Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka kanjalo, uma kungekho isifiso sokuhlela ama-scandals, kodwa futhi ukushiya isimo, njengoba kungekho futhi indlela. Lapha, isibonelo, umfazi wafunda ngokukhashelwa komyeni wakhe futhi ufuna ukumfundisa isifundo secala, kodwa angazi kanjani. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi umlingani wami othandekayo ufuna ukumjezisa ngokumisa ukwazisa lokho akwenzela yena, futhi ubeka izinsolo ngaphezu kwalokho. Kubonakala sengathi akukho nkulumo enencazelo ethi "isobho sosawoti" noma "uhlezi ekhaya," kodwa yeka indlela okucasulayo ngayo! Mhlawumbe umyeni wenza okuthile umlingani akufuni ukukukhuthazela, ngoba kumthinta ngokujulile futhi akajabuli neze. Ezingqondweni, ukudumazeka kwabesifazane kubangela ukukhukhuma okukhulu kwemizwelo futhi ngifuna ukufundisa umyeni wami isifundo sokucasula.
Ungabuyisela kanjani umyeni wakhe ngokuhlambalaza?
Indoda ayinaki iqiniso lokuthi umfazi uyamhlupha, futhi ukhohlwa ukumnika izipho nokukhohlwa ngamaholide omndeni? Kunezindlela eziningi eziningana zokuziphindiselela kumyeni ngenxa yokwephulwa. Izazi zengqondo zizokutshela indlela.
- Oshade naye uphuthele ukukhohlwa? Awudingi ukuphikisana, awukhulumi nje naye, ngakho uyazi ukuthi yini engalungile.
- Thola isithembiso sokuba ekhaya ngesikhathi esithile, kodwa kunalokho uhambe nabangani kubha? Kunconywa ngosuku olulandelayo ukuphinda "feat" yakhe, ushiye inothi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, cisha ifoni. Vumela indoda izwe kanje.
- Uma umyeni eshaqile ngokuthi umlingani ulungiselela kanjani futhi usetshenziselwa ukupheka, ukuthi manje akakwazi ukupheka amaqanda akhe ngokwakhe ? Kuyafaneleka izikhathi eziningana ukuba ungampheki ukudla. Ngomfazi ngalesi sikhathi, ake alale embhedeni, abukele umbukiso owuthandayo. Uma umyeni eqiniseka ukuthi lona wesifazane akenzi lutho, masize abone ukuthi ubukeka kanjani ngempela.
- Ngokuvamile amadoda ayaqiniseka ukuthi owesifazane ohlala ekhaya nengane akenzi lutho, okusho ukuthi akhathele. Ithiphu: mshiye yedwa nengane bese uhamba usuku lonke ukuphumula nabangani. Masizame ukubhekana nomntwana ngokwakhe.
- Futhi indlela yokugcina iyithakazelisa kakhulu - isijeziso socansi ngephutha. Oshade naye ohlukumezekile wenqaba ukusondelana nomyeni aze angaqondi icala lakhe.