Abantu abaningi emva komshado bayeka ukusebenza kulobudlelwane, ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi bathole futhi akukho okuzoshintsha isimo sezinto. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyiphutha elikhulu, njengoba imindeni ibhekene nezinselelo ezahlukene nsuku zonke, okuholela ekutheni abesifazane abaningi ngokushesha noma kamuva bacabanga ngalokho okufanele bakwenze uma uzonda umyeni wakho. Ngesinye isikhathi, kukhona ukuqonda ukuthi kunomuntu ongaziwa ngokuphelele eduze kwakhe okungekho okufanayo. Isimo esinjalo singenzeka okwesikhashana noma sihlale isikhathi eside.
Ngiyamzonda umyeni wami, bese ngithanda ukuthi ngenzeni - iseluleko sezengqondo
Lesi simo singaqondiswa kalula, ngoba inkinga ingokomzwelo kuphela. Esimweni esinjalo, ingxoxo eqotho nomlingani iyadingeka ukuze kuxazululwe zonke izinkinga ezikhona bese uqala ukuxhumana naye. Qala kabusha ubuhlobo ngokubuyisela uthando kanye nothando.
Indlela yokuphila ngokuqhubekayo uma ngizonda umyeni wami:
- Ukuze ubuyele imizwa efudumele ebuhlotsheni, qala ngezinguquko zakho. Yenza umyeni wakho abuye othandweni futhi, okuyinto izokwenza spodvignet ukuba akwenze.
- Khumbula okuhlangenwe nakho okudlule kanye nemizwa, cabanga ngobuhlobo kulesi siteshi sothando.
- Izazi zengqondo zincoma ukuthi uhlaziye futhi uqaphele ukuthi yikuphi ukuqala okokuqala kwakukhona umuzwa wenzondo. Ukunquma imbangela kuyokwenza konke kusebenze.
- Abantu abaningi basiza ukuvuselela ebuhlotsheni, ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo, kokubili okuhle nokubi. Imizwa emihle ingatholakala ngokweqile, isibonelo, ukuxhuma epharadini.
- Ngena emikhayeni emisha yomndeni, ngokwesibonelo, zisho izincomo komunye nomunye futhi udumise ngisho nezincane ezincane. Amazwi amnandi aphefumulayo, okuzobangela kokubili ukufisa ukulondoloza uthando .
Kungani ngimzonda njalo umyeni wami?
Abesifazane abaningi babhekana nesimo lapho zonke izenzo zomlingani zidala ukucasuka futhi zonke izici zayo ziphenduka ukungaphumeleli. Ngokuvamile lesi simo senzeka lapho ingane izalwa noma ezinye izinguquko ezinzima zenzeka. Lesi yisimo esibi kakhulu futhi isidlo sakuthandana asikwazi ukulungisa. Lapha udinga usizo lochwepheshe, ngakho-ke uye endaweni yokuqokwa nomuntu wezokwelapha. Ukuhlaziywa okujulile kwalesi simo kuzosiza ukuthola izimpande zenkinga futhi uqonde ukuthi ungamyeka kanjani ukuzonda umyeni wakhe. Uma kungakusizi lutho, kungcono ukunquma ngesahlukaniso, ngoba uma inkinga idonsela phambili, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwano obuhle, okubaluleke kakhulu uma kunezingane.