I-aphorism ejwayelekile kakhulu mayelana nokuguqulwa kwempahla kungokwalawo Valery Saltykov. Uchaza lo mkhuba njengomzamo wokufeza ubuhle ngaphandle kobulili bakhe. Ngempela, ukuguqulwa kwempahla kuhilela ukufihla umuntu ezembatho zobulili obuhlukile. Ziyini izizathu zalokhu kuziphatha? Sizokwenza ngokuhlelekile.
Imininingwane
Uma eminyakeni engu-10 edlule izincazelo eziningi zesigodi ezingaziwa kunoma ubani, zazibhekwa njengezinto ezimbi, kodwa manje zikhuluma ngakho ngokusobala. Lokhu yingxenye yokuphila kwethu, umphakathi.
Ukuphambana kwengqondo ngokobulili kuyindlela yokuziphatha kobulili komuntu, ehambisana nokuba khona okungavamile, kusukela ekubukeni komphakathi, ukuthambekela kobulili nezifiso. Enye yalezi zindlela i-transvestism. Indoda ayiphishekeli umgomo wayo wokushintsha ubulili bakhe ngokuphelele, kodwa akagwemi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi aphinde abuyele kummeleli wobulili obuhlukile. Izembatho, izesekeli, ukuziphatha okufanele - ukuphindukuzalwa ngezikhathi ezithile kunikeza umuzwa wokuzola nokuwaneliseka.
I-Transvestism inezinhlobo ezimbili: ubu-fetishism nokuguqulwa kweqhaza elibili:
- Ukuguqulwa kwezingane ezithandwayo kuyinjabulo yokugqoka ubulili obuhlukile. Umuntu uthola injabulo ngenkathi esegqoka izingubo zesilisa noma zesifazane. Lokhu kuziphatha akuvamile ukubhekwa njengesifo sengqondo. Uma ukuphindukuzalwa okunjalo kubangela ukuba umuntu abe nesifiso esingalawuleki sokwenza izenzo ezingalungile kuye, futhi kuba yisithiyo ekuphileni okuvamile ngokocansi, lokhu kuyisifo ngempela. Lena enye yezinhlobo zezinkinga zokuthandwa kocansi.
- Ukuba khona kwalolu hlobo lwengxabano kwenza umuntu enze konke okusemandleni ukwenza ukubukeka kwakhe kufane nokubonakala kommeleli wobulili obuhlukile. Esikhathini sokuzivikela kukhona inombolo enkulu yazo zonke izinhlobo zokugqoka, izimonyo, ama-wigs nezinye izesekeli. Emva kokwanelisa isidingo socansi umuntu unesifiso esingenakuphikiswa sokususa izingubo zakhe ezisetshenziswayo. Ngakho kuze kube yisikhathi esilandelayo.
- I-Transvestizm indima ephindwe kabili iboniswa ngokungafuni ukuzithumela ngokobulili bayo. Ukuze anelise isidingo sokuveza imibhikisho kumuntu, umuntu unenkinga yokusebenza ngezikhathi zendima yobulili obuhlukile. Ngakho-ke, empilweni "udlala" kokubili yena kanye "nomunye" ngokwakhe.
Izimbangela
Izimbangela zalesi senzakalo kuze kube yilolu suku zihlolwe ngabachwepheshe bamaphrofayli ahlukahlukene: izazi ze-psychologists, izazi zobulili, izazi ze-neuropathologists, njll. Ayikho iphuzu elilodwa kulo mbandela. Izizathu zingahluka kakhulu:
- isifiso sokugqoka izingubo zobulili obuhlukile ngenxa yokukhulelwa okungalungile. Ungakhuthazi isinyathelo somntanakho ukuzama izinto ezingavamile kuye. Uma kungenjalo, ezingeni elingenasici, ulungisa lo mkhuba kuye;
- izizathu eziphilayo. I-Transvestism ingaba isici sangasese. Izinkinga nge-endocrine nesistimu yezinzwa;
- isici senhlalo. Lokhu kuphambuka ngokobulili kuvame ukubonwa kubantu, ngenxa yemigomo yezenhlalakahle, kwadingeka baqede ukuqala okuhlukile isikhathi eside;
- isimo esinzima kakhulu. Ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, isibonelo, kungabangela le disorder (indoda ilahlekelwa udadewabo);
- imidlalo yokudlala indima ngokuzifihla ingabangela ukulangazelela okunye izinto ezinjalo.
Yiba nguwe. Zama ukuba ngowokuhamba phambili, kodwa hhayi omunye umuntu.