enze okuthile okumbi, ukuphindiselela kuye kulula kunanoma ubani omunye - ngoba uyazi zonke izinkinga zakhe.
Indlela elula yokumnxusa ukubiza ucingo lomsebenzi futhi utshele unobhala ukuthi yini ekukhathazayo kusukela kwi-Skin and Venereal Dispensary mayelana (igama lomyeni) - imiphumela yokuhlolwa ilungile. Futhi makatshelwe ukuthi udinga ukuza ngokushesha, ngoba awukwazi ukudonsa ezimweni ezinjalo! Ake ucabange ukuthi masinyane umlayezo uzohlakazeka kanjani ehhovisi kanye nokuthi wonke umuntu uzobukeka kanjani.
Khumbula, impindiselo enhle kumyeni wakho yinjabulo yakho. Yiqiniso, ungamhlambalaza ngezindlela eziningi, noma kunjalo, uzothola ubuhlungu obukhulu uma ebona ukuthi ungaphezu kwalokhu futhi ujabule kakhulu - njengokungathi wayengakusho lutho kuwe.
Ungaziphindiselela kanjani kumthandi wakho?
Abesifazane abaningi abaye baxhumana nendoda eshadile futhi basala, njengokuvamile, emgodini ophukile, baphupha ukuphindiselela kumthandi wakhe, ngokunikeza ithemba - futhi wasebenzisa futhi waziphonsa. Kulesi simo, kusukela ekuboneni okunengqondo, nokungabuyiseli - ukuthi wayazi ukuthi yini
Indlela elula, ukuthi ungayiphindisela kanjani kumthandi wakho, ukubhalisa uhlu lwemibuzo kanye nedatha yayo yangempela kuwo wonke amasayithi okuthandana owaziyo. Okufanelekile, uma unezithombe zakhe ezihlaselayo. Noma kunjalo, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuphatha izithombe ezijwayelekile, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukhombise kukholomu "Ngifuna" inguqulo efanele: "Indoda noma i-M + M". Abanye abangane bakhe noma abajwayele mhlawumbe basebenzisa lezo zingosi, futhi amahemuhemu ngaye azosakazeka ngokushesha kakhulu.