Nsuku zonke sibhekana nezinhlobo ezahlukene zabantu. Amadoda, njengabesifazane, ayimvelo ngokwemvelo, isitayela sempilo, njll. Kodwa kwenzeka empilweni nokuthi owesifazane uyathandana nendoda ehamba phambili engekho omunye obizwa ngokuthi "indodana ka-mama". Futhi lolu hlobo lwe-portrait wesilisa engqondweni lungaholela ekuphileni kwakhe ezinye izinkinga. Phela, ukuphila komuntu lo mbhangqwana kuqala ukuphazamisa umama wendoda ethandekayo, ukuxhaphaza izenzo zakhe nezinqumo zakhe.
Ngakho-ke, ake sizame ukuthola indlela yokuziphatha ngqo nomuntu onjalo nokuthi ungaphinde ufundise kanjani indodana kanyoko. Amayunithi abalwa ngabesifazane akwazi ukuthola amandla okukhuthazelela iqiniso lokuthi empilweni yakhe emkhatsini wakhe nomyeni wakhe bayomama unina.
Indodana kaMamenkin - izimpawu
Kuyafaneleka ukunikeza incazelo yesici esiyinhloko, ngenxa yokuthi, ungazivikela ekuhlanganiseni nalolu hlobo lwamadoda. Yiqiniso, uma ungakabeki isisekelo kwanoma yiluphi ubudlelwane nalommeleli wesigaba esiqinile somuntu.
Cabangela uhlu lwezimpawu ezisiza ukuqonda ukuthi ungabona kanjani indodana yendodana:
- Isibonakaliso sokuqala sendodana kamama sixhumana njalo nonina.
- La madoda anichitha isikhathi sabo esikhululekile ekukhulumeni naye. Uyakwazi, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukushiya usuku lwakho, uma, isibonelo, unina udinga usizo lokuthwala ukuthenga endlini.
- Kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi uma umuntu osemusha engalondolozi lutho nomama nhlobo. Uma kwenzeka engafuni ukugcina ubuhlobo naye, buza mayelana nezintombi zakhe zangaphambili. Uma wonke umuntu, ngaphandle kokungafani, embi, khona-ke uyisimo se-misogynist. Futhi, uma ekhuluma ngokungahloniphi abesifazane, khona-ke ngeke kube yinto engafanele uma uyeka ukuxhumana nomuntu onjalo.
- Indodana kaMamenkin ivame ukukhuluma ngezinkinga zakhe, izihlobo zayo, idlulisele udaka kubo ngezwi lakhe elihlabayo, okusho ukuthi angenza okufanayo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nangemva kwakho. Futhi unina, cishe, ukuthi uzinikele konke okusemandleni ukuze enze indodana yakhe ijabule.
- Uma kwenzeka umuntu ebona konke okuzungezile njengesizathu sezinkinga zokuphila kwakhe, kodwa hhayi yena ngokwakhe, cishe cishe akaqapheli ukuthatha umthwalo wempilo yakhe. Futhi akekho umama ongenamahloni angeke agijimise indodana yakhe aze aphendukele eminyakeni engama-40, ehlonipha isimo sakhe somphakathi, njll Kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu onjalo ngumuntu obuthakathaka onenhliziyo enganeni futhi akakwazi ukudala umndeni wakhe.
Indodana kaMamenkin - psychology
Ake sibheke umphefumulo walolu hlobo lwabantu, zama ukuqonda izisusa zokuziphatha okungavamile.
Ngokuvamile isizathu sokuziphatha kwabesilisa abanjalo ukuthi bahlaselwa ukwesaba abamele besifazane. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, emzileni ngamunye omusha babona isidumbu esifuna ukushada naye, ukuthatha indawo yakhe yokuhlala.
Indoda - indodana yendodana ebuntwaneni yayilalela, iholwa futhi umama wayeyisibopho sokuqiniseka, ukuphepha ngokomzwelo. Lapho esemncane, wakwazi ukufeza konke ayekufunayo. Into eyinhloko ukuthi uyayithanda. Ngenxa yalokho, umama wenqaba ukugxila ekubeni ingane iba ngumuntu omdala, futhi uqala ukuphatha uthando lwendodana yakhe ngaye. Amadoda anjalo athambekele ekubeni omuhle emehlweni abanye, afuna ukuqashelwa nokuvunywa emehlweni abo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi unina, ngosizo lokudumisa nokuphathwa, ehlelwe kuye, kusukela ebuntwaneni, indlela enjalo yokuxhumana yokuthola injabulo kulolu hlobo lwamadoda.
Ungalungisa kanjani indodana yendodana?
Uma umuntu ngokwakhe efuna ukuzihlukanisa nonina, unakekele empilweni yakho, khona-ke kufanele usisekele ngokuqinile izinhloso zakhe, ngoba
Uma kwenzeka le ndoda ingafuni ukushintsha isimo sengqondo seSoviet kumama, khona-ke ukuthuthukiswa kokuphila kwakho komuntu kuncike kwisinqumo sakho. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi uma umyeni wakho engafuni ukucabanga kabusha ngemibono yakhe, unina uzohola indima emndenini wakho.
Ngakho-ke, namadoda - amadodana omama, omunye kufanele aqaphele, ngoba ekubukeni angase abe mnandi kakhulu, kodwa izinqumo eziningi zilawulwa unina.