Ukudlala ngothando kuyisethi yokuzwakalisa izenzo, izici nezinye izinto, kodwa, okokuqala, ukudlala ngothando. Amanye amantombazane anethalente le-innate lokudlala ngothando, abanye kufanele baqonde leli khono, njengokucula noma ukudweba. Kodwa empeleni, ekuqaleni ummeli wezocansi ezifaneleyo unamandla okudlala, kodwa into esemqoka ukukwazi ukudalula lezi zici ngobuhlakani. Umuntu angayithandana kanjani nomuntu ngendlela efanele, ukuze angabonakali ephikisanayo futhi eqondile, noma ingabe i-tight-lipped?
Kusho ukuthini ukudlala ngothando nomuntu?
Ngokuvamile, into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuqalisa ukudlala ngothando, ngoba kulokhu kuncike ekutheni kuyodingeka ukuthi kuqondiswe "umdlalo" ozayo. Ukuzijabulisa ubusuku obuningi buzokwenelela ezincane kakhulu, futhi uma ungafuni ukujwayelana nalo mfana, kodwa futhi uzama ukuzibandakanya naye ubuhlobo besikhathi eside, "ukudlala" kumele kube ngokucophelela futhi ngokumangalisayo ukuze kumjabulise, kwenze ufune ukuhlangana futhi.
Funda ukudlala ngothando nabantu abangabhekana nakho kuphela, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuthatha ezinye izindlela bese uqala ukwenza okuthile.
- Bheka . Ngokuvamile, ukubukeka yisikhali esikhulu sowesifazane. Kudingekile kuphela ukubeka oxhumana naye kwamehlo futhi ubheke umlingani ngokubukeka, njengoba uzobe esekhona kumanethiwekhi.
- Smile . Ethakazelisayo, edlalayo, elula, enhle, ehlekisayo ... Njengokubukeka, ukumomotheka kungasho okuningi ngomnikazi wayo nezinhloso zakhe. Futhi ngobuciko bokudlala ngothando, ukumamatheka kudlala okungabaluleki kangako kunokubukeka.
- Thinta . Njengokuthi ukukhanya okungajwayelekile okuthinta ekuqaleni kokuthandana kunamandla kakhulu kunokunyakaza okungaqondile. Kufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni yonke amantombazane. Thinta iminwe yesandla sakhe, ngithinte ngephutha emadolweni omlenze wakhe - futhi uhlanzekile, futhi ngobumnene, futhi ujabulise: i-cocktail ephelele.
- Ingxoxo . Futhi-ke, akufanele uvumele ukuyeka okungahambi kahle engxoxweni noma ekuthungeni okukhululekile. Kungcono ukuguqula isihloko sezingxoxo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukutshela okuthize, ungaphonsa ngengozi
ezinye izinkomba phakathi nenkulumo, ngeke kube yinto engafaneleki.
Indlela yokudlala ngothando nomuntu ngokubhala ngokufanele?
Ubuciko obuncane nokudlala ngothando ngokuxhumana. Kulesi simo, kuyadingeka ukuba ufunde kahle kahle igama, ngoba akunakwenzeka nganoma yiziphi ezinye izenzo. Ezingxenyeni ze-Inthanethi ungathumela izithombe ezihlukahlukene ngamazwi noma izithombe zakho, kepha awukwazi ukukhuluma kahle, amadoda kufanele ashiye isikhala somcabango , khona-ke azoba nesithakazelo.
Ukukhuluma ngendlela yokudlala ngothando nomuntu nge-SMS, kufanelekile ukukhumbula into esemqoka: amadoda ahlale engaqondi kahle amacebo. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nokungacabangi kufanele kube okungaqondakali kakhulu ukuze baqonde kahle.