Ikhono lokuqonda abantu kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo, hhayi ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana kuphela, kodwa nasekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ukwazi izici eziyisisekelo zengqondo zomuntu ngamunye , uzofunda ukuhlela, kodwa futhi ulawula imisebenzi yabaningi.
Izici zomphakathi-ezingokwengqondo zobuntu
- Isimo sengqondo ngokuphila jikelele, ezweni elizungezile, ukuqonda kwalo, ukuqonda ngokwakho kulokhu okuyiqiniso, ukuqaphela isidingo sokuba ngumuntu oziqinisekisile.
- Isimo sengqondo empilweni, imigomo, impilo emphakathini. Izici eziyinhloko zalolu buhlobo yilokho ngamunye wethu ozama ukukwenza. Okudinga kuqala kokufuna ukwaneliseka nokuthi ngabe yini ekuphileni kwakhe uhlela isifiso sokufinyelela ukuphakama kwamathuba ngabanye.
- Ubudlelwane nabanye abantu bathuthukisa amakhono okuxhumana (ukwethembeka, ukuthandana, ubuhlobo, njll).
- Isimo sokubamba iqhaza empilweni yomphakathi, umsebenzi womuntu onomphakathi.
Izici zengqondo zobuntu bokudala
- Ukubekezela, gxila ekuthuthukiseni amakhono abo okudala.
- Ubukhona nokubonakaliswa okusebenzayo komsebenzi wokugqugquzela nokudala osiza ukufeza ukunqoba komuntu siqu nokuhlalisana kwezinye izinhlobo zemisebenzi.
- Umsebenzi we-orientation yokudala, ngokuvamile, kuyisidingo esibalulekile, kukhona isifiso sokwazi, ukucinga konke okusha nokuqala.
- Ikhono lokudlulisa ulwazi olukhona nolwazi olukhona ezimweni ezintsha. Ukuziphendulela kokucabanga, ikhono lokuthola ukuphikisana okukhona esimweni.
Izici zengqondo zomuntu wokulwa
- Isimo sengqondo kunoma yiziphi izinkinga, ngokuqondene nalabo abasongela impilo yakhe, injabulo, inhlalakahle, ngenxa yalokho, umuntu onjalo ubonisa ukuphikisana okuphikisanayo.
- Ukungakwazi ukulawula imizwelo yomuntu siqu. Maloritichnost izenzo zabo, izinqumo.
- Ukungathembeki kwe-interlocutor, isifiso sokulawula ubuhlobo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kune-overestimation yokuzethemba.
- Ukungaqondakali, ukungakwazi ukwenza okungcono amaphutha esikhathini esidlule.
Izici zengqondo zobuntu bomholi
- Amandla okuxazulula izinkinga eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukuvumelana nezimo zokucabanga .
- Ukubonakaliswa kokumelana nezimo ezingalindelekile zobunzima obuhlukahlukene.
- Amandla okubambisana nabantu abanezinhlamvu ezinzima kakhulu.
- Ukwehluleka kwemizwa yabanye, ikhono lokulawula imizwelo yomuntu siqu.