Yeka indlela okudabukisayo ngayo, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubuhlobo buba bukhulu futhi buhluke ngokuphelele. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi baye bawohloka noma uthando seluhambe, cha, manje nje baye bathuthela kwelinye izinga. Ekuqaleni, ubuhlobo obuningi buqala nge "candy-bouquet" period, ehlala ngezindlela ezahlukene, kuye ngezici eziningi. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, abantu bazana, bajwayele, bazame ukukhombisa zonke izimfanelo zabo ezinhle kakhulu.
Masiyekeze incazelo yalokho okwenzeka kubathandi abaqhubekayo futhi bayeke ngesikhathi lapho kubonakala sengathi imizwa iphelile.
Futhi, njengokwokuqala
Khumbula wena kanye nemizwa yakho owazi ngayo ngosuku lokuqala, ukuthi wawuthandana kanjani futhi ugcwele imizwa. Umsebenzi wakho ukuphinda lokhu. Hlela umhlangano endaweni efanayo, uphinda ngokuphindaphindiwe zonke izinto ezincane. Isibonelo, uma besendaweni yokudlela, bese u-oda itafula elifanayo, izitsha, iziphuzo. Njengoba uwile esimweni esifanayo, uzobuya ngokuphindaphindiwe kuleso sikhathi esithokozile, lapho konke kufana nendaba yezinganekwane. Uma indawo yosuku lokuqala engasasekho, isibonelo, esikhundleni sesitolo sokudlela kukhona manje isitolo, bese kuvela okuthile okusha, okubaluleke kakhulu, okuthandana kakhulu. Ungalungiselela ukudla kwasebhange, ophahleni lendlu, epaki nakwezinye izindawo eziningi, okukhethwa kukho kuxhomeke emcabangweni wakho namathuba.
Sekuyisikhathi sokuvuselela okwedlule
Thatha kusihlwa ukuze ubuyekeze zonke izithombe, amavidiyo, ubuyekeze izinhlamvu namanothi owawubhalelane ekuqaleni komshado wakho. Uzokhumbula ukuthi wawujabule kangakanani, wathandana. Qinisekisa ukuthi kusihlwa kuzobe kujabula kakhulu futhi kuyathakazelisa, njengoba uzokwabelana ngezinkumbulo zaleso sikhathi, ongakaze uziqagele ngaphambilini.
Qala ngokwakho
Shiya isigamu sakho sesibili amanothi efrijini, esibukweni esibubini nokunye okunjalo. Ungakwazi ukuhlela isidlo sakuthandana ngemva komsebenzi wosuku olukhuni. Ngakho-ke, abathandekayo bazobona imizamo yakho futhi bazofuna ukukuphendula okufanayo.
Izithakazelo ezivamile
Zama imigqa yakho yokufana efanayo, okuwukuthi, zama ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe samahhala ndawonye, ngemisebenzi eseduze futhi enomusa kokubili. Khuluma ngezinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo, mayelana nezinhloso nezindlela zokuzifeza, ulalele umphefumulo wakho womshado nomuntu noma uzame ukukufunda. Ngempela, imizwa yangempela ihlala ngaphakathi ngaphakathi futhi izalwa endaweni ethile ezingeni eliphansi, futhi inkinga yokuqothulwa ngokuqondile yiyo yonke into yangaphakathi neyinkimbinkimbi, ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene, sidlulisela ezweni elibonakalayo lapho kunemingcele, ubandlululo kanye nezici .
Inkulumo enenhliziyo kuya kwenhliziyo
Ngokuvamile izinkinga ebuhlotsheni ziphakama ngenxa yokungaphili. Hlala phansi "etafuleni lokuxoxisana" ukukhuluma ngezinkinga, mayelana nokuthi ubani okhathalelayo nokukhathazeka. Zama ukugwema izimangalo nokugxekwa komunye nomunye, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, uma ukugxeka, kuyakha kuphela futhi kungeyona into embi.
Amadoda ayengavamile ukuveza imicabango futhi aguqe konke ekhanda labo, okuvame ukuholela ezimweni ezingathandeki noma ukucindezeleka ngokweqile ngokomzwelo. Zama manje
Kodwa uma yonke imizamo ingazange ifake umphumela oyifunayo, ngakho konke okufanayo, uthando kungenzeka ukuthi seludlulile (futhi mhlawumbe kwakungeyona uthando nhlobo), futhi sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha okuthile? Ngikholelwa, uma umuntu ethanda ngempela, uzokwenza noma yini, uma nje owesifazane wakhe ejabule kakhulu emhlabeni.