Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ukuze ingane ijabule ingane idinga uthando lomzali nokunakekelwa. Kodwa ngaphandle kwalokhu, ingane ayikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwezingubo, izicathulo, amathoyizi, imithi, izincwadi nezinye izinto eziningi ezibalulekile. Ukuze ingane ibe nakho konke okudingekayo, uma nje umndeni uhlukanisile futhi abazali behlukanisile, umzali oshiyayo uphoqelekile ukuba akhokhe ingane ngokulinganayo. Njengoba wazi, i-alimony ikhokhwa kusukela kumholo womunye wabazali. Kodwa empeleni abaningi kakhulu basebenza ngaphandle kokubhalisa, ngokusemthethweni bengayitholi noma iyiphi imali. Indlela yokuqinisekisa ukukhokhelwa kwesondlo kwengane kulokhu? Izenzo zomthetho zombuso waseRussia nase-Ukraine zihlinzekela ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kutholakale ekutheni kutholakale i-alimony esilinganisweni semali.
Amakhodi Omndeni waseRussia (Isigaba 83) ne-Ukraine (Isigaba 184) sisho ukuthi i-alimony ingaba yi-alimony ngenani elilinganiselwe kula macala alandelayo:
- umkhokheli akanalo imali engenayo;
- umkhokheli we-alimony unengxenye yengeniso enomusa;
- Imali engenayo yomkhokhi ihluka noma ixhomeke ngenkathi.
Ngifaka kanjani isicelo se-alimony eqondile?
Ukuze ufune ukulingana ngemali enzima, kufanele ufake isicelo enkantolo, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukufaka imibhalo elandelayo esitatimendeni sesimangalo:
- ikhophi yesitifiketi sokuzalwa kwengane kanye nenhlukaniso (uma abazali behlukanisiwe ngokusemthethweni);
- amakhophi wesicelo (ngenani lamaqembu) ekubuyiseleni kwe-alimony;
- imibhalo emalini yengeniso yommangali kanye nenkokhelo yommangalelwa;
- imibhalo yokuhlala komunye nommangali;
- imibhalo ngenani lokugcinwa okudingekayo kwengane.
Ukuqala ukukhokhwa kwe-alimony ngenani elilinganiselwe lemali kungababili umzuzi we-alimony kanye nomkhokheli wabo. Inkantolo ingalawula ukukhokhwa kwezingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18, ngesikhathi esifanayo nemali eyingqayizivele futhi ingxenye ephuma kumholo.
Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ukwazi kuphela ngemali yomlingani wangaphambili, ukuze athole kuye ngokungahambisani nemali oyifunayo akwanele, inkantolo izodinga ubufakazi - imibhalo esemthethweni eqinisekisiwe. Kubuye kunengqondo ukuthi kudinga ukuqokwa kwe-alimony eqondile lapho lowo owayengumlingani oshade naye enomsebenzi obonisa imali engenayo engavamile - umdlali, umculi, umlingisi, njll.
Inani le-alimony ngenani eliqinile
Inani elilinganiselwe le-alimony liqhathaniswa maqondana nezinga lokuhlala kwengane futhi lixhomeke ekukhokheni izinkomba - ukulungiswa kabusha ngokubheka ukwehla kwemali. Uma kunqunywa inani le-alimony, inkantolo iyakubheka isimo somshado kanye namathuba okubambisana nawo wonke amaqembu, kokubili umkhokheli kanye nomzuzi we-alimony, futhi ivela ekukhuliseni izinga lokugcina lezokuphepha kwengane. Uma izingane zihlala ngenxa yesehlukaniso sabazali ngabanye bomshado, inkantolo izobuyiselwa i-alimony ngokuqondene nomzali onomholo ophansi ngenani elilinganiselwe.
E-Ukraine, inani le-alimony angeke libe ngaphansi kuka-30% wenani lemali yokugcina imali eyakhelwe ingane yengane ehambisana nayo (Isigaba 182 soMthetho Wezomndeni wase-Ukraine). Ngo-2013
Uma umkhokheli we-alimony engasebenzi futhi, ngokwanele, akakwazi ukukhokhela ingane yesondlo, ngakho-ke akumkhululi ekukhokhweni kwesondlo. I-Alimony ngalesi sikhathi iqoqa futhi yakha isikweletu, okuzophoqeleka ukuba ikhokhe ngemuva kokuthola imali. Uma engathandi ukwenza lokhu, umamukeli we-alimony unelungelo lokufaka isicelo sokubamba impahla yakhe.