Indlela yokubhekana nokugwema ukugwema?

Uke waba nezinto ezinjalo: amacala angaphezu kwephahla, futhi ubonakala ulungele ukubhekana nawo, ugcwele amandla namandla, kepha ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, esikhundleni sokuvula idokhumenti edingekayo, chofoza isithonjana "Kindergartens" noma uthathe isikhathi ukufunda isimo sezinga eliphansi kumanethiwekhi omphakathi? Khona-ke uyazi isimo sokuqeda futhi uyazi ukuthi kukuvimbela kangakanani ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho. Kodwa ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokuqeda, yini okufanele yenziwe ukuze ususe lo mkhuba wokulutha ukuchitha isikhathi sakho emakilasini angenalutho? Indlela elula ukuzidonsa ndawonye bese uqala ukusebenza, kodwa ayisebenzi kuwo wonke umuntu, ngakho-ke ake sibheke ezinye izindlela zokunqanda ukuvinjelwa.

Izizathu zokugwema

Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, ayikho impendulo eqondile, kunemibono emine kuphela, ayikho enye eyamukelekayo noma yonke indawo.

  1. Ukukhathazeka ngekusasa, ukucindezeleka, ukuthambekela ekupheleleni.
  2. Ukuzivimbela ngenxa yokwesaba ukuphumelela kakhulu kunabanye, ukuzethemba okuphansi.
  3. Umoya wokuphikisana, osiphoqelela ukuba simelane nezindima ezibekiwe.
  4. Inkolelo yokugqugquzela okwesikhashana ikhombisa ukuthi umuntu ubheka amacala abalulekile kakhulu athembisa umvuzo owengeziwe ngesikhathi esingaphansi, yonke iminye imisebenzi ibhekwa ukuthi ayihambisani nalokho, ngakho-ke imiswa ebhokisini elide.

Indlela yokubhekana nokugwema ukugwema?

Njengoba sekushiwo ngenhla, ukuqeda ukuhlehlisa ukuhlehliswa kwezenzo ezingathandeki nemicabango. Uhlu lwamacala anjalo lungaba umxhwele, futhi uma ungaqali ukulwa nokuqeda, khona-ke kukhona ithuba elihle lokungcwatshwa ngaphansi kwentaba yomsebenzi ophuthumayo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthatha okungenani into eyodwa engathandekayo, okungukuthi, ukusebenzela wena. Ngakho-ke, ungakunqoba kanjani ukuziyeka? Nazi ezinye izindlela eziphumelelayo.

  1. Fundisa ngokwakho ukwenza intombazane eyodwa embi ekuseni. Lokhu kuzoba yisinyathelo sokuqala sokunciphisa uhlu lwamacala akho. Into esemqoka ukuzimisela ukukwenza, uzobona, wonke umsebenzi uzohamba lula.
  2. Indlela yokubhekana nokugwema ukugwema? Kumele usebenze nsuku zonke. Mhlawumbe ukuthola kunzima ukwenza umsebenzi othile izikhathi eziningana ngeviki, ngakho-ke kufanele uzame ukukwenza kancane kancane nsuku zonke.
  3. Funa umngane ngomsebenzi ongajabulisayo. Ngokwesayensi kufakazele ukuthi kwabaningi, ukusebenza nomunye inkampani kubonakala kunomsebenzi kunomuntu ngamunye.
  4. Ukunqoba ukuvinjelwa kungaqala ngokulungiswa kwecala elihlehlisiwe, isibonelo, ukuqoqa ulwazi lokulungiselela umbiko. Awudingi ukukwenza namhlanje, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ekucubunguleni ulwazi, unquma ukuthi kungcono ukuqeda umsebenzi ongathandeki ngokushesha, ngoba konke kulungele lokhu.
  5. Zenze uhlu lwamacala okumele uqede ekupheleni kosuku olulandelayo.
  6. Qaphela ukuthi unamathele ezinkathazweni ezincane, kungcono ukubhekana nezinto ezingadingeki kakhulu ngokushesha, ucabange ngakho, ungabheka izinto ezincane.
  7. Usizo oluhle empini yokulwa nokuqeda umsebenzi luzoba amandla okujabulela umsebenzi owenziwe. Dumisa ngokwakho konke ukunqoba, ungakwazi ukunqoba wena, usuqedile.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukugwema ukukhubazeka kungokwejwayelekile uma nje kungakuvimbeli ukuba usebenze futhi uhlale ngokujwayelekile.