Lapho uneminyaka engama-6-7 ingane iqala isikhathi esisha futhi esinzima empilweni yakhe - isifundo. Yiqiniso, ekuqaleni izingane zibheke phambili esikhathini lapho ziqala ukuwela emkhakheni wesikole. Kodwa-ke, njengoba abazali beqaphela kamuva, ingane ingase ibe nezinkinga kokubili ngemisebenzi yokuqeqesha kanye nobuhlobo ekilasini. Futhi kunamandla omama nabababa ukusiza ingane yakho ethandekayo ukuthi isikole asiyona isijeziso kuye. Yingakho sizokutshela lokho okudingekayo ukwazi abazali bokuqala ukusiza ingane yakho ngezinkinga ezihambisana nesikole.
Amathiphu kubazali abashayeli bokuqala bokuqala
Ukunikeza umntwana ekilasini lokuqala, abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuthi izingane zikhuni kakhulu. Abaqashi bokuqala bahlangabezana nokucindezeleka okukhulu kwengqondo. Phela, impilo yabo iphenduka izinguquko ezinkulu: uthisha uvela owenza izidingo ezithile, iqembu elisha, nomsebenzi omusha ongeke ujabule ngaso sonke isikhathi. Akumangazi ukuthi lo mgqozi uthola ukhathele ngokushesha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekhaya, ingane idinga ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Futhi uma abazali befuna kusuka kumiphumela ye-overestimated yengane, ukutadisha kubhekwa njengesimiso esinzima. Ukuze ugweme lokhu futhi usize ingane, cabangela iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo kubazali bama-first-grader:
- Akufanele nje izingane zilungele isikole, kodwa abazali kufanele bazilungiselele ukuthi ingane izoya esikoleni. Uma unquma ukuthumela ingane yakho esikoleni, ungayeki futhi ungangabazi.
- Yenza isimiso sokuqala esimisweni esicacile sosuku bese silandela. Ngemuva kwesikole, unikeza ingane amahoreni ambalwa mahhala emidlalweni yabo, mhlawumbe emoyeni omusha. Bese wenza umsebenti wesikole, ungakuhlehlisi ukuhlwa, lapho ukuhlushwa nokubona okusha kunciphisa. Isikhathi esihle kakhulu samakilasi amahora angu-16-17.
- Nika ingane ukuthi ibonise ukuzimela kwayo, kodwa njalo usondele. Izincomo ezinjalo kubazali bama-first-graders zesikhathi esizayo zisho ukuthi uma wenza umsebenzi wesikole, awukwazi ukwenza izifundo ezinganeni noma ubeke naye, njengoba besho, ngaphezu komphefumulo wakho. Mvumela ukuba axazulule izinkinga ngokwakhe. Kodwa uma uphendukela kuwe ukuze uthole usizo, qiniseka ukuthi usiza ukusikeka. Yiba nesineke futhi uzolile!
Izincomo zabazali ngokuzivumelanisa kwezigaba zokuqala
Ukuze banqobe isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa, abazali kufanele benze indawo ehle ekhaya. Ukwenza lokhu:
- Thumela ingane esikoleni futhi uhlangane nomoya omuhle. Ekuseni, qiniseka ukuthi ukondla ingane ngekusasa futhi umfisela usuku oluhle. Ungayifundi i-notation nhlobo. Futhi uma umthengisi wokuqala ebuyela, ungabuzi into yokuqala mayelana nokuhlolwa nokuziphatha. Mkhulule futhi aphumule.
- Awudingi okuningi kusuka kwengane. Umqambi wakho wokuqala angase angatholi ngokushesha ukwenza okuthile ngezifundo. Ungalindeli imiphumela evela kuye, njenge-prodigy yengane. Ungamememeza, ungammangazi ngenxa yamaphutha nokuhluleka. Kumele ajwayeze indima yakhe entsha njengomfundi. Kamuva uyokuthola.
- Nika njalo ukusekela kwakho. Qinisekisa ukudumisa umlingisi wokuqala wokuphumelela kancane. Lalela izindaba zakhe mayelana nezifundo, ubudlelwane nabalingani nabo. Usizo lokuqoqa iphothifoliyo, ulungise umfaniswano wesikole.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane ayinayo ukulayisha ngokweqile - enye yezingcebiso ezibalulekile zabazali bama-first-graders. Ukweqa ngokweqile kuyoholela ezinkingeni zezempilo nokulimala esikoleni. Kungcono ukulinda ngenkathi kunemibuthano noma izigaba. Qiniseka ukuthi unikeza ingane ithuba lokuphumula emva "ngosuku lomsebenzi", kodwa hhayi phambi kwekhompyutha noma ithelevishini, kodwa ngamathoyizi noma emgwaqweni. Uma ingane ifuna ukulala, mnike leli thuba.
- Uma ungahambisani nabalingani bakho ekilasini, hlela iqembu lezingane ekhaya. Ukumema wonke ekilasini ensimini yabo, ingane izozizwa ikhululekile futhi izokwazi ukuziveza ngokwengeziwe.
- "Uthisha kubi!" Uma ingane inesimo sengqondo esibi ngothisha wakhe, abazali kufanele babambe ingxoxo phambi kwamaqembu amathathu (umzali, umfundi kanye nothisha) futhi bathole ubuhlobo efomini elungile. Ngempela, ingane izosebenza nomuntu iminyaka emithathu!
Sithemba ukuthi izincomo ezingenhla kubazali bama-first-graders zizokusiza ukunqoba ukucindezeleka kwengane, futhi uzojabula ukuya esikoleni sakhe sasekhaya.