Cishe, cishe wonke owesifazane empilweni yakhe wacabanga ukuthi kungaba kuhle ukuzwa okwesikhashana imicabango yabantu. Phela, abesifazane nabesilisa, njengokungathi kusuka kumaplanethi ahlukene, babe ne-psychology ehlukene kanye nokubukwa ngezinto ezifanayo. Vumelana ukuthi ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi abantu bacabangani ngabesifazane , bathi, nokuthi yini umbono wabo wangempela, omuhle. Emva kwakho konke, izingxabano ezivame ukuqhudelana ngezibambiswano ziba khona, okokuqala, ngenxa yeziphakamiso zomunye wabalingani.
Kodwa, ngokusho kwezibalo, amadoda akuyona inhlebo encane kunabesifazane.
Ake sithole ngokuningiliziwe okushiwo yilabo besilisa abangashadile nabashadile mayelana nabesifazane.
Okokuqala, inethiwekhi ye-intanethi igcwele izinkundla eziningi namasayithi, lapho wonke umuntu angathola khona ukuthi yini abantu abacabanga ngayo ngomuntu noma into ethile.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi amadoda angaboni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuxoxa ngokubonakala kwabesifazane. Baya, behamba, bahlala nomlingani wabo amagremu ambalwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bafaka umbala noma bafaka izimpande. Ngaphandle, uma kukhona okucasulayo noma okubajabulisa kakhulu kowesifazane, ngeke bayeke ukunikela ingxenye yengxenye yabo yamahhala kule ngxoxo.
Kuhlu lwezinto ezicasula ngokukhethekile futhi ngezinye izikhathi ezingenakuqondakala kubantu, lezi zingxoxo zabesifazane ngaphandle kwencazelo futhi ngaphandle kokuyeka. Ngeshwa, akubona bonke abantu abaqaphela ukuthi kwabanye abesifazane lokhu okukhulumayo akuyona ukuchitha isikhathi, kodwa indlela yokukhulula kwengqondo.
Uhlu olufanayo lungafakwa futhi ukuthi ngokulahlwa abameleli bobulili obunamandla bakhuluma ngalabo abakhathazekile kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo, bekhohlwa ukuthi kunesidlo ekhishini, futhi ihembe lomuntu lilinde isonto ukuligeza. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi imfashini yokwakha noma yini engakhiwa kuphela, iyabhubhisa amadoda. Ubuntu bemvelo njengabalulekayo, futhi buzobaluleka phakathi kwabantu.
Abantu bathi ngani ngabathandi?
Amadoda awasakazeki okuningi ngokuphila kwabo okwesibili. Ngezinye izikhathi, besaba ukuzivuma bona, bawela ezandleni zomunye wesifazane, bevele behluleka ukuzithoba. Amadoda ngezinye izikhathi ngesaba bacabanga ukuthi abahlukumezi bawo, akunakwenzeka ukuthi umuntu onjalo uzofuna ukushiya umndeni wakhe wamanje futhi abe nezingane nenkosikazi.
Kuthiwani amadoda ngamaqhawe abesifazane?
Okumangalisa ukuthi, naphezu kokuthi abesifazane abaningi baphupha ngesisu esiswini, amadoda ahlambalaza ngesisu somfana esincane. Amadoda akhuluma ngabesifazane abagcwele njengabesifazane abanamabele okunethezeka, ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngemuva kwodonga lwamatshe. Kubalulekile ukuthi abantu bacabange ukuthi laba besifazane bahlelwe kahle.
Yiqiniso, kuwumqondo omkhulu ukukwazi ukufunda imicabango yabantu mayelana nabesifazane, kodwa ukuze ufunde iqiniso mayelana nesimo sengqondo sesilisa , ngeke kube yinto engafanele uma uthola izimpendulo zemibuzo ejabulisayo evela kumuntu ojwayele.