Owesifazane othandweni uyakwazi okuningi ukufunda ukuthi kwenzekani enhloko nasemphefumulweni womthandi. Kodwa ungaphelelwa ithemba, ngoba kukhona indlela yokuthola konke okufunayo - ukuqagela kumuntu othandekayo. Kukhona inombolo enkulu yokukhethwa okuzokusiza ukuthi uthole yonke imininingwane edingekayo.
Ukuqagela ngamakhadi omthandayo
Ngokwesiko, thatha ipaki lamakhadi angu-36. Into yokuqala okudingeka ukwenze yenza ikhadi lomuntu ozoqagela. Uma lo mfana osemusha enkosi yamadayimane, futhi uma umuntu omdala engumuntu, khona-ke imbongolo. Manje ukucabanga njalo ngomthandi wakho ngokucophelela kukhishwa amakhadi. Udinga ukubeka 4 imigqa yamakhadi ebheke phansi kuma-9 ama-PC. Ukubaluleka kwamakhadi okuzobe sekuzungezile, kuzolandisa lonke ulwazi oluthakazelisayo:
- okungenhla imicabango yakhe nemizwa yakhe;
- Labo ngakwesokudla nangakwesokunxele kukhona okwamanje;
- okuphansi kunesikhathi esedlule, okubalulekile okwamanje.
Ukuchazwa kwamakhadi anenhlanhla ukufunda kulesi sihloko.
Ukuqagela ngobuhlobo bomuntu othandekayo
Lolu khetho luzophendula yonke imibuzo yakho. Ngomkhuba, udinga ukuthatha ipaki lamakhadi angu-36 bese ulixuba ngokuphelele. Umthandi kufanele abe khona njalo emicabangweni yakhe. Susa idokodo ngesandla sakho sobunxele, thatha ikhadi eliphezulu bese ulibeka etafuleni. Hlanganisa futhi, susa iphakethe bese udweba ikhadi. Phinda inqubo izikhathi ezingu-6. Ngenxa yalokho, kufanele uthole umugqa wamakhadi angu-6, okunye okuyokuvumela ukuthi ufunde ulwazi oluningi:
1 - imicabango yabathandekayo;
2 - yini enhliziyweni yomlingani;
3 - yini elindele ubuhlobo bakho;
4 - isifiso somfana;
5 - okulindelwe ngumlingani we-akhawunti yobudlelwane;
6 - ukuphila komuntu othandekayo.
Ukuqagela ngemizwa yothandekayo
Ngaphambi kokuqala komkhuba, kudingeka ucabange ngomthandi wakho. Thatha ipaki lamakhadi angu-36, uhlanganise ngokucophelela, ubeke amakhadi angu-6 ubheke phansi emgqeni bese u-6 ngaphansi kwawo. Bheka isakhiwo, uma kukhona amakhodi amabili afanayo ahlukene, asuse futhi asuse esikhundleni sakhe esisha emgqeni. Kubalulekile ukubeka amakhadi kusukela emgqeni ophezulu, kusukela kwesobunxele kuya kwesokudla. Ngaphezulu ngezansi ubeka umugqa omusha, uphinde ususe okufanayo nokunye kuze kube sekupheleni. Ngemuva kokuthi wonke amakhadi afanayo asuswe, phindaphinda umkhuba, kuphela manje ubeke amakhadi angu-5. Susa amakhadi afanayo futhi. Phinda uhlele amakhadi angu-4, 3 no-2 bese ususa okufanayo. Ngemuva kokuthi uqedele ukubhula, bala inani lezimbili eziqoqwe:
I-pair 1 - umlingani womfana womndeni kanye nawe;
Amabili amabili - lo mfana uhlambalaza ngawe;
Ama-pair amabili - uyakuthanda;
Ama-4 amabili - wakukhumbula;
Amabili amabili - umfana uhlala ecabanga ngawe;
Amabili amabili - ngeshwa, kodwa unomunye;
Amabili amabili - ulindele ubuhlobo obude.
Ukuhlukaniswa ekucabangeni othandekayo
Ngokwesiko, thatha umkhadi wamakhadi we-tarot. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale, cela amakhadi umbuzo bese ucabanga ngomuntu oyithandayo. Hlanganisa ipaki bese uthatha amakhadi angu-5, asho lokhu okulandelayo:
1 - ubudlelwane;
2 - imizwa yomlingani;
3 - imicabango yabathandekayo;
4 - izenzakalo zesikhathi esizayo;
5 - imiphumela yobuhlobo.
Ukuchazwa kwamakhadi we-tarot kungatholakala kulesi sihloko.
Ukuqagela ekupheleni komuntu othandekayo
Lolu khetho luzokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi ngabe umfana osanda kuhlukanisa uzokwazi yini ukubuya. Kunzima kakhulu uma othandekayo ehamba ngaphandle kokuchaza noma yini, futhi intombazana ayikwazi ukuthi uzobuya yini, ngabe izoba ndawonye futhi, njll. Lokhu ukubhula kuzosiza ukuthola izimpendulo kuzo zonke imibuzo zentshisekelo.
Ukwenza umkhuba, udinga ipaki elijwayelekile lamakhadi, ulixube kahle, thatha ikhadi eliphezulu bese ulibeka etafuleni. Bese uvuselela futhi uthathe elinye ikhadi le-ode, elibekwe phansi. Yenza lokhu izikhathi ezingu-6. Amakhadi asetafuleni azokutshela okulandelayo:
1 yimicabango yabathandekayo;
2 - imizwa yomfana;
3 - ikusasa lakho;
4 - izifiso zakhe;
5 Imicabango yabathandekayo;
6 - kwenzekani empilweni okwamanje.