Ingabe unqume ukuthengisa noma ukushintshanisa indlu noma indlu, kodwa ekubhaleni ukuthengiselana, ubhekene nenkinga yokukhipha ingane encane endlini? Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi kakhulu, futhi kulesi sihloko sizokutshela ukuthi umnini angakwazi yini ukumnika ingane nokuthi yini edingekayo ukuze ingane iphume endlini noma indlu nokuthi ngabe umnikazi angakwazi yini ukubhala ingane.
Ngithola kanjani ingane encane ephuma endlini?
Esinye sezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kuyadingeka lapho kudingeka ukuba ubhale ingane encane evela ezindlini ezingasetshenzisiwe noma zikamasipala. Uma lokhu kungumntwana womnikazi wefulethi, empeleni, ungumnikazi wendawo yokuhlala, kusukela kulungu ngalinye lomndeni, ingxenye ethile yendawo isabelwe. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi ungathengisa ifulethi elinjalo (indlu) kuphela ezimweni ezicacisiwe:
- Ngemuva kwemvume yeziphathimandla zesifundazwe zokulondoloza.
- Ngokuvumelana kwabo bobabili abazali (ababheki noma abazali abamukelayo).
Kubonakala sengathi kunzima? Kodwa empilweni yangempela ngokuvamile kunzima ukufeza lezi zimo. Emva kwakho konke, akubona njalo abazali bomntwana abahlala ndawonye noma okungenani balondoloze ubuhlobo. Kwenzeka ukuthi ubaba (noma umama) wengane akakaze abonakale cishe kusukela ekuzalweni, akanalo ulwazi ngaye (lapho) khona futhi akukwazi neze ukuxhumana nomzali wesibili. Umthetho unikeza izinombolo eziningi uma imvume yomzali wesibili ingadingeki:
- uma kunqatshelwe amalungelo omzali kayise noma umama ;
- lapho ebhekwa sengathi ulahlekile;
- lapho ubaba engekho ekuzalweni kwengane (eqoshwe emagama kanina);
- uma kufa omunye wabazali.
Futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi ufake isicelo kumphathi wokugcina (umkhandlu wokugcinwa).
Ngeshwa, ibhodi labama-trustees ayinayo i-algorithm eyodwa yezenzo, echazwe ngokucacile yizwe nemithetho. Isimo esiyinhloko sabasebenzi bama-ejensi wokulondoloza ukuvikela amalungelo omuntu wengane, ikakhulukazi, ukulondolozwa kwelungelo lakhe lezindlu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukukhishwa komntwana kudingeka uqinisekise ukuthi angabhalwa ngokushesha ekhelini elihlukile, ngokuhlinzekwa kwezimo ezifanele zokuphila. Lokhu kungukuthi, ungabhala ingane yakho ngaphandle kwendlu yakudala kuphela emva kokuba uthenge entsha (noma ungathola indawo lapho ungabhalisa khona ingane ngaphandle kokuphula amalungelo akhe ezindlini). Maye, ngokusemandleni, lapho ulungiselela ukuthengiswa kwezindlu ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi lokhu akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi, iziphathimandla zokunakekela zizokuvumela ukuba ubhale ingane uma uthenga indawo entsha, evulekile noma ebiza kakhulu (kulawa mazombe izindleko zesabelo somntwana zizobe ziphakeme kunalesi sakhiwo esedlule). Ngokusho komthetho, lapho kuphetha ukuthengiselana kokuthengwa nokudayiswa kwezindlu zangempela, amalungelo omnikazi wengane akufanele aphulwe, okungukuthi, izindleko zokwabelana efulethini elisha azikwazi ukuba zingaphansi kweyaphambilini. Ezimweni lapho umndeni uphoqeleka ukuba uthuthele endlini engabizi, endala noma encane, amalungelo omntwana aphulwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, okusho ukuthi iziphathimandla zokulondoloza ngeke zikhishwe imvume yokukhishwa kwengane. Kodwa naphezu kwalesi simo kukhona indlela yokuphuma - ukuthola imvume, isabelo somntwana esikhathini esilandelayo kufanele senyuke. Isibonelo, emndenini wabantu abathathu (abazali ababili nezingane), lokhu kwenziwa kanje: ifulethi elisha likhishwe hhayi emithathu, kepha kwababili - omunye wabazali nengane. Ngakho-ke, izindleko zesabelo esisha (isigamu) efulethini lizobe liphakeme kuneyaphambilini (eyodwa yesithathu).
Njengoba ungabona, ukukhipha ingane kusuka efulethini elingasetshenziswanga akuyona elula njengoba kungase kubonakale ekuqaleni, ngakho-ke uma uhlela ukuthengwa kwezindlu zangempela, qaphela inqubo kusengaphambili.
Ngithola kanjani ingane ngaphandle kwefulethini?
Ukuze kukhishwe endlini evela kumntwana omdala, imvume yakhe iyodingeka. Uma ingane yenqaba ukuyinika, thola
Kunoma yikuphi, qaphela futhi ungangabazi ngaphezu kokuhlola kabili yonke imibhalo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma uthenga indawo lapho kubhaliswa khona ingane yangaphandle, ekugcineni abazali bayo bangayinselela kalula ukufaneleka komthengi futhi bakunqande impahla ngokuya enkantolo. Futhi kulokhu, umthetho uzoba njalo ohlangothini lomntwana, hhayi umthengi omdala.