Uma ungafuni ukuhlukumezeka kwakho ukubhubhisa umndeni, kufanele wenze konke okusemandleni akho futhi kungenzeki, ukuze indoda ingayitholi ngakho. Uma konke kucatshangwa ngokucophelela futhi kulandela uhlelo, khona-ke amathuba okuhluleka anciphisa ubuncane.
Ziba sengathi akukho okwenzekile
Ngokuvamile, imizwelo yesifazane ingathonya ukuziphatha. Umsebenzi wakho ukuziphatha ngendlela engokwemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka, hhayi ukushintsha imikhuba yakho. Ukuze ukwazi ukuziphendulela ngaphambi kokuba umyeni wakho engekho, kudingeka uhlele uhlelo lokubuyela emuva. Isibonelo, mtshele ukuthi e-salon enobuhle uhlangane nowesifazane oye waba umngane wakho wangempela manje. Kungcono uma uthola naye naye. Ngakho-ke, ngaphansi kwesizathu sokuhlangana nomngane ungafihla inkohlakalo. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane banomuzwa wokuthi banecala futhi bazama ukukwenza kumyeni wakhe, bebonisa ukugcinwa nokunakekelwa ngokweqile, okuyinto okusolisayo kakhulu. Zilawula ngokwakho, umsebenzi wakho kufanele ube nokuthula nokulinganisela ngangokunokwenzeka.
Gcina imfihlo
Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi izintombi zakho zingcono kakhulu, futhi ngeke zithengise, iqiniso lokuhlubuka liyimfihlo kangcono, ngoba kuncane okungenzeka. Awu, uma usalokhu uqhubekile, ngakho-ke ukuvikela intombazane emihlanganweni uma ukhona nomyeni wakhe.
Shintsha umzila
Nika umhlangano womthandi komunye umkhawulo wedolobha ukuze ungahambisani naye ezitolo ezifanayo, zokudla kanye nemigoqo ohamba nayo nomyeni wakho. Njengoba abasebenzi bezikole bangakubeka ngephutha ngesikhala, bathi, isibonelo, "Ungayala, njengokujwayelekile?" Noma "I-blouse oyithengile ngaleli veki?".
Utholiwe
Isibonelo, indoda noma abangane bakhe bakubonile ngendoda engajwayelekile. Kulokhu, ukuzithemba okuhle kuphela kuzokusiza, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ungenacala futhi ngaphambi kokuba umyeni ongeke ucabange, udidekile futhi ukhathazeke. Ngidinga ukumtshela ukuthi lo ngumngane omdala owafika ezweni lakubo, futhi uhlangane ngengozi. Uma lokhu kushiwo ngokuzethemba, futhi futhi, futhi ukusola umyeni wakhe ngokungathembeki, khona-ke uhlelo luzosebenza ngokuqinisekile.
Fihla izici zakho ezintsha
Uma lo mthandi akufundise ukuqonda izimoto noma iwayini elibizayo, awudingi ukwabelana ngolwazi nomyeni wakho, ngoba uzoba nesithakazelo esikhulu lapho ufunde khona. Zilawule embhedeni nomyeni wakho, ungambonisi "amasu" amasha okuthandwa ngumthandi kakhulu.
Imali kuphela
Uma ukhokha okuthile phakathi nemihlangano nomthandi wakho, ungasebenzisi amakhadi esikweletu noma ezinye izindlela zokukhokha lapho ungakuthola khona ukukhokhelwa ngemali, ukhokhe kuphela ngemali.
Ungashiyi imikhakha
Ziqaphele, gcina ukufihla. Susa imilayezo, izingcingo, egameni lencwadi yocingo igama lesifazane, kumanethiwekhi omphakathi ungayifaki kubangani, ngokujwayelekile, akukho zindlela zokukhaphela. Uma okungenani uma uphonsa, futhi umyeni wakhe ubona into engavamile, ukufihla kuyoba nzima nakakhulu. Emva kwemihlangano nomthandi wakho, thatha ngaphambi kokuba ufike ekhaya, awudingi iphunga lomunye umuntu endlini. Ungamcindezeli umyeni wakho, ulale ucansi, uchithe wonke amaholide akho nomndeni wakho, njalo uphendule izingcingo zakhe futhi ngezikhathi ezithile wenze ama-scandals mayelana nokusola kwakhe kokuhlubuka.
Gcina ibanga
Ungatshele umthandi wakho ukuthi usebenza kuphi, ikheli lokuhlala nokunye okunjalo. Mhlawumbe kuye akuyona nje ubulili futhi ufuna ukuba nengxoxo eyinkimbinkimbi nomyeni wakho, okuyinto engathandeki ngokuphelele.
Isiphetho
Manje uyazi ukuthi ungazifihla kanjani oshade naye. Kodwa konke okufanayo ngaphambi kokuba wenze lokhu kucabange, kungase kube lula ukusebenzelana ubudlelwane nomyeni bese ubuyela uthando nothando ngaphezu kokubheka embhedeni nomunye.