Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingana yomshado, impilo ehleliwe, ukuxhumana nabangani nokuvela kwezingane. Kubonakala sengathi konke kufana nabanye abantu, kodwa akukho ukuvumelana emphefumulweni. Umsebenzi we-conjugal ongenamkhawulo ngezimpelasonto, izingcingo kanye ne-SMS, ephathelene nokuphila kuphela, nokukhuliswa kwezingane njengomsebenzi. Imindeni eminingi ijwayele lesi simo futhi abaningi baye bathola amandla okuyilungisa.
Kuthiwani uma ngihlala nomyeni wami njengomakhelwane?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umyeni akazange abe mfokazi ebusuku. Phakathi neminyaka ende yokuhlala ndawonye, umuntu ngamunye uthola imithwalo eshisayo yezikhalazo ezincane, izimangalo kanye nokushiywa, okufana nokwakha izitini ezisetshenziselwa umlingani ngamunye ukuvikela ngokumelene nezwe elingaphakathi. Yiqiniso, kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuhlukana futhi uqale ukwakha ubuhlobo obusha, kodwa lokhu kungenzeka uma uzizwa ukuthi umyeni wakho naye akajabuli ukuhlala kuleli zwe.
Qala ukuthola ubuhlobo no "Peter 1" - hhayi okukhethwa kukho okuhle. Kungcono ukukhohlwa konke, hhayi ukukhumbula okwedlule bese uqala, njengoba besho, kusukela ekuqaleni. Uma wena nomyeni wakho nibe ngabasemzini komunye nomunye, futhi nithweswe yilo, khona-ke ni "amakhadi esesandleni". Zama futhi ukumtshela ukuthi uyathandeka kuwe, ekhangayo njengendoda, futhi ebiza, ekugcineni. Yiba nesithakazelo ezindabeni zakhe, njalo ummangaze ngento ethile, khumbula lokho ayekujabulela ngesikhathi lapho konke kuhle kuwe. Bhaka ikhekhe lakhe eliyintandokazi, uthenge i-disc ne-movie ayefuna ukuyibona, futhi uma ungazange uchithe isikhathi ndawonye, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza. Futhi nge-dessert, lungiselela ubulili obuqhakazile endaweni lapho umyeni wakho ayenakho ukuphupha kuphela.
Uma umyeni eba ngumfokazi, lokhu akusona isizathu sokuyeka ekuqaleni futhi "uphelelwe kude." Phela, kucacile ukuthi indoda ingadala ngokucindezela okunjalo futhi zibuze ngezizathu ezikhona zalokhu kuziphatha. Ngomusa, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo qhubeka enkambini. Qala ukulalela umbono wakhe, uma ungazange wenze lokhu ngaphambilini, meme ukuthi usamcabangela ukuthi uyinhloko yomndeni futhi uzimisele ukulalela. Uma umyeni nomyeni wakhe behlala njengabantu abangabazi, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha okuthile. Indoda ngeke ishiye owesifazane ongowakhe
Khumbula, uzodinga ukutshala kulobu buhlobo umzamo omkhulu hhayi ukuthi kuzoba khona ukubuya. Kodwa amathuba okubeka konke onakho okuningi, uma umyeni esaphila nawe futhi angeke ashiye. Yibani kuye ngendlela owawukhona esiteji somhlangano - onomusa, othakazelisayo, othandekayo futhi ngeke akwazi ukuwulahleka. Ekugcineni, kuzoshukela futhi ubuhlobo bakho buzofika ezingeni elisha.