Ngisho nezinhlakaniphi zasendulo zathi imizwa emangalisa futhi engalindelekile kunothando ayikho. Okunye komcibisholo we-Amur uhlasela ngokushesha futhi enhliziyweni, kuyilapho abanye, ukuze banqobe ingxenye yabo yesibili, kufanele benze umzamo omkhulu kulokhu ...
Kodwa, lapha, kwenzeke kanye nawe kuphela. Wathandana! Ungumhle kakhulu, othakazelisayo futhi othandekayo. Ngelinye igama, nguyedwa owake wabona emaphupheni akho isikhathi eside, kodwa, maye ... akabukeli ngisho nokuqondisa kwakho. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Indlela yokwenza umfana athambekele othandweni naye, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ukuthanda amasiko kanye namasiko omlingo?
- Chaza umgomo. Okokuqala, kudingeka uzinqume ngokucacile ukuthi yini oyifunayo nento yamaphupho akho. Uthi, ngokwesibonelo, ngifuna ukuthandana nomfana, ukuze ngizibonakalise ukuthi ngiyakwazi ukudlala indima yomculi obulalayo. Noma: Ngifuna ukunqoba inhliziyo yakhe, ngoba ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uyisiqephu sami sesibili, futhi angikwazi ukucabanga impilo yami ngaphandle kwakhe. Ukusuka endleleni ophendula ngayo lo mbuzo, izindlela ezengeziwe zomzabalazo nazo zizotholakala. Uma lokhu kuyintandokazi, kufanele ngempela silwe nenjabulo yakho, uma ubuthakathaka bomzuzu kuphela, cabanga ngokucophelela - ingabe umdlalo ufanele ikhandlela?
- Thola amaphuzu avamile othintana naye. Abaningi bezengqondo eziphathelene nombuzo wokuthi masithande kangakanani ukuthanda nomfana, bayelulekwa, okokuqala, ukuqala ngokufuna izithakazelo ezivamile. Uma usuvele ujwayele, kuzoba lula ukusebenzisa lesi sigatshana sepulani, ikakhulukazi uma ubonisa ukukhohlisa nokuhlakanipha. Isibonelo, uma into yothando okuhlangenwe nakho yilabo ofunde naye ekilasini noma isisebenzi esisebenza nabo, thintana naye nganoma yisiphi isicelo. Ngitshele ukuthi unconywe kuye njengomklami owazi kahle / ochwepheshe onkampanini / ochwepheshe / ochwepheshe weselula / ochwepheshe futhi uthi yena kuphela ongasiza ekuxazululeni inkinga yakho (cabanga ngalokhu kusengaphambili). Esimweni esifanayo, uma ungakajwayele, tshela ukuthi uqhuba ucwaningo / ukutadisha / ukubhala iphrojekthi yomkhankaso, futhi umbono wakhe ubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
- Bonisa isithakazelo sakho kuso. Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu ekusebenzeni okubizwa ngokuthi "Indlela yokuwa nomfana?" Umsindo onjengalokhu - umbonise ukuthi uyakukhathalela. Kodwa kulokhu, into eyinhloko akufanele iluveze. Akudingekile ukuba umbuke ngenja-like, amehlo athembekile, ephindaphinda njalo ukuthi alungele konke. Mthintane naye - ukubuka okusheshayo ngaphansi kwe-eyelashes, ukumomotheka, ibinzana elilahlekile - ukuthi uyathandeka kuwe, kodwa akukho lutho. Mbonise kuye ukuthi ungathinti ukubaluleka kwale mizwa (ngisho noma kungenjalo), okuyinto ngokuqinisekile kuyovusa kuye ukulangazela ukuzingela kanye nesifiso ukufakazela ukuthi ufanelwe ukuhlonishwa kwakho.
- Yasebenza. Ungathandana kanjani nomfana ngesikhathi esifushane futhi kungenzeka? Kungenzeka, nakuba kuzodinga umzamo omkhulu. Kulesi simo izikhali ezinzima kumele zisetshenziswe. Mema ngosuku. Ukuze amathuba omphendvulo omuhle abe ngaphezulu, menze umnikelo, okungeke akwazi ukuwenqaba kuwo. Uma engumdlali webhola lebhola, khona-ke uthi ngokungazelelwe ube amathikithi amabili omdlalo noma nge chance lucky waba umnikazi wokubhaliselwa nyangazonke kwababili endaweni yokuzivocavoca noma ibhola le-Bowling, futhi akekho ozohamba naye.
Futhi amanye amathiphu, ukuthi ungawa kanjani ngothando nomfana futhi isikhathi eside.
- ngezinsuku, njalo ulalele okungaphezu kokusho kwakho. Mbuze imibuzo, umkhuthaze ukuthi atshele okuningi ngaye. Ngesandla sakho, gwema ama-monologues eside futhi ungalokothi uphazamise;
- isayensi ethandwayo yokukhohlisa - i-pickup embuzweni othi "Ungayithandana kanjani nomfana?" weluleka ukulalela ngokucophelela amathuluzi emfihlo okudukisa: ukuthinta, ukuthinta ubuso, ukuthinta, ukuhogela. Ngosizo lwabo, zama ukwenza isithombe sakho singaqondakali futhi singatholakali kancane;
- akusikho into engabhekana nayo. Ngisho noma ubeka umgomo, thandana nomfana ngesonto, ungambizi nsuku zonke, uchaze ngemizwa yabo. Shayela kanye, emva kwalokho "ulahlekelwe emehlweni" izinsuku ezimbalwa, umnike ithuba lokuba nesikhathi sokuphuthelwa kwezwi lakho.
Ukucaphuna konke okushiwo ngenhla, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi kusasekho, futhi akuyona impendulo efanele kuphela embuzweni othi "Indlela yokwenza umfana abe othandweni?", Njengoba indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokuwuthanda umthandi ukutshela inhliziyo yethu kuphela. Ngakho-ke, ungakhohlwa ukulilalela.