Uthando lwenza owesifazane "owesifazane." Akukho embula ubuhle bakhe, ubulili kanye nobulili, njengomuzwa wothando. Ukuthandwa nokuthanda yintokazi yenjabulo yangempela.
I-psychology yabesifazane besithandweni kanye ne-psychology yabesifazane ngokujwayelekile ihluke ngokuphelele kumuntu wesilisa. Lapho abantu beqonda futhi baqonda lokhu okungafani, khona-ke izinkinga ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane zizoncishiswa. Ake sizame ukugqamisa lezi zingu-nuances futhi sibheke uthando hhayi ngamehlo kowesifazane kuphela, kodwa futhi kusuka kumuntu.
Ukubukeka kwesifazane
Kungani abesifazane besifuna uthando - ngoba imvelo injalo. Uthando lomuntu luveza isifiso nokuzimisela ukuthola inzalo. Lokhu, ngendlela yayo, kuyisiqinisekiso nesimo esidingekayo sokuzala. Futhi yini enye into edingekayo emvelo? .. Ukuze uzizwe njengowesifazane, udinga ukuzizwa unesithakazelo somuntu. Ukunakekelwa komuntu, isifiso sokuthola ifa nokuthanda owesifazane, kumnika ukuqinisekiswa kobulili bakhe, ukudalula ngokugcwele.
Njengoba owesifazane ebonisa uthando lwakhe nokuthi lokho kuye kube khona uthando - impendulo yalo mbuzo ingeyona into engavamile. Ukubonakaliswa kokunakekelwa nokuhlanganyela empilweni yendoda ethandekayo, ukusekelwa nokuphefumulelwa komuntu - konke lokho kungabizwa ngokuthi izimpawu zangaphandle zothando lomfazi. Ngaphezu kwezibonakaliso zangaphandle zothando kowesifazane, kukhona ngaphakathi, kubonisa ukuqonda kwabesifazane othandweni. Uthando ngamehlo owesifazane imizwa yakhe. Imizwa ahlangabezana nayo (intshiseko, intshiseko, injabulo, njll) ibaluleke kakhulu kunezinto ezibangela le mizwa. Ngamanye amazwi, owesifazane akayithandi kakhulu umuntu njengoba imizwa yakhe ihlobene naye. Futhi lo muntu uthola, ekhuluma ngokushelela, "ephuma etafuleni lenkosi", okungukuthi, izimpawu zangaphandle zothando lwesifazane, okuyinto eqinisweni, emnandi kakhulu. Lapha kukhona uthando lapha.
Ukubukeka komuntu
Uthando lomuntu luhlangene kakhulu nokuthola injabulo. Indoda ayizwa ithando lomfazi ngokwakhe,