Ukufunda amashaveli we-romance noma ukubukela amafilimu, siyamangala ukuthi lo mlingisi oyinhloko uye wakwazi ukuthola indoda enezinhlamvu ezimbalwa noma izibonakaliso? Futhi-ke, siphuthuma ngokushesha ukufuna ulwazi mayelana nokuthi singamthola kanjani embhedeni nokuthi yimaphi amagama nemisho ehola abameleli bobulili obunamandla, ngokukhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi akukho algorithm ecacile lapha, futhi ngeke kube khona-uyakhumbula, ukuthi wonke umuntu uhlukile? Omunye ubanga embindeni, kanti omunye uthanda ukukhalaza okuncane endlebeni yakho ngokuthi ungathanda ukulala kanjani naye ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, umuntu angaqonda kuphela amanye amaphuzu avamile ukuthi iningi lazo zonke izinsizwa amadoda asebesifazane, futhi ukuthola indlela yokuthola umuntu embhedeni uyoba nomnikazi othile.
Ungamthola kanjani umuntu ilungelo?
Ake sibone ukuthi yini eyenza abesifazane babonakale bebukeka futhi bezwa, okwenza abesifazane bathandeke.
- Izembatho ezingafihli amakhemikhali akhangayo omzimba wesifazane. Ngokufanayo, izinto ezifanelana nomfanekiso wakho ezindaweni ezifanele: upapa, isifuba namathanga. Hamba futhi ubheke ukuthi owesilisa ubheke isikhathi eside esikhwameni eside, futhi uma kulesi sigaba kuyoba nokuboniswa kwe-bandage ehlanganisiwe kusuka esitokisini, khona-ke kuyajabulisa. Futhi namanje zikhanga kakhulu ngama-blouses nge inkinobho engenakunqotshwa esongela ukuvuleka evulekile futhi ivule umbono omuhle wendawo.
- Amadoda athande ukucabanga, kepha ngoba abathanda ukubuka owesifazane lapho ehamba nge-naked, lapho kungenzeka ukuba aqedele ukuvulwa ezithombeni zomzimba.
- Futhi-ke, indima enkulu idlala yizingubo zangaphansi kanye nombala wayo. I-Linen kufanele ibe yowesifazane, enhle, enhle, futhi engeyona into engacacisiswanga yohlu lwezemidlalo elingajwayelekile. Ngokuqondene nombala wezingubo zangaphansi, khona-ke indawo yokuqala ekukhangeni ibomvu (i-crimson) neyomnyama. Futhi okuncane kakhulu kunengubo yangaphansi yangaphandle eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
- Ngendwangu efana nokuhlelwa ngaphandle, manje ake sithuthele ekuziphatheni. Bonke abesifazane bafuna ukwazi amagama aholela kumadoda, kodwa akukho okungahambisani nomgomo okufanele wonke umuntu. Ngakho-ke, kuphela ngesilingo nangesiphambeko ongathola ukuthi yimaphi amagama aphendulela ukuze uthole indoda yakho. Kuyiqiniso, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amadoda amaningi afana nokucaca, ngakho-ke amacebo angaguquki angase anganiki umphumela oyifunayo. Kodwa izikhathi eziningi "izinyembezi zokuyeka" zivela ezivumelwaneni ezingaphezu kwe-frank. Zama futhi uthole ithoni efanele.
- Ukuba nobulili, udinga ukukhombisa lo muntu ukuthi uyayithanda futhi, ukuthi konke akwenzayo akuyona ize. Ngenxa yokungabi nampendulo engxenyeni yakho (nokuphendula kanye nokusekelwa ngezwi) kunganciphisa noma yisiphi isifiso sokuphinda usebenzise izivivinyo. Ekugcineni, awufuni nje ukuzizwa ukhululekile futhi ufiseleka.
- Abesifazane abaningi bacabanga ukuthi bangamanga kanjani umuntu. Kulula, udinga ukuthola iphuzu lendoda yakho, lapho kisses zijabulisa kakhulu. Nakuba abanye abantu bathi kiss best is blowjob, kodwa lena akuyona yodwa indlela yokwenza indoda nice. Ama-mlejut amanengi avela ku-kisses ngisho nokuluma kanzima kwentamo, cishe konke okuthinta ukuthinta esiswini phakathi kwe-belly-inkinobho kanye nezitho zangasese. Izinzwa, izingono, amathanga angaphakathi, iminwe - noma iyiphi yalezi zindawo ingaba yindoda yakho ehlukumezayo, wena
Kuhlala nje ukuhlola konke ngosizo lolimi nezindebe. - Ukuthola indoda ngezinye izikhathi ngokwanele ukubuza othandekayo ngemicabango yakhe yocansi. Uma ulawula ukukhuluma ngaye, khona-ke uzongena esenzweni ngenjabulo.
- Ngokuqondene nesimo, sivame ukuzama ukwakha ubusuku obusondelene nabo, sicabange ngendlela ebonakalayo engathandekayo. Kithina kungase kube njalo, kodwa cishe bonke abantu abayidingi nhlobo, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukukhanya okukhanyayo ekamelweni kuyakukhetha ubumnyama obumnyama. Ngoba akukho lutho olungajabulisa ngaphezu kokucabangela owesifazane othandekayo ohamba naye.