Ekhumbula ukuthi amadoda ayethanda amehlo, abesifazane besimanje bathatha lesi sigungu sezinsizakalo futhi baqala ukuletha umzimba wabo eduze, bafaka amakhelisi, basuse izintambo, izinwele ezikhulayo kanye ne-eyelashes, njll. Kodwa-ke, amadoda angewona ama-fetishist futhi, ngaphezu kokubukeka, qaphela izwe langaphakathi labesifazane.
Yini amantombazane abathanda abantu ngokubukeka?
Igcinwe kahle . Yiqiniso, akekho othi ukubukeka akubalulekile, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu akuyona indlela owesifazane ebukeka ngayo, kodwa ukuthi uziveza kanjani. Ungakwazi ukuphikisana okuningi mayelana nemingcele yesifuba, isisindo nesikhumba, kepha uma konke kubonakala kubalwa, bese kumuntu omele ubulili obuhle, lo muntu uzohlale elalela. Ngakho-ke, labo abanesithakazelo kulo, njengabantu abadala abakhulile njengamadoda, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi lokhu kuyindaba yokunambitheka, kodwa ukuthi kufanele ihlambuluke futhi ilungiselelwe kahle ayiyona into emangalisayo.
Preppy . Lokho owesifazane akubukeka nokuthi lokho egqoke nakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Izembatho kufanele zibe zihlanzekile futhi zihlanzeke, futhi akuvumeleki ukuthi zibize kakhulu, kodwa zihlezi kahle futhi zingenaso icala elibi. Okufanayo kuya okwenziwe. Bambalwa abantu abayothanda umbala ongcolile noma ongenayo "wokulwa". Amadoda athande kakhulu ngobuciko ubuciko obugcizelele ngaphezu kokushintsha okuphelele ngokubukeka ngosizo lwezimonyo.
Yini okufanele owesifazane abathanda abantu?
Ukungenasici nesifazane . Njengoba uyazi, bonke abantu baholi bezemvelo, abahlukumezi nabazingeli, ngakho-ke bafuna ukuvikela nokunakekela owesifazane obuthakathaka, osengozini, ozwelayo. Kungenxa yalokhu kubesifazane, futhi balungele ukwakha ubuhlobo kuphela nalabo abangenandaba nokuvumela ubuholi kumlingani womndeni. Ngenxa yokukhathalela okuqotho nomngane wakhe, ukukhathalela izinto zakhe zokuzilibazisa nezenzo, uyobe esilungele ukuthwala izandla zakhe, futhi uma esakwazi ukuthethelela futhi ahlale ethembekile kumuntu okhethiweyo wakhe, kuzodingeka amkhulekele kuphela.
Ukuzethemba . Kodwa-ke, isidalwa esinesifiso esincinci esingenayo imibono, ummeli wobulili obunamandla ngeke akhange. Umlingani kufanele abe "ngomyeni wakhe", kodwa ngempela ukuzethemba, ukuzihlonipha nabanye, ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo. Ngenkathi yobuchwepheshe obusha, lapho konke kulinganiswa ngemali, amadoda esaba kakhulu ukusebenzisa, ngakho-ke bafuna owesifazane ongenakho ukuzimela, ongathandabuzeki. Lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe kulabo abafuna ukuhlala kahle empilweni ngendleko yomlingani. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, lawo madoda abesifazana abangadingi lutho bazimisele ukuzinikela futhi banikeze ngangokunokwenzeka.
Emancipated . Yebo, uhlangothi olusondelene nalo mbuzo lubaluleke kakhulu, kepha lapha futhi abesifazane baya kude kakhulu. Bakhokha kakhulu ngalesi sihloko, bagxila kulokho abesifazane abathanda abantu besembhedeni, bezama ukukhombisa ngobusuku bokuqala konke abakwenzayo. Yiqiniso, indoda izojabula nomlingani oya ocansini kanjalo, kodwa kusukela kulo mbono ukuthi uzoqhubeka ukuyihlolisisa futhi iyokwenza, futhi ubuhlobo besikhathi eside bukhetha ngokungaqiniseki futhi buvulele konke okusha, ukulungele ukuthola injabulo, futhi ukunikeza, futhi kuphela Uma kukhona imizwa phakathi kwabalingani kanye nokukhanga okuhlangene.
Kulesi sihloko, ungakhuluma isikhathi eside nesikhathi eside, ukuphikisana ngokuthi ngabe amadoda amade afana nabesifazane abancane, futhi angaqiniseki ngokwabo - abesifazane besimabhizinisi, abakulungele ukunquma konke. Konke kuwukuphela komuntu, kodwa izazi ze-psychologists azikhathali ukuphinda ukuthi ubuhlobo obuhle nomshado ohleko kuphela ongakhiwa nendoda enesifiso esikhulu sokumjabulisa. Akuzona wena ukubheka inzuzo eningi, kepha zama ukungaziphambuki.