Bambalwa abantu abangase bathande ukuhamba njalo komyeni wakhe, konke lokhu okukhathazayo ngenkathi kulinda kuyaphela ngempela. Kodwa amadoda ethu ahlukana kalula, ngoba ukubuyisela komyeni ekuhambeni kwebhizinisi kuyamjabulisa kakhulu, ukuhlangana naye kanjani? Yiqiniso, noma yikuphi ukuphakanyiswa kungaba kuphela okujwayelekile, njengoba umndeni ngamunye unesiqoqo saso sezinto ezincane ezinikezela ukuziqhenya.
Indlela yokuhlangana nomyeni ohambweni lwebhizinisi?
Ukuhamba ngendoda yakhe kungabangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu, kodwa ukwenza kuphela ukuhlinzekela umndeni. Ngakho-ke, phakathi nomhlangano womyeni ohambweni kubalulekile ukumbonisa ukuthi uyakwazisa kangakanani konke akwenzayo. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu kuyadingeka ukudala izimo ezikhululekile kakhulu zokubuya kwakhe. Cabanga ngalokho okuzofunwa kakhulu kumyeni wakho, ukuthi ungamangala kanjani futhi umjabulise ngemuva kokuhamba kwebhizinisi. Futhi manje buka imibono yakho ngamehlo omuntu okhathele, okuzoba yintandokazi yakho, futhi unqume ukuthi yini efanelekile ukuyisebenzisa, nokuthi yini okufanele uyenqabe. Kunengqondo ukucabanga ukuthi ngisho nendoda enesithukuthezi emva kohambo olude kuyojabula kakhulu ngokudla okunambitheka okuzenzela, ukugeza okushisayo nombhede ohlanzekile. Ngakho-ke, mayelana nokuhlangana ngokocansi komyeni wakhe kusukela ohambweni lwebhizinisi kufanelekile ukulibala, aze aphumule. Kodwa, yiqiniso, udinga ukucabangela imininingwane yohambo. Isibonelo, ukubuya kwakho okuthandayo ekuseni futhi akukhathele kakhulu, kungani ungakulungiseli ukwamukelwa ngothando? Yenza umhlahlandlela endlini, ulobe emicibisholo ukulandelana kwezenzo zakhe. Endaweni ngayinye, lungiselela ukumangala okumnandi.
Uma kukhona izingane, ungabasebenzisa ukulungiselela umhlangano - zivumele ukuba zisize ukubhaka ikhekhe, wenze iphephandaba leposi noma udonga lapho lithi khona nonke ujabulela ngokubuya kwakhe. Uma umyeni efika ekhaya ebusuku, kufanelekile ukuyeka konke okumangazayo
Uma ungacabangi nje ukuthi ungahlangana kanjani nomyeni ohambweni lwebhizinisi, kodwa yini okumamangalisa ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa, bese uzama ukushintsha okuthile kuwe. Isibonelo, shintsha isitayela sezinwele, ulahlekelwe isisindo ngokufika komyeni noma zama isithombe esisha. Zama nje ukuthi ungashintshi ngendlela emangalisayo, kungenjalo ukumangala kungase kungabi mnandi - indoda ifuna ukuhlangana nomuntu wesilisa, futhi hhayi nomuntu ongaziwayo ongenele endlini yakhe.