Njalo ulimi lunamagama amaningi. Khona-ke, kuphi lapho kuvela khona izidakamizwa zamagama ezingadingekile? Masibuyele emvelaphi.
Amagama-amaphilisi amagama ngamazwi enkulumo. Baqine ngokuqinile ngesilulumagama somuntu, bangena nje enkulumweni yokuhlangana, kodwa futhi babe nomkhuba. Igama lezimpungushe alisho lutho nhlobo. Lawa angamagama angenalutho-ukhula, kumele alahlwe. Umuntu osebenzisa amagama anjalo enkulumweni yakhe akawuboni, usetshenzisiwe. Kodwa-ke, amagama azwile avimbele kuphela ukuqonda nokuqonda kwenkulumo, kodwa futhi akhathele i-interlocutor.
Lapho inkulumo isuka, inkulumo ye-parasitology nayo yavela. Kancane kancane, ukufaka amagama kwagcwalisa izibalo zethu futhi kwandisa inani lezihlushwa zethu.
Izimbangela zokusetshenziswa kwamagama-ama-parasites
- silulumagama esilinganiselwe. Abantu abancane abafundele ukuhlupheka badinga ukuba khona kwamagama-ukhula kaningi. Nakuba kukhona okungafani;
- ijubane eliphansi lokucabanga. Uma umuntu engakwazi ukuhamba ngokushesha futhi athole igama elilungile, ngokuvamile usebenzisa umsindo wezilwane ze-hitch. Lokhu kwaziwa kuwo wonke umuntu: "Eee," "A," "Mmm." Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi imisindo enjalo iyathukuthelisa okuningi futhi "yinqume" amahemuhemu;
- Ukusebenzisa ngamagama amanga ngamabomu. Ngomunye umuntu, le ndlela yokuxhumana iyingxenye yesithombe, isithombe. Kukhona abantu abafaka ngamabomu amagama angama-parasitic, futhi kubonakala sengathi kufanelekile;
- ukubonakaliswa kwemvelo yomuntu. Ukusetshenziswa kwamagama athile amahle angatshela okuthile ngomuntu. Uma igama elithi "izibungu" lisetshenziswe enkulumweni "mfushane", kusho ukuthi umuntu akafuni ukuzibophezela izingxoxo, izincazelo, ungumuntu ovilaphayo wokuphila. "Eqinisweni" ufuna ukuvula iqiniso kubantu, umuntu uyalwela iqiniso. "Uyawuqonda" uyisibonelo sokufaneleka futhi uxolise njalo kwabanye abazungezile.
Intsha yanamuhla isebenzisa inkulumo yabo ngamazwi anjenge-parasitic: "i-pancake", "thayipha" futhi "iyafana". Kusho ukunganaki , ukuhlangana, isithombe somqondo nezenzo zamantombazane amancane nabafana. Amagama ahlukumezayo enkulumweni akhuluma ngezinga eliphansi lobuhlakani, elingase lizwe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngenhlanhla, abaningi bayadlula. Ukusebenzisa amagama-ama-parasites, uphazamisa kakhulu inkulumo yakho nokuziveza kwakho.
Ungasusa kanjani amagama-ama-parasites?
Ake sikhulume manje mayelana nendlela yokulahla amagama-ama-parasites enkulumweni yakho. Okokuqala, udinga ukufunda indlela yokulawula inkulumo yakho. Ngaphezu kokulawula okuqinile, udinga "izigwebo" wena. Uma ubeka umgomo ukuze ufunde ukukhuluma kahle futhi uhlakulele kahle , khona-ke ube nesigaba esinqumweni sakho.
Ekhuluma ngendlela yokubhekana namagama-izidakamizwa, kubalulekile ukuqaphela isidingo sokuzifaka esikhundleni salo ngenye into. Indlela elandelayo izobe isebenza kahle, uma uyithatha yonke imithwalo yemfanelo.
Khetha umsindo ozwakalayo. Kungaba ukuhleka, ukushaya, ukukhahlela noma ukukhahlela. Uma nje uqaphela ngemuva kwakho ukuthi usho igama lokhula, bese ulandela "uhle" ngokukhala. Isixuku enkoneni yenkulumo? Kulungile, ngakho-ke amazwi akho-ama-parasites alungile kakhulu engxoxweni. Kholwa, ukushintshwa
Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, amagama aphikisayo abhekwa njengenye yezindlela zokunqoba ukuyeka emsebenzini wokukhuluma. Uma umuntu engakwazi ukudala ngokushesha impendulo engxoxweni, kuvele isikhashana esiphundu. Lokhu kubangela ukuphendula okungaqondakali - ukugcwalisa ngokushaya, ukukhwehlela, amagama aphindaphinda namagama enokhula.
Ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuthula, ikakhulukazi njengoba ubuciko bokukholelwa kusekelwe ekuhambeni kwesikhathi okukhulunywe ngaso.