Abamele ubulili obuhle bahlale bekhuni ukuphula ubuhlobo. Esimweni sokucindezeleka okujulile ungashiyi umcabango wokuthi ungamkhohlwa kanjani umuntu omthandayo. Lokhu kungaba nzima kakhulu, ikakhulu uma ubuhlobo buhlala isikhathi eside. Kodwa-ke, njengoba kunzima kakhulu, kubonakala sengathi impilo iqhubeka, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi uphume kuleli zwe elibi.
Ngingamkhohlwa kanjani ngokushesha othandekayo?
Qinisekisa ukuthi zonke izifundo zokuphila kufanele zitholwe ngokubonga. Cabanga ngalokho okwakungekho ebuhlotsheni bakho. Emva kokuhlaziya konke, kuzoba lula kuwe ukuqonda abantu, futhi ukwazi ukuthi yimaphi amaphutha endaweni yakho akufanele avunyelwe ebuhlotsheni obuseduze. Khumbula konke ukushiyeka komlingani wakho wangaphambili, futhi uzoqonda ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo zobuntu ongathandi ukuzibona esikhathini esizayo.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungamkhohlwa kanjani umuntu othandekayo, kufanelekile ukucabangela iseluleko ososayensi bezokwelapha ngokuvamile abanikeza ezimweni ezinjalo.
- Ungabe uhlala wedwa, futhi njalo ungagcwalisi usizi lwakho ngokuphuza utshwala. Lokhu akusizi nhlobo, kodwa kuzokwenza ukuthi inkinga ingene kakhulu. Zama ukuvakashela umphakathi ngokuphindaphindiwe, ukuya ku-cinema noma ukuya kumthengi nomuntu oseduze, vakashela iminyuziyamu noma ezinye izindawo ongathanda kuzo. Vele ungazishiyi.
- Bhalisela i-gym. Zikhethe noma yikuphi ukuzivocavoca komphefumulo wakho-ukufaneleka, yoga, ukuvocavoca , njll. Ukucindezeleka ngokomzimba kungakusiza kakhulu ukuphazamisa isimo esivelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyoba nezinzuzo ezinkulu zempilo kanye nezibalo.
- Thola isifundo esithakazelisayo nesisebenzayo. Isibonelo, zibeke umgomo wokufunda into entsha. Ekuqaleni kungase kubonakale kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kungathandeki, ngoba ekhanda kuyoba nemicabango kuphela mayelana nobuhlobo obubhubhisayo nokuthi ungakhohlwa kanjani umuntu omthandayo. Kodwa-ke, uma ngamasonto amaningana uzibophezela ukwenza izinto, kunokuba ukhale izinsuku ekupheleni, khona-ke ukuthula nokuthula kuzovela emphefumulweni.