Embuzweni wokuthi ungathola kanjani umfana efonini, impendulo isitholwe isikhathi eside futhi ibeka ohlelweni lwesicoco esivamile sokusebenza kwabasebenzi abasebenza ngokuthi "ucansi efonini." Cabanga ngemininingwane eyisisekelo evumela umuntu ukuba aqale.
Ungamthola kanjani umuntu ocingweni?
Azikho izimiso eziyisisekelo eziningi, futhi ungenza lokho okuhlangabezana nemigomo yakho. Into eyinhloko ukugcina isimiso sokubaluleka: ucingo olunamazwi alukwazi ukujabulisa, uma ufonela ngesikhathi somhlangano obalulekile. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala khumbula ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha isikhathi esifanele - uma esedwa, engasheshi noma kuphi, akacasuli nhlobo futhi uhlelwe kahle ekuziphatheni okudlalayo.
Ngakho-ke, izindlela zokuthakazelisa zingaba:
- Khuluma nganoma yini, kodwa ngezwi eliphansi, elibukhali. Kungcono, Yebo, ukukhetha isihloko sezinkumbulo zokuhlangana kocansi odlule.
- Jabulela. Ngokuqinisekile uyozizwa uzwela, ikakhulukazi uma umethemba ukumemeza ngezwi elinjalo. Akufanelekile ukuveza intshisekelo, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abaphumelelayo. Ukuze uzuze isimo sengqondo esifanele, phakathi kwengxoxo ungayinisa umzimba wakho noma ukushaya indlwabu.
- Chaza lokho okugqokeyo - Yebo, kufanele kube amasitokisi kanye nezinye izinto ezijabulisa umcabango womuntu.
- Uma umsebenzi wukuthi ujabulise umfana osuka kude, ungammema ukuba abe nobulili efonini. Ingxoxo enjalo kufanele iqale ngencazelo yezintelezi nezifiso zabo.
- Ungabika ukuthi ukhubekile ku-athikili noma encwadini echaza inqubo ethandwayo yocansi. Chaza inqubo uqobo, futhi umcabango womuntu uzokukwenza konke.
Uma ucabanga ngendlela ongayithokozisa ngayo i-sms-guy yomfana, ungathembela ezimisweni ezifanayo - kuyiqiniso, kulokhu, ukukhohlisa ngezwi ngeke kusebenze.
Ungamtholisa kanjani umfana ngamazwi?
Uma unayo kuphela indlela yokuxhumana yombhalo kuphela, ungaqala ingxoxo eyodwa
- zihlathulule ezithombeni ezithokozile;
- caphuna amafilimu ashukumisayo ayithandayo;
- qala ingxoxo ngalokho okufanele uzame ndawonye;
- khumbula izikhathi ezimnandi kakhulu zalabo ababephakathi kwakho;
- khuluma ngezifiso zakho ezingathandeki;
- Engxoxweni, tshela izinsizakalo zakho zesifazane (isibonelo, lapho ukhuluma mayelana nezitolo, khononda ukuthi amabele akho ayingxenye yomzimba womzimba ojwayelekile).
Isimiso esiyisisekelo sendlela yokuthakazelisa umfana ngokusebenzisa izincwadi, ukuchaza imininingwane esondelene nayo ezobangela emcabangweni wakhe ukukhohlisa izithombe.