Isikole asiqapheli kuphela inqubo yokufunda, kodwa futhi ukuxhumana nabafundisi, abafundi nabo ekilasini kanye nabafundi bezinye amakilasi. Ngeshwa, ukuxhumana kwabantwana besikole kanye nothisha ngezinye izikhathi kuphelela ekuxabaneni. Lokhu kuphazamisa zonke izinhlangothi zenkambiso, futhi, okokuqala, kwabazali. Bazimisele ukwenza yonke imizamo yokusiza ingane. Kodwa indlela yokuxazulula izingxabano esikoleni? Futhi ungamfundisa kanjani ingane ukuba ibalekele kubo?
Izimbangela zokuxabana esikoleni
Abafundi, othisha bonke abantu abanezinhloso nemibono yabo. Esiqenjini esikhulu esikolweni, ukushayisana kwezithakazelo akunakugwemeka. Izingxabano eziyinhloko yizi:
- izici zomuntu ngamunye nezomuntu siqu;
- ukuvumelanisa nezimo ezintsha, uhlelo olusha lobuhlobo nabangane, (ikakhulukazi kule ndawo kukhona ukungqubuzana esikoleni samabanga aphansi naphakathi kwentsha);
- Ukungabi nokuqonda phakathi kothisha nomfundi.
Izibonelo zokungqubuzana esikolweni. Ngokuyinhloko, izingxabano phakathi kwabafundi zivela kaningi ngenxa yemizamo yokuzimela ngenxa yokuhlekwa usulu ngabanye, izingane ezibuthakathaka ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Kulokho abantwana manje banonya kakhulu, futhi uma esikoleni ekilasini noma yikuphi ukuhlukaniswa okuqaphele, kuyindlela eholela ekuhlekeni. Ukuphikisana nomfundisi kubangelwa isifiso sokuma nokuthola ukwethembeka kwabanye abafundi. Inecala kukhona futhi uthisha, ngaphandle kokunakwa okuphathelene nabaqaphi egumbini lokufundela noma ukudumisa ngokweqile ama-achievers.
Indlela yokuxazulula izingxabano esikoleni?
Uma kwenzeka izingxabano, abazali kufanele baqale ukulalela ingane yabo, ngaphandle kokuhlola izenzo zakhe nezinsolo zakhe. Isimo engxoxweni kufanele sithembeke. Ngemuva kwalokho, cocisana ngesimo bese ubeka umfundi ngokucacile ukuthi imbangela yokuxabana yayingaqondi kahle.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukujwayela iphuzu lokubukeka kolunye uhlangothi lwezingxabano (uthisha noma ezinye izingane zesikole). Ukufuna ukuphuma kokungqubuzana kufanele kwenzeke kwingxoxo ehlangene phakathi kwabazali, abafundi kanye nothisha. Uma imizamo yokuxazulula le mpikiswano i-fiasco, kufanele uxhumane nokuphathwa kwesikole, isazi sezengqondo esikoleni. Mhlawumbe isisombululo sizoba ukushintsha isikole noma ekilasini.
Kodwa uma ingane ihlale inemivimbo yezingxabano nabalingane nabo ekilasini, kuzodingeka uthathe isinyathelo ngokuqinile futhi uxhumane nobuholi besikole nabanye abazali.
Ukuvimbela ukungqubuzana esikoleni
Ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ingane ayifinyelele emibuthanweni ephikisanayo, hlakulela kuye umuzwa wokuziqhenya kanye nekhono lokuzimela wena. Kuzoba usizo ukuwunika esigabeni sezemidlalo ebhokisini noma ngokulwa. Fundisa umfundi ngalutho ukuthi angabonakali ukwesaba kwakhe futhi angabhebhetheki. Kodwa kubalulekile ukufaka izingane inhlonipho othisha nabanye.
Indlela yokugwema ukungqubuzana esikoleni, abazali badlala indima ebalulekile. Kufanele uhlale uthintana nothisha. Ezimweni ezinzima, ungabuki ngephutha ngesikhundla somntanakho, ulalele ohlangothini oluphambene.