Kunezihloko eziningi zendlela esondelene ngayo indlela yokujabulisa indoda ethandekayo, ngakho-ke lesi sihloko asikho ngalokhu.
Lapha uzonikezwa ngezinketho eziningana ezichaza ukuthi unganikela kanjani kumnandi kumuntu hhayi kuphela ekamelweni lokulala, kodwa kwezinye izindawo zokuphila kwakho ndawonye.
Abaningi besifazane, bengena ebuhlotsheni nomuntu, behamba nabo bahlale naye, khumbula kuphela nokuthi benzeni ebuhlotsheni obuseduze ukuze ugcine umthandi "nabo". Ngokuqondene nokuphila, izinkinga ezincane zokuhlala ndawonye, abesifazane bavame ukuphela kokuphela futhi ngaphandle kokuthi amahlazo nokukhala abakwazi ukuphuma kule nkinga.
Ungamjabulisa kanjani lo muntu?
Igama elithandwayo kanye nekati lihle, singathini ngokumelela umbuso oqinile. EGibhithe lasendulo kwakukholelwa ukuthi uma intombazane ithanda amakati, umyeni wakhe naye uzothanda. Ukufana komuntu wesilisa nomuntu obala kuyabonakala. Amadoda, njengamakati, angakwenzeki aqiniseke ngokungaqiniseki kwawo nokuthi umfazi wadalwa kuphela ukuze anakekele abawuthandayo. Owesifazane kufanele aqonde isici esinjalo sesilisa futhi aphathe ngokuqonda. Isibonelo sokuziphatha okulungile kuleli cala ngeke kumkhathaze le ndoda isikhathi esiyikhulu ngoba ithinta iphepheni ekhishini, futhi imdumisa ngento enhle ayenze kakade.
Iseluleko esilandelayo sendlela yokuletha injabulo engathandeki endodeni iphathelene nayo yonke into eyaziwayo ukuthi indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini. Ukuhlolwa ekhishini ngaphandle kokwesaba, ngoba awuthandani omunye umuntu uyazi ukuthi yini okumnandi ukujabulisa i-getter yakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma kwenzeka, kufanelekile ukupheka okuthile ngokulandela iresiphi eqinisekisiwe. Konke, ekhishini, njengokunye kunoma yikuphi okunye "ukusebenzela okubalulekile," i-fiasco ingenzeka, futhi umuntu, kungakhathaliseki lokhu, uzolamba emsebenzini futhi adinga ukondliwa. Futhi khumbula ukuthi ukudla okulula futhi
Njengoba sesivele sibonile isihloko esithi "ukuletha injabulo yangempela eselulekweni somuntu" akulula, njengoba kubonakala kuqala. Kusuka intombazane ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda lo mkhuba onzima kudinga umzamo omkhulu nokubekezela. Okuhlangenwe nakho embhedeni ngokuqinisekile kuhle, kodwa ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuhlangana ndawonye empilweni yansuku zonke, ubuhlobo bakho ngeke bude kakhulu, ngakho kufanele ulalele iseluleko sochwepheshe.