Indoda ekahle - uyithandani?

Ngokuqinisekile wonke owesifazane unesithombe sakhe somuntu oseduze nomqondo omuhle. Yiqiniso, noma ubani kithi unayo "amaphuzu" ethu, esiyibheka njengabaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa esihlokweni samanje, sizozama ukwenza yonke le mingcele bese sizama ukudala isithombe somuntu ofanelekayo.

Yini okufanele ibe indoda ekahle?

Senze uhlu olulinganiselwe lwezimfanelo zomuntu ofanelekayo. Yiqiniso, lezi zinto zingashintsha, kodwa ezimweni eziningi, wonke owesifazane uyakwazisa umuntu onjalo.

1. Indoda enhle yomndeni, enesizotha . Ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kwesikhungo somndeni ngokuqinisekile kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zomuntu. Uma umuntu ephuthuma ekhaya ngemuva komsebenzi, kumkakhe nezingane, futhi engaya ebhajini ukuyobuka omunye umdlalo webhola nabangani bakhe - lokhu akusho ukuthi uyimpumputhe futhi ayihlosile - ngokuphambene nalokho, ukhuluma ngokukhula nokukhathalela izihlobo zakhe.
2. Amandla okuqonda owesifazane . Ngeshwa, abamele abaningi besilisa abanamandla abanalo ikhono. Ngakho-ke, amadoda afuna ukuphunyuka kwabesifazane, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuqonda ukuziphatha nesimo sakhe kubongwa ngokukhethekile.
3. Ukuma okuhle ngokomzimba . Nakuba bethi "ungaphuzi amanzi ebusweni bakho," noma kunjalo, umzimba omuhle womuntu uyojabulisa noma yikuphi owesifazane. Futhi akukhona ngamakhophi ayisishiyagalombili omshicileli, kwanele nje ukuba uphonswe phezulu, hhayi isisu saggy nesibindi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma owesifazane enesimo esihle kakhulu somzimba, khona-ke le nkosikazi inesisusa esengeziwe sokuzama ukuthuthukisa isibalo sakhe.
4. Ubulili nokuzizwa . Ikhono lokwenza owesifazane, ukumnika injabulo nokugqugquzela ukuqhubeka nokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye akukwazi wonke umuntu.
5. Ukuzibandakanya nokuzijabulisa . Yiqiniso, ngaphakathi kwemingcele enengqondo. Ikhono lokuthola ulimi oluvamile nabantu, ngeshwa, alukho kuwo wonke amadoda. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukusekela ingxoxo noma ukuhambisa ngokuzenzekelayo kwezinye izenzo ...
6. Ukuzinikela nokuthembeka . Ukuphawula ngalezi zimfanelo kuzoba okungadingekile.
7. Izwi lokuhleka nokuthanda impilo . Abantu abakhayo, abakhanyayo bakhanga abanye.

Ukubukeka okuhle komuntu

Uma udweba isithombe somuntu ofanelekayo, umuntu akanakugwema imininingwane enjalo ebalulekile njengokubukeka. Ngaso sonke isikhathi, isihloko somzimba womuntu asizange sishiye abantu abangenandaba. Yiqiniso, ngaso sonke isikhathi izindinganiso zobuhle zihlukile. Namuhla singabona lokho okuthiwa "inkolo" yomzimba wesilisa.

Inani elihle lomuntu, ngokusho kwemiphumela yezikhala zomhlaba wonke, libukeka kanje: ukukhula okuhle komuntu kungaphansi kuka-170 cm, izinyathelo kufanele zibe mncane, amahlombe kufanele aqhutshwe futhi amahlombe abubanzi. Abesifazane abaningi banakekele izintambo zesilisa, isizathu esilula: ingqondo yethu engacatshangelwayo kanye nemvelo iyasebenza, uma umuntu enesimo esihle somzimba kanye nezikhwebu zokuqina, uhlale ethatha uthando, enempilo futhi ekulungele ukuzala. Isisindo esihle, ngokweziningi, yilokho okushiwo ngegolide - indoda akumele ibe yindlala futhi ibuthakathaka, ukuze ifune ukondla, kodwa ukukhuluphala ngokweqile akubangele ukuhlwithwa kwabesifazane abaningi.

Ngakho-ke, sazama ukwenza isithombe esilinganiselwe sommeleli omuhle wezocansi ezinamandla. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umqondo wobuhle nokuphelela ungumuntu ngamunye. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda izimfanelo ezingokomoya zokuziphatha komuntu. Funa indoda yakho, naphezu kwemingcele yakhe yemvelo, ngoba imizwa kufanele ibe yindawo yokuqala.