Ungamkhohlisa kanjani indoda?

Kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane, ngenxa yokuthobeka kwakhe, akwazi nje ukuheha ukunakekelwa kwalowo muntu omthandayo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kungukuthi uhlinzeka ngamaphesenti angu-100, ucele usizo "izikhali ezinzima" ngendlela yokugqoka encane ene-neckline ejulile, futhi umfana namanje akaqapheli futhi uyathanda ukuxhumana "namagundane aphuzi". Okufanele ukwenze futhi ukunyenga umuntu kuzokutshengiswa kulesi sihloko.

Izisekelo zokudlala ngothando

Okokuqala, kufanele kucaciswe ukuthi unethuba lokuphumelela. Abesifazane abaningi balindele ukuthi amadoda ngokwawo azobaqaphela, kodwa ungalinda uze ugugile. Isibonelo, uhlezi ku-cafe noma ku-club, udinga nje ukubheka umfana oyithandayo bese ummbamba imizuzwana embalwa. Kuzokwane ukummema kumdanso. Ukudlala ngothando kuyisikhali esinamandla futhi uma kungekho amakhono kule ndaba, kufanele bafunde. Eduze ne-coquette, njalo kukhona imibhangqwana emibili noma emithathu, kepha abesifazane abazidlayo, abazidlayo bayagwenywa.

Ukubukeka

Njengoba unesithakazelo kulokho ongamheha umuntu, ungahlanganyeli ekugqokeni izingubo. Yiqiniso, uma uhlela ukuphoqa umuntu embhedeni, ingubo epholile iyokwamukeleka kakhulu. Abamele abaningi bezocansi ezinamandla bazovuma ukuthi le ndlela isebenza cishe njalo. Kodwa uma umsebenzi - ukuklolodela nokubamba, kufanele udle ukuze indoda iphume egumbini lokucabanga. Isici esincane se-decollete noma se-translucent ende esikhwameni isiketi sizokwenza okungaphezu kwamabhothi kanye nezifinyezo ezincane.

Amanye amasu

Uma zonke izinto zihilelekile, kuze kube seminikelo yokusiza ngomsebenzi, uma kungumngane osebenza naye, ungazama ukuheha umuntu, ungamnaki. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isithakazelo samanye amalunga ocansini anamandla. Kubalulekile ukuvusa umoya wokuncintisana kumuntu, ngoba owesifazane odingekayo kuwo wonke umuntu, ngokuqinisekile uyomdinga. Akuvunyelwe ngisho nokuhlela impikiswano encane noma impikiswano, ngoba umhlaba uyazi izibonelo eziningi lapho ubuhlobo buqala ngokuqondile ngalokhu. Akusilo lutho abakushoyo "kusukela enzondo kuya ekuthandeni-isinyathelo esisodwa".

Okubaluleke kakhulu - intombazane kufanele ijabule, ingakhathazeki, idlule impilo ephethe ikhanda layo eliphakeme. Akekho ozolalela abesifazane besifazane abaye bahlukunyezwa impilo yansuku zonke kanye nezindaba. Ngendlela, le ndlela kufanele iphinde ikhethwe kulabo abafuna ukukhohlisa indoda eshadile futhi abazi ukuthi bayayenza kanjani. "I-Zhenatiki" ayifuni ukuphuma "emlilweni nasemlilweni", ngakho bayokujabulela ukuthola ithuba lokuhamba ngaphandle kwemiphumela. Kuyadingeka ukuba ubazise ukuthi nabo bathanda ukuzijabulisa ngaphandle kokuqhubeka okujulile, bese kuthi nakanjani bayodonsa.