Ngeshwa, ezweni lanamuhla kunezimo lapho abazali befuna ukwakha khona ukwenqaba kwengane. Kunezizathu eziningi ezikhuthaza abantu ukuthi bathathe isinyathelo esinjalo. Kodwa uma isinqumo sesivele senziwe ekugcineni, kuyoba usizo ukujwayele uhlangothi lomthetho ngalolu daba futhi ufunde indlela yokwenza ukwakhiwa kwengane.
Ikhodi Yomndeni Yamanje ayihlinzeki ngendaba ethi "Ukukhanuka kwengane." Empeleni, ngokusho komthetho, akunakwenzeka ukushiya ingane. Noma kunjalo, abazali banelungelo lokubhala isikhalazo sokwenqaba kwengane, ngesisekelo esilahlekelwa amalungelo abo abazali.
Ukunikezelwa kwamalungelo kwengane akusho ukukhululwa emisebenzini. Uma ubaba noma umama enquma ukushiya ingane, abavunyelwe ngokomthetho isibopho sokubamba iqhaza ekukhuliseni kwakhe futhi banikeze ukweseka okungokwenyama.
Ukwenqaba ingane ngomama esibhedlela
Uma lona wesifazane ethathe isinqumo esinjalo, kufanele abhale isitatimende ngokunqatshwa kwengane esibhedlela. Kulesi simo, wonke amadokhumenti adluliselwa kusuka ekhaya lokubeletha labaphathi bokugcina, futhi ingane ifakwa endlini yanezingane. Ngokushiya ngokuzithandela kwengane, umama akayithathi amalungelo omzali izinyanga eziyisithupha - ngomthetho unikezwa isikhathi sokucabanga futhi, mhlawumbe, ushintshe isinqumo sakhe. Ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi, umnakekeli angamiswa ingane.
Uma umama engazange athathe ingane esibhedlela, ngokusho kwesinqumo sabaphathi bokugcinwa, ubaba, okokuqala, unelungelo lokuthatha ingane. Uma ubaba, naye, engamthathi umntwana, khona-ke leli lungelo lamukelwe ngugogo, omkhulu kanye nezinye izihlobo.
Ukushiywa kwamalungelo omzali kuthatha izinyanga eziyisithupha. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi ingane isesikhungweni sombuso.
Ukulahlelwa kwengane nguyise
Ukwenqaba ingane ngubaba kwenziwa enkantolo. Uma ubaba enqume ukushiya ngokuzithandela umntwana, khona-ke kufanele abhale isicelo esifanele ku-notary. Kunoma yiliphi ihhovisi lika-notary, umzali unikezwa isampula yefomu lokulahla kwengane. Ukwenqaba ukuphawula komzali kusuka kwengane kuhanjiswa enkantolo, futhi ijaji lithatha ngokunquma amalungelo omzali.
Owesifazane angasolwa ngokulahla amalungelo omzali kayise kula macala alandelayo:
- Uma ubaba ehluleka ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe yokukhulisa ingane;
- uma uyise enonya ingane;
- uma uyise engudakwa noma umlutha wezidakamizwa;
- uma ubaba enza icala ngokumelene nengane.
Amaphuzu angenhla, futhi, angesizathu sokuphika amalungelo omzali kamama.
Ubaba onqatshelwe amalungelo omzali akhululwa yisibopho sokukhokha u-alimony. Uma ingane ingane enqatshelwe uyise yamukelwa ngumunye umuntu, ngakho-ke zonke izibopho zinikezwa umzali osamukelayo, futhi ubaba ophilayo uyakhululwa ekukhokheni i-alimony.
Kuphela ngemuva kokulahla ubaba noma unina wamalungelo omzali, iziphathimandla zokugcina zingase ziqoke
Ukwenqaba ingane eyamukelwe
Ngokusho koMndeni weKhodi, abamukelayo banelungelo lokuba namalungelo afanayo nabazali ngokugcwele. Ngakho-ke, uma ummangale ethathe isinqumo sokwenqaba ingane eyamukelwe, khona-ke inqubo efanayo yokuphulwa kwamalungelo yenziwa. Umlandeli, njengomzali, kulokhu akukhiphi emisebenzini.
Izizathu zokwenqaba izingane
Ngokwezibalo, abazali abaningi banqaba izingane zabo esibhedlela. Isizathu salesi senzakalo kaningi ukuhluleka ukuhlinzeka ngempahla yengane, ukungafuni kukababa ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo, umama osemncane kakhulu.
Kwezinye izimo, ngokuyinhloko, ukulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali kubazali bezidakamizwa nezidakamizwa ezidakamizwa kwenziwa.