Abantu abaningi abazi ukuthi ukugwema ukuthini, nakuba lesi simo sivame kakhulu emphakathini wethu futhi ngezinga elithile linabantu cishe bonke. Lena yindaba ebalulekile yokubambezela, okuhlehlisela phambili okuzobe isadingeka kwenziwe. Ngenxa yalokho, lokhu kuholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu, kokubili empilweni nasemisebenzini yobuchwepheshe.
Futhi lokhu akusivivi?
Cha, ubuvila nokuzilibazisa yizinto ezihluke ngokuphelele. Uma umuntu engenzi lutho ngenxa yobuvila, uzizwa ehle, ejabulela ukuphumula ngokuphelele. Ngokuphambene nalokho, umuntu obhekene nokuziqhenya ukubhekana nokukhathazeka, ukwesaba, okwesikhashana okuba yimbangela yokucindezeleka.
Ngamanye amazwi, umuntu ongenalutho uyajabula, akenzi lutho, futhi umuntu ompofu onokuziqeda uhlale ehlambalaza unembeza, efuna isenzo ngokushesha, kodwa umuntu "akanamandla" okukwenza lokhu.
Izimpawu
Ngakho-ke, uma kunenkinga - ukugwema, - izimpawu zayo kufanele zaziwe kuwo wonke umuntu.
Umuntu obhekene nalesi sifo sengqondo, ufuna ukuhlehlisa kabusha wonke amacala abalulekile "kamuva", ikakhulukazi uma kunesikhathi esiningi sokuqaliswa kwawo. Usebenzisana nanoma yini, kodwa akudingekile. Ubeka i-VKontakte noma ku-Odnoklassniki, ubeka i-solitaire, utshela ozakwabo ngokutshala onogwaja noma ophuza itiye. Ngamanye amazwi, kunzima ukulibazise umzuzu lapho kusadingeka ukuba wehlele ebhizinisini.
Ngenxa yalokho, akaphoqeleki ukuphoqeleka ukwenza wonke umsebenzi ngesivinini esisheshayo, okuyinto ngokwemvelo echaphazela ikhwalithi yayo futhi imbangela yokugxekwa iziphathimandla noma ukungajabuli othisha, uma kungumbuzo othi ubani okutadishayo.
Lesi simo asikwenziwa ngezikhathi ezithile (umsebenzi othile awuthandi), kodwa njalo futhi ngenxa yalokho kuholela emiphumeleni eyingozi yengqondo.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze?
Ngokuqondene nezizathu zalesi simo, ososayensi abanombono ovamile. Babiza ngokuthi abahlukahlukene kakhulu, futhi akukho nguqulo eyodwa echaza wonke amaqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi ukuchitha isikhathi kusho ukuthi kuyinkinga engokwengqondo, kuyini imvelaphi yayo, akunakwenzeka ukuqeda imbangela yayo futhi kubalulekile ukusebenza nemiphumela yayo.
Ukuze kunqobe ukuvinjelwa, ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe ukusebenzisa amasu okuphatha isikhathi , zingatholakala kwi-intanethi. Isisekelo sabo siphuza ukuthi yonke into iyadingeka - ngokuphelele konke, ezinkulu nezincane, - ukuhlukanisa ibhizinisi ngamaqembu amane:
- Kubalulekile futhi akuyona okuphuthumayo (ukuphothula esikoleni, ukuba yinhloko yomnyango ...).
- Okubalulekile futhi okuphuthumayo (uqedile idiploma, uthenge imithi, thatha umbiko ...).
- Okubalulekile futhi okuphuthumayo (iya kusikhumbuzo, bukela i-movie oyikhonzile ...).
- Akubalulekile futhi akuyona okuphuthumayo (ngokuvamile "chronofagi" (abaqeda isikhathi): xoxa efonini noma uxoxe enetheni, xoxa nezitolo, ukudlala amakhadi ...).
Ngokusekelwe ekuhlaziyweni kwalezi zimo, uhlu lwamacala lusetshenziswa, kuqala ngezidingo ezibalulekile futhi eziphuthumayo. Futhi kugcwaliseka, kodwa kusukela noma yikuphi lapho kunokubala okunjalo ukuthi amacala avela emaqenjini ahlukene ahlukile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kudingekile ukuba uhambisane nemithethonqubo futhi uqiniseke ukuthi unike isikhathi sokuphumula.