Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi kwabesifazane

Umuntu wesimanje usetshenziselwe ukulawula konke, ukuthi kungenzeka kuphela - imizwa yakhe siqu, ukubhekana nokucindezeleka. Futhi ngosizo lokuphathwa kwesikhathi ungase uzizwe njengowesifazane wangempela wesikhathi.

Ukuphatha isikhathi samadoda nabesifazane, ingabe kukhona umehluko?

Kubonakala sengathi izindlela zokuphathwa kwesikhathi zifana naso sonke umuntu, ngakho kungani kube khona ukwahlukaniswa kwabaphathi besilisa nabesifazane ngesikhathi somuntu siqu? Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuphathwa kwesikhathi kwamadoda kuhilela ukuhlela amahora okusebenza. Futhi labesifazane bahlanganisa izindaba zasekhaya lapha, ukuphathwa kwesikhathi kwabesifazane akuyona nje indlela ephumelelayo yokuphatha isikhathi, kodwa indlela yokuphila.

Izinsisekelo zokuphathwa kwesikhathi kwabesifazane

Izimiso eziyinhloko zokuphathwa kwesikhathi zizofana nomholi kanye nomama wendlu.

1. Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlela isikhathi sakho. Bhala phansi ubusuku ngaphambi kwakho konke okudingeka ukwenze ngosuku olulandelayo. Futhi, funda ukuhlela ngokuphumelelayo: ungatholi inani elikhulu lamacala, bheka ezinye izindlela. Okokuqala uzenze uhlu olulukhuni, okungukuthi, lokho okudingeka ukwenze ngesikhathi esithile. Isibonelo, imihlangano namaklayenti, ingxoxo yephrojekthi neziphathimandla, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa (isidlo, isidlo sasekuseni), vakashela ku-stomatologist. Ukwengeza uhlelo lwansuku zonke ngolwazi olunezimo eziguquguqukayo, okungukuthi, umsebenzi ongenziwa nganoma isiphi isikhathi. Amacala ahlela ngendlela yokubaluleka.
2. Uma uphazamiswa ohlelweni lwepulani oluhleliwe, imibuzo yomsebenzi, usizo lungaba "ifulegi elibomvu". Vumelana ukuthi cishe amahora angu-2 ngosuku awukwazi ukuyithinta, ngoba ngalesi sikhathi ulungiselela umbiko (isabelomali, hlola ukulinganisa). Ukuze abasebenzi babone ukuthi umatasa, faka uphawu lwesimo esimweni etafuleni (ibhokisi lokuhlola, iposikhadi, inothi "Angiyikho"), bese ufaka ifoni kumshini wokuphendula.
3. Ukuhlela, abasebenzi baxwayisa, kodwa isikhathi asanele? Bona ukuthi "idla" imizuzu yakho, gcina amarekhodi okusetshenziswa kwesikhathi sokusebenza. Mhlawumbe ubheka nge-e-mail kaningi, unomkhuba wokugqoka izingubo zangaphansi zakho futhi uxoxe nentombi yakho efonini, ngaleyo ndlela ubalekele umsebenzi oyinhloko. Thola ukuthi yini ekuvimbela ekusebenziseni isikhathi ngempumelelo, wakhe umsebenzi wakho ukuze kungabi nento ephindaphindiwe. Ingabe ufuna ukuxoxa ngale nkinga - vumela bonke abasebenzi (amalungu omndeni) ukuba bahlanganyele engxoxweni, banesithakazelo kulo, ukuze bangachithi isikhathi baphinda izincazelo zabo.
4. Igunya lokudlulisela. Mhlawumbe ubhala kakhulu ezintweni ezincane abanye abangakwenzela zona. Ngiyavuma, njengoba ngiyinhloko yomnyango, akusizi kahle ukuthola konke okuncane kule phrojekthi ngokwakho, kungcono ukunika isisebenzi esisebenzayo esizokuqoqa lonke ulwazi oludingekayo kuwe. Yenza yonke imisebenzi yesikole ngokwayo akudingekile - ukugeza ipuleti emva kokuba indoda ingakwazi. Ngokufanayo, ingane kufanele ijwayele ukuzimela, ngeke ugijime ngemuva kwayo kuze kube yilapho iningi.
5. Ngokuphathwa kwesikhathi kukhona ukuvivinya okuhlukile okusiza ukuqonda kangcono izimiso eziyisisekelo. Omunye wabo uphakamisa ukubhekana okungenani "i-frog" eyodwa ngosuku. "I-Frog" yinto engavunyelwe kakhulu, esivame ukuyiyeka "ngokusasa" - ukuhlanza, ukukhuluma nomphakeli onobungozi kakhulu. Funda okungenani kanye ngosuku ukususa ezinkingeni zempahla eyodwa "enjalo".
6. Qinisekisa ukuzidumisa ngalokho okwenzile. Ngemuva komhlangano ophumelelayo, uphuze ikhofi kanye nekhekhe, ubhala umbiko ngeqembu lezibalo, uphume emoyeni emoyeni. Qinisekisa ukuthi uthatha amakhefu emsebenzini futhi ungathathi izinsuku zebhizinisi. Vumela iSabatha ngeSonto kube izinsuku lapho ungakwazi ukuphumula.

Amabhuku amahle kakhulu ekuphatheni kwesikhathi

Ngaphakathi kwalesi sihloko, ungatshela kuphela ngezinto eziyisisekelo zokuphathwa kwesikhathi, ngoba isihloko siyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi siyathandeka. Imininingwane eminingi ngombuzo, ukuqonda incazelo, izosiza izincwadi ezingcono kakhulu ekulawuleni isikhathi. Nazi ezinye zazo.

• "Ukufinyelela kanjani imiphumela" - Mark Forster;
• "Amakhono Ayisishiyagalombili Abantu Abasebenza Ngokuphumelelayo" - UStephen Covey;
• "Indlela yokulungisa izinto: ubuciko bokukhiqiza ngaphandle kokucindezeleka" - UDavid Allen;
• "Isikhathi sokuhamba: indlela yokuphatha ukuhlala nokusebenza" - UGleb Arkhangelsky;
• "Ukuhleleka okuphelele, uhlelo lwamasonto onke lokulwa nezingxabano emsebenzini, ekhaya nasemakhanda" - Regina Leeds.