Akubona bonke abantu abasheshayo ukwamukela imizwa yethando abazwa ngayo ngowesifazane. Isizathu salokhu singase sibe namahloni noma ukungabaza. Futhi asebekhulile abameleli bobulili obunamandla baba, ukuvinjelwa okungaphezulu kwabo kukhona ekubonakalweni kwemizwelo yabo. Kodwa indodakazi yangempela kufanele yazi impendulo yombuzo, indlela yokuqonda isihawu somuntu ovuthiwe. Ukwenza lokhu akulona kunzima kakhulu, kufanele nje umlinde ngokucophelela.
Kuyini ukuzwelana nendoda ngokuqondene nowesifazane?
Izimpawu zokuzwela kubantu abaneminyaka yobudala obuhle kakhulu ezinhlobonhlobo eziningi ezifana nendlela abamele abasha bezocansi abanamandla abonise ngayo isimo sabo. Kuphela lapha kukhona okuncane kakhulu okwesabekayo nokuphakamisa. Ukuzethemba okwengeziwe, isithunzi kanye nezenzo ezinhle.
Izimpawu zentukuthelo efihliwe yowesifazane yilezi ezilandelayo:
- uyakuhlukanisa ngokucacile esixukwini, uvuselele uma uvela, uqala ukukhuluma amahlaya, ngokuzwakalayo ukukhuluma, ngokungazi kahle aphenduke futhi abheke ukukhala kwangasese;
- ukuhlangana nawe, uqala ukuzilungisa ngokuzenzakalelayo amakhekhe wehembe lakhe, uboya, izinwele, ukudonsa ebhathini, i-watch, njll;
- emhlanganweni ngamunye uzokubuka kusukela enhloko kuya ezinyaweni, uma abafundi bekhulise - uyakuthanda kakhulu;
- uzama ukukuthinta, engazi yena ngokwakhe - ukumsekela ngendwangu, ukunikeza isandla ukusiza ukuvuka, njll;
- phuthuma ukunikeza ijazi lakho, uma uqaphela ukuthi okungenani ubanda kakhulu;
- lapho ukhuluma nawe ngezwi lakhe slip amanothi amnandi soft, futhi ngokushesha uphendula, uma ngalesi sikhathi uphazamiseka umuntu ongaphandle.
Kungakanani ukuzwelana komuntu oneminyaka ekhulile evezwe?
Uzwela lomuntu ovuthiwe lunganqunywa yizici ezingenhla, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi kuzodingeka ubheke ngokwengeziwe isimo sobuhlobo bakho.
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi umuntu onjalo uzwela kanjani,
Umuntu ovuthiwe unolwazi oluningi futhi uvame ukudumazeka kakhulu ebuhlotsheni. Ngakho kubanda kwakhe nokuzivimbela. Ngakho-ke, uma kunezinhlanzi ezibonakala emehlweni akho lapho ebonakala, futhi okungenani kancane kancane, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esiqinisekisiwe sokuzwelana kwakhe. Isiphetho esifanayo singadonseka uma ephikelela ukucindezela imizamo yokudlala ngothando namanye amadoda, ngokungazi ukuthi uzokuvikela emibonweni yabo, uzolwela ukunaka konke.