Sonke sivela ebuntwaneni. Lapho sisebuntwaneni, sidlala imidlalo, singakwazi ukuxazulula kalula futhi ngokuphepha noma iyiphi inkinga. Asizange sigxile ezintweni ezincane (yini abanye ababeyicabangayo ngathi, indlela esibukeka ngayo ngaphandle?), Sasisuke ngokwethu. Kodwa, njengoba sikhula, saqala ukuziphatha ngendlela ehlukile, sigxile emibonweni yomphakathi. Asifuni ukusho ukuthi badinga ukunganakwa, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi siba abahlukile, sizinzima izimpilo zethu, ubudlelwane, ukucabanga ukuthi izinkinga zabo azikho, besaba into engekho engozini. Izazi zengqondo zanamuhla zisebenzisa izindlela ze-igroterapii ngenxa yokuthi umuntu uphazamiseka ezintweni ezithonya ukuqonda kwakhe nokubuyiselwa kwengqondo ebuntwaneni, ngoba abantu abadala, ukudlala imidlalo "yezingane" bangakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo ezingezona izingane.
Iyiphi ikhambi elidala?
Okokuqala, sinikeza incazelo, kusukela ekubukeni kwezokwelapha. I-Igroterapiya iyindlela yokwelashwa nokwelapha kwengqondo kumuntu noma iqembu labantu ababhekene nokukhathazeka ngokomzwelo, ukwesaba kanye nezinhliziyo. Ngesinye isikhathi, ososayensi abanjengoM. Klein, H. Hug no-A. Freud, indlela yokwelashwa ngendlela yomdlalo, babizwa ngokuthi yi-game therapy. Ngesizo salolu hlobo lwezokwelapha, ngisho nabantu abadala basebenzisa izindlela zokudlala ngosizo lwabachwepheshe ukuze bazame ukunqoba izingxabano, ukuphazamiseka okuhlukahlukene.
Izazi zengqondo zingasebenzisa izinhlobo ezahlukene zemithi yokwelapha, njenge-game game therapy, kanye nomuntu ngamunye. Konke kuncike ekuphukeni komqondo womuntu womuntu wengqondo kanye nenkinga yangempela ekhathazayo ngaye. Uhlangothi oluhle lendlela yokuthonya kwengqondo kumuntu wukuthi inkinga ayibonakali njengento eyinkimbinkimbi, ilula futhi ibhekwe ngenye indlela, okwenza kube lula ukulahlekelwa okuthakazelisayo, isimo esibalulekile emdlalweni futhi wenze isinqumo esifanele. Ukufundisa iqembu igroterapii izazi zengqondo ngokuvamile zisebenza izinkinga emndenini. Ukuyingqayizivele kwalendlela yukuthi isimo esingeyona yangempela esidlalwa, kodwa imizwelo nobuhlobo bangempela.
Imisebenzi yokwelashwa kwemidlalo
I-game therapy yenza imisebenzi eminingana ngesikhathi esisodwa: ukuxilongwa, ukwelashwa nokuqeqeshwa. Masinyane uchaze ukuthi ukubaluleka kokwelashwa ukuqeda ukulinganiselwa kokubambisana komuntu wobuntu emdlalweni. Ukufundisa - kufundisa indlela yokuziphatha kulokhu noma kuleso simo. Ukuxilonga kuvumela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ukuthi sinqume isithombe sengqondo somuntu.
Akukho ubuchwepheshe bomhlaba wonke noma obunifomu ye-igraherapy, engasetshenziswa kuzo zonke izimo. Bangaki abantu, izinkinga eziningi ezihlobene nesimo sabo sengqondo. Abantu, noma ngabe yibaphi isizathu, babe yizinhlamba ndawonye bese bebeka umgomo owodwa phambi kwabo, ukuze bathole indlela efanele yokuphuma kweso simo.
Kuzo zonke ezingenhla, ungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi kusuka ezinkingeni noma ukwesaba akufanele kuqalwe, kuzomele kuxazululwe, ngoba inkinga isengenkinga. Asikwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga yedwa, sidinga abantu abaseduze abathanda wena kanye nochwepheshe. Uma umuntu ephendukela kwisazi sezengqondo, usuvele esendleleni efanele yokuxazulula le nkinga, ngoba ukuqaphela ukuthi inkinga ikhona yisinyathelo sokuqala esincane kodwa esibalulekile endleleni eya kwesisombululo. Akudingekile ukunamathela ezinkambisweni zakudala ezithinta abantu abanengqondo ngokwengqondo kuphela. Phela, isazi sengqondo sizokusiza ubheke inkinga yakho ngokuhlukile. Ngempela, lokho okubonakala kungenakunqotshwa kuwe, kudinga isikhathi esengeziwe sokwenza isinqumo esifanele noma ukunqoba isithiyo.