Kusukela ebuntwaneni, siphupha isikhulu ngehhashi elimhlophe. Ungumuntu omuhle kunabo bonke, othembekile, onomusa, omnene, othembekile, othembekile ... Kodwa hhayi yonke leyo golide ekhanya. Ukuphila akunakulinganiswa futhi kuvame ukuletha izimanga ezingalindelekile futhi ezingenakwenzeka njalo. Yikuphi ukudumala okulindele uma kuvela ukuthi into yothando lwethu isivele isile, unomfazi, mhlawumbe ngisho nezingane ... Futhi siyaqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka, akusihle, kepha awukwazi ukuyala inhliziyo yakho. Futhi ungaba kanjani lapha? Ungakuyeka kanjani ukuthanda indoda eshadile uma kungekho nhlobo inhloso yokubhubhisa umndeni wakhe?
Inhliziyo, inhliziyo enhle ... Kunabantu abaningi abanesizungu futhi abafanele emhlabeni, kodwa cha, ngandlela-thile bamkhetha, bashadile ... Futhi kubonakala sengathi nguye owedlula kakhulu, futhi kungcono ukuba angaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi ... Ukhala, udabukile, futhi obengafuni ukubona abanye, nguye yedwa ozithatha yonke imicabango yakhe nemizwa yakhe ... Futhi nxazonke, kuyalulekwa ukuba umlahle ngaphandle kwekhanda lakhe ... Kodwa ukuthi ungamyeka kanjani uthando futhi ukhohlwe umuntu lapho ekujuleni komphefumulo wakhe kusekhona ithemba lokuthi uzoba ndawonye, futhi uzoba owakhe. Yiqiniso, uyaqaphela ukuthi kunamathuba ambalwa kakhulu, noma akekho, kodwa izithembiso ezithandekayo ukuthi uzohlukanisa, kodwa kuphela lapho umfazi ephilile, izingane zizokhula, njll. Futhi isikhathi siyaqhubeka futhi akukho lutho olushintshayo. Ngesinye isikhathi uqaphela ukuthi konke sekuphelile ebuhlotsheni obunjalo ngaphandle kwesikhathi esizayo, ngoba akukho lutho oluzoshintsha.
"Ngifuna ukuyeka ukuthanda"
Ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ekuqedeni ubuhlobo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthatha wonke amandla okuthanda ukuba angene ebusweni futhi ubheke ngokucophelela isimo. Ake ucabange uma kungazelelwe, ngesimo esiphumelele kakhulu kuwe, usaqhubeka ukuhlukanisa futhi kuzoba ngowakho kuphela. Kodwa ingabe ungamethemba manje? Emva kwakho konke, manje ungumkakhe osemthethweni, okufana nokuthi wayengubani, intombazane ayengikhohlise nawe. Ngeke yini uvakashele ngokuphindaphindiwe umcabango wesimo esifanayo? Phela, uma umuntu eshintshile kanye, yini eyimvimbela ukuba ashintshe okwesibili? Mhlawumbe manje imizwa yakho inamandla kakhulu ngenxa yokuthi ayiyona eyakho futhi mhlawumbe awudingi lokho "injabulo" nhlobo?
Umbono wokuthi wonke amadoda isithembu futhi enomfazi, azoqhubeka eshintsha futhi angeke ashiye umndeni wakhe ngephutha. Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu uthanda ngempela, njengoba ekhuluma, empeleni futhi ushiya umndeni wakudala. Kodwa ngokuqinisekile ukuxhumana kwangaphambili akukwazi ukuqedwa ngokuphelele, ikakhulukazi uma kunezingane emshadweni futhi kungenzeka ukuthi, ngezikhathi ezithile uzoxhumana nomkakhe wangaphambili. Ingabe uzokhululeka ebuhlotsheni obunjalo, ungawabiza ngokuthi ujabule? Cishe akunjalo. Kulokhu, ukuphuma othandweni kuyadingeka, noma ngabe kungenzeka ukuxhuma isiphetho ngaso. Inhlekelele yabanye akuyona isisekelo esihle somndeni ojabulayo.
Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ukuhlala kwakho emva kwezigcawu zokuphila komthandi wakho kuzomlandela ngokuphelele. Cabanga, yibo ngokwabo, akubi yini kuye? Kunabesifazane ababili abayidingayo ngempela, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi uyedwa kuphela okhohlisa ngaphandle kokuphela, kanti omunye unenkinga yalokhu - kuye, kholwa kimi, izinto ezincane zokuphila. Kodwa into edabukisayo ukuthi ngeke ube nesikhathi sokubuka emuva, ukuthi intsha izodlula kanjani, ubuhle buyodlula futhi cishe ngeke uyidinge nhlobo, ngoba, "ukhozi" lumvimbela ukuba angatholi muntu omncane? Futhi uzohlala wedwa impilo yakho yonke ... Akuyona into engcono kakhulu, akunjalo?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqeda ubuhlobo obungathandeki. Akumangalisi ukuthi bathi ngeke ukwazi ukwakha injabulo enjabulweni yomunye umuntu. Futhi ngemva kwakho konke