Lisho ukuthini inkulumo ethi "owesifazane obulalayo"? Izingane ezingenalutho noma i-bitch? Cha, kunalokho owesifazane ongakwazi ukukhohlwa. Unamandla amakhulu kangaka futhi akhangayo kangangokuthi lapho ebhekene nayo, indoda ayikwazi ukumsiza ukuyikhumbula.
Yini okushiwo owesifazane fatale?
Isibonelo esihle kakhulu somfazi obulalayo emlandweni, cishe, uLilia Brik, umdwebi wendlovu uVladimir Mayakovsky. Naphezu kokuthi wayengekho omuhle, waletha imbongi ukuba ahlaziye futhi wakhuthaza ubuciko. Wayengenandaba nombono womphakathi, wahlala eyakhe, impilo engavamile. Ukuthi kukhona iqiniso elilodwa kuphela abahlala ndawonye: yena, umyeni wakhe noMayakovsky bathandana naye. Ngisho nasesikhathini sethu kunzima ukucabanga ngesimo esifanayo, futhi lokhu kwenzeka okungaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka edlule.
Isitayela Somfazi Obulalayo
Owesifazane obulalayo kumelwe agqoke ngokunethezeka. Isitayela esikhangayo, esinobuciko, kodwa akusikho ukungabi nhlobo okungabizi noma ukungcola. Owesimanje owesifazane obulalayo ubonakala kumabhizinisi noma ngesitayela socansi, kodwa hhayi ku-unisex. Yonke imininingwane kufanele igcizelele ubufazi bayo. Yiqiniso, lesi sitayela siqala futhi sihambisana nemikhuba ehlanzekile.
Umsebenzi we-fatale wesifazane
ULilia Brick ukholelwa ukuthi indlela elula imvumela ukuba agcine ukukhathazeka komuntu. Watshela ngalokhu ngale ndlela: "Kumele simvuselele ukuthi uyamangalisa noma uhlakaniphile, kodwa abanye bangakuqondi lokhu. Futhi mvumele lokho engakuvumeli ekhaya. Isibonelo, ukubhema noma ukuya lapho uthanda khona. Bonke abanye bazokwenza izicathulo ezinhle nezambatho zangaphansi zika-silk. "
Ngamane nje, owesifazane obulalayo angeke abe ngowesifazane ohlambalaza futhi akadingi lutho. Uphatha umuntu ngokunganaki, lapho ephoqa ngokwengeziwe ukuba afune ukuwina. Iqhinga lakhe lifana nendlela yokuqothula kanye nenduku - ngokuvumela le ndoda ukuba isondelane, ke, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukumlahla, lona wesifazane wenza ukuba acabange ngaye ngokuqhubekayo. Akukhona yini lokho okuthembela khona kumuntu obulalayo? .. Akukhona neze indlela yokuba ngumfazi oshayayo. Owesifazane obulalayo wangempela, onobudlova nokubandayo, kodwa omuhle, udinga ukuzalwa.