Amantombazane amaningi aphuka ngendodana enhle neyothando, emva kwalokho kuzoba impilo yomndeni ojabulisayo. Futhi leli phupho lihle kakhulu futhi linomusa. Uthando nenjabulo kuphela azifiki, zidalwe kabi futhi ngokucophelela. Ngakho-ke, into eyinhloko akumele ithandwa kuphela, kodwa futhi ithande. Futhi zama ukuqonda ukuthi ungaba kanjani omuhle, omuhle, ohlakaniphile futhi okusemandleni omkayo womyeni wakho.
Lokhu kokubili kulula futhi kunzima ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, udinga nje ukumthanda. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi - uzodinga ukuhlakanipha kwezwe nokubekezela, ikhono lokuphatha umnotho kanye nesabelomali somndeni, nokunye okuningi.
Imiyalo yowesifazane oshadile
Nakhu okuyinhloko "Imilayezo yowesifazane oshadile" noma amathiphu angu-10 mayelana nokuthi ungaba kanjani umfazi omuhle:
- Gcina umyalelo ekhaya bese upheka ngendlela enhle, usebenzise imali ngokwezimali.
- Lungisa ukuziphatha kwakho endleleni yokuphila nemikhuba yomyeni wakho.
- Thola izihlobo zakhe futhi uvakashele ngokuphindaphindiwe. Futhi noma kunjalo, ungabagxeka!
- Ungafanisani nendoda yakhe namanye amadoda. Ukudumisa nokusekela, okwenza umuntu abe yimpumelelo.
- Vumela imihlangano ngezikhathi ezithile nabangani endaweni engathathi hlangothi. Ngabo, angaphazanyiswa ekuziphatheni komndeni futhi ahlale kancane emkhathini ohlukile, wesilisa. Ngisho noma bengakuthandi - ungawahluleli nomyeni wakho, vele ubonise umbono wakho ngokucophelela. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, yena ngokwakhe uzakushintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo kubo, noma kufanele ubekezelele ukuthi ukhona. Noma uzame ukuthola omunye umyeni, onabangane abafanele kakhulu.
- Nika umyeni wakhe isikhathi nesikhala, hhayi njalo ezama ukuyigcwalisa. Awudingi ukufuna ukunakwa ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- Qinisekisa uthando lwakho nobuqotho bakho. Tshela umyeni wakho ukuthi uyindoda yakho kuphela, ngisho noma engabi nomhawu, noma ukulungele ukuthethelela, noma ukholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuthola inkululeko yobuhlobo ngaphandle komndeni.
- Yabelana nomyeni wakhe umdlalo wakhe wokuzilibazisa. Futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nokuwa othandweni. Ukuze ube nesithakazelo kwebhola ne-hockey, ukuthenga omagazini abakhethekile, ukwazi ngamagama abadlali. Ukungena ekuthandeni kwakhe ukudoba noma ukuzingela, noma yini enye, ubeke imali kulokhu.
- Yamukela umbono womyeni wakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuthi amazwi akhe anesisindo. Yilungele ukwehlisa, ungahlali njalo, futhi ikakhulukazi - ubeke izimo zakho, ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uvumele lowo muntu anqume futhi azenzele yena.
- Vele uthande futhi uqonde umyeni wakho. Zama ukumenza ajabule.
Kodwa-ke, le mithetho, ngokwabo, ingabonakali njengeqiniso ngokuyiqiniso. Abafundisi nje ukuthi bangaba kanjani umfazi omuhle, kodwa nokuthi bangayisebenzisa kanjani indoda yakho. Kokuthile okufanele ulungise futhi uvumelane, kodwa ngento ethi ungathuli futhi ufihle okuthile ... Into esemqoka ukukhonza kahle hhayi ukucasula.
Ngakho kubonakala sengathi indoda iyidinga elidinga ukugcinwa nokulawulwa, futhi owesifazane naye kumele aziphathe ngokucophelela nangokucophelela ukuze angazi ngalokhu.
Ungaba kanjani umfazi ongcono?
Ukuba umfazi omuhle akukhona kuphela ukuhlakanipha nokukwazi ukuziphatha nomyeni wakho, kodwa nokubona umuntu, kumhlonipha ngempela. Futhi ungalandeli ngephutha imiphi imithetho. Phela, indoda eyodwa idinga ukuba umkakho abe ngowokuqala futhi oyinhloko owesifazane oyintombazane ne-sexy, futhi akanandaba nokuthi unkosikazi onjani. Omunye ulindele ukuqonda nokusekelwa futhi ngeke avume ukuziphatha "kwe-bitch". Futhi owesithathu akacabangi ngomndeni ngaphandle kwezingane eziningi ngakho-ke umkakhe kufanele abe ngumama omuhle.
Yiba yedwa - onomusa, omnene nowomusa. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ungakhohlwa ngawe. Ungaguquli isidalwa esingenasici esingenasici, inceku, ematasa ngemicabango yokugeza, ukupheka, ukuhlanza, ukuthenga ... Ungathathi umthwalo ogcwele ngenhlalakahle yomndeni wakho. Vumela futhi uzobe nesikhathi sakho nendawo yakho yokuphila. Buka ukubukeka kwakho, gcoba ubuhle bakho. Zishintshe wena futhi ushintshe okuthile ekhaya lakho, lizoletha intsha nokuvuselela ebuhlotsheni bakho nomngane wakho oshade naye angeke akhulume nawe.