Kunezikhathi lapho othandekayo eziphatha ngokumangalisayo, akanakho isimo, akukho lutho oluthandayo. Ukuze ungalimazi kusihlwa futhi ube nesikhathi esihle, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungayiphakamisa kanjani isimo somfana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungangeni ekubhekaneni nokukhathazeka futhi ushintshe isimo.
Ungamjabulisa kanjani umfana?
- Thuthukisa umkhuba wokuhlangana nomthandi wakho ngokumomotheka. Kufanele aqiniseke ukuthi uhlala umlindele futhi ujabulele ukumbona. Ngenxa yalokhu, uyoba nomoya omuhle.
- Omunye umthetho obalulekile - umuntu olambile - umuntu omubi. Qaphela ukuthi uhlale unento enhle esilungisiwe.
- Hlela ubusuku bokubuka ama-comedies akho owathandayo. Hlela i-pizza noma wenze i-popcorn, uhlale futhi ujabulele ukuhlwa okusetshenzisane nomunye.
- Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvuselela umthandi wakho ukumqinisekisa ukuthi uyona ongcono kakhulu, ohlukile futhi ohlukile. Ngokuvamile imbangela yalesi simo ukuhluleka, ukwehlisa ukuzethemba, futhi ngokwemvelo, ukunciphisa imizwa. Ngakho-ke, yikhombise umfana ukuthi uzothola konke, ngaphandle kokungabaza ekunconyeni kwakhe komuntu, ukuhlakanipha, amandla, njll.
- Akukho lutho oluphakamisa isimo sengqondo somuntu ofana nobusuku ochithe ukwenza into oyithandayo. Isibonelo, kungabuka umdlalo webhola, ukudlala kwikhompyutha noma kusihlwa nabangani. Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuze ujabule othandekayo wakho, into eyinhloko ukuthi esikhathini esizayo akazange ayisebenzise.
- Shintsha isimo bese uya endaweni ethile ndawonye, isibonelo, i-movie, yokudlela noma nje ukuhamba. Izindawo ezinabantu abaningi zisiza ukuphazamisa nokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo.
Indlela yokuvuselela umfana ngamazwi, uma ekude nawe?
Ukubhekana nale nkinga, okokuqala udinga ukuthola isizathu. Asikho isidingo sokubuza ebunzini, njengoba lokhu kuzokwandisa isimo. Uma efuna, uzokutshela ukuthi kuyini indaba. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhombisa ukunakekelwa nokukhathalela.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwi-intanethi ungathola inani elikhulu lamavidiyo ahlekisayo nezithombe, okuyinto ngokuqinisekile ezokwenza ukumamatheka wakho othandekayo.
Enye indlela ongayenza ukuze ujabule - shintsha isihloko sezingxoxo, kodwa kufanele sithandeke othandekayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi kumnika imizwelo emihle futhi kuyasiza ukumphazamisa.
Okunye okunye kuyi-Inthanethi yimilayezo ye-SMS. Ungambhalela into enhle noma ehlekisayo noma wamukele futhi ngemizwa, ngobuqotho, ububele nokufudumala.
Ezinye izindlela zokuvuselela umfana
- Cishe bonke abantu bathanda udumo. Mtshele ukuthi nguye ongcono kakhulu, khumbula ukufaneleka kwakhe, izimfanelo zendoda yangempela, njll.
- Mhlawumbe wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi i-sweet cheers up. Hamba esitolo bese uthenga izinto ezihlukahlukene, ongayenza
othandekayo. - Mnciphise. Kwabesilisa abaningi, ubulili buyinto ethile. Ngakho-ke, uzokhipha yonke imizwelo emibi futhi asuse isimo sengqondo esibi.
- Cabanga ngeholide elizayo bese uqala ukuhlela iholide lakho ndawonye. Masiqiniseke ngokuqinisekile kulokhu. Ukucabanga ngekusasa elihle neholide elijabulisayo kuzokusiza ukuthi ukhohlwe futhi ukhohlwe ngephutha.
- Mema abangani bakho futhi ube neqembu. Ukuze ujabule akudingeki ube nesizathu. Cabanga ngalokho okuthakazelisayo, isibonelo, ungakwazi ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi.
- Msize aphumule, isibonelo, enze ukusikhipha. Ngenxa yalokhu, uzosusa ukucindezeleka futhi akhohlwe ngephutha.