Ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane, abazali bacabanga ngokubamba i-christenings. Kusobala ukuthi lesi siko kufanele silungiswe kusengaphambili, ngoba kunama-nuances amaningi. Ungafunda konke kubangane obabhapathiziwe kakade noma esontweni lomfundisi. Futhi sizozama ukukusiza futhi sikunikeze ulwazi oludingekayo mayelana nendlela yokubhapathiza kahle ingane, uma kungcono ukukwenza nokuthi yini okudingeka iphekwe kulo mkhuba.
Kungani kubalulekile ukubhapathiza ingane?
Ubhapathizo ungenye yezenzakalo ezibalulekile empilweni yomuntu ongum-Orthodox. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngenxa yalesi simfihlakalo, kunamathela ekukholweni kukaKristu, ukuxhumana kuqiniswa phakathi komuntu noNkulunkulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubhapathizwa kusho ukuhlanzwa esonweni sangempela. Esikhathini somkhuba ingane ibizwa ngokuthi igama lobuKristu lenye yezingcwele. Ngakho ingelosi ebhapathiziwe inomngane oqaphayo oyovikela emandleni amnyama angabonakali futhi amqondise endleleni yangempela.
Isikhathi esingakanani ingane ebhapathiziwe?
"Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ubhapathize ingane ngemuva kokuzalwa?" - lo mbuzo uvame ukukhathaza abazali abasha. Ngokwenkolo yesonto, umkhosi wobhapathizo ungenziwa ngosuku lwesishiyagalolunye lokuzalwa, uma ingane ibuthakathaka futhi igula kakhulu. Kodwa unina ngeke akwazi ukuvela ngoba kubhekwa "kungcolile". Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingu-40 kusukela ekuzalweni komama, umthandazo wokuhlanza okhethekile ufundwa - Umthandazo Wosuku Lamashumi Amashumi. Kuphela emva kwalokho, umama angaya emkhosini obalulekile. Kodwa uma usana lulele noma lugula, ubhapathizo lwenziwe futhi ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokuzalwa.
Babhapathizwa ngaziphi izinsuku? Kungenzeka yini ukubhapathiza ingane ngesikhathi sokuzila?
Umkhosi wokubhapathizwa ungenziwa nganoma yiluphi usuku - oluvamile, oluthandekayo noma lokugcoba.
Ngezinye izikhathi kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi uzobhapathiza kuphi ingane. Ukuzikhethela kwakho kungawela kunoma yisiphi isonto, kodwa uma ungumfundisi wethempeli elithile, christen ingane kulo. Ngezinye izikhathi i-christening iyenzeka ekhaya - uma ingane igula kakhulu.
Indlela yokukhetha u-godparents?
Akufanele kube abantu abangajwayelekile futhi abangajwayelekile, ngoba ozala obazali bazoba abafundisi abangokomoya bengane yakho futhi bazothatha ingxenye ebalulekile empilweni yakhe, ngoba bayomnika u-godfather isithembiso sokuhola indlela yobuKristu yokuphila. Qaphela ukuthi onkulunkulu besikhathi esizayo kufanele babhapathizwe, bangahlanganyeli phakathi kwabo noma bangashadile.
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali abatholi "abaqokelwe" abafanelekayo kubomama nodadewabo futhi banesithakazelo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba babhapathize ngaphandle koNkulunkulu. Ngeshwa, lokhu akunakwenzeka, ngoba ingane ayinayo ikholo layo, futhi yizintombi ezithandana nazo. Kuyoba ngokwanele ku-godfather oyedwa: unkulunkulukazi wentombazane no-godfather womfana.
Yini ukupheka i-christenings?
Kusengaphambili noma esitolo sesonto ungathenga amakhandlela, ithawula. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi yikuphi izingubo ukuthi omazintombi bazobhapathiza ingane. Kumele kube i-cap entsha nehembe elimhlophe. Ingahlotshiswe nge-lace noma e-embroidery. Isiphambano, uketshezi nesithonjana ngokuvamile zinikwe isiphambano.
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Ekuqaleni, umkhosi wabaninikazi bakaNkulunkulu uphika kathathu umntwana kaSathane nazo zonke izenzo zakhe, bese kuthi izikhathi ezintathu ziqinisekisa isifiso sokuhlanganisana noKristu. Khona-ke umthandazo othi "Isibonakaliso Sokholo" ubizwa ngokuthi isiphambano. Ngemuva kokuthi amanzi ekhanyiswe emfonini, umpristi uzogcoba ingane ngamafutha (izindlebe, ebunzini, esifubeni, izandla, izinyawo). Ingane ihlanjululwe futhi ifakwe kufonti.