"Thatha umthwalo wemagama akho," "Ungenandaba nawe," "Yiba nomthwalo wemfanelo emndenini wakho" ... Ukungabi nabulungisa kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo ... Kuyini? Ngabe yini, obani futhi kungani kufanele kuthathwe? Isibopho ngokwawo emvelweni asikho - ngumkhiqizo womuntu, lowo muntu. Siyakha ngokwakho, siyidale, yinike ilungelo lokuba khona futhi lithenge. Akekho ozokwazi ukusho ukuthi imiphi imithwalo yemfanelo, ngoba ngamunye wethu ubeka umbono wakhe okuthile okuqondile. Kodwa-ke, kunoma yikuphi, imithwalo yemfanelo, empeleni, izibopho ezithile esizibhekayo noma ezinikeze abantu abasizungezile. Umthwalo wemfanelo ungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu nezibalulekile emphakathini, kanye nenhlangano, ukuvimbela nokukhuthaza.
Ukungahloniphi okuhlanganyelwe
Umphakathi wanamuhla ubhekene nenani elikhulu lezinkinga ezinkulu, okuyiqiniso ukuthi yinkinga yokungabi nandaba. Lokhu kubonakala esizukulwaneni sethu, esihlala kuphela ngenxa yaso, izidingo zayo, ukungabi nabathengi hhayi kuphela kubantu abangaziwayo, abangabazi, kodwa nasezihlotsheni zabo, abantu abaseduze. Abantu abaningi abafuni futhi abazi ukuthi bangithatha kanjani umthwalo wemfanelo futhi bayaqhubeka bengenangqondo, bengenangqondo, bevuma kuphela izifiso zabo nezifiso zabo.
Inkinga yokungabi nandaba - izimpikiswano kanye nezinkolelo
Uma sichaza igama elithi "ukungabi nandaba", ke lokhu kuyimfanelo yezimfanelo ezifaka ukungathandi ukuthatha izibopho, ukungafuni ukuzifeza, isifiso sokuphonsa umthwalo komunye umuntu, kanye nokuhluleka ukugcina igama lithathwe. Lesi sici sizalwa ngokuthambekela komuntu ukuyeka ibhizinisi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Cishe wonke umuntu uyathanda ukudonsa isikhathi, aguqe isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuqala umsebenzi. Ngokusho kocwaningo, iningi labantu lingaze liqale ukusebenza ngokushesha. Iningi lazo libhekisela kubantu abangewona igunya. Ungakwazi ukuwabiza ngokuthi abantu abadala, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bafaneleka kangakanani, laba bantu bavele bengenakuziphendulela.
Ukungahloniphi komyeni
Izibonelo zokungahloniphi, ezitholakala emphakathini wanamuhla, zingabalwa ngokungapheli. Futhi, njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, kunabesifazane abaningi abaqaphelayo kunamadoda. Ngokuvame ukungabi nandaba komuntu. Lokhu akumangalisi. Namuhla, iningi labamele abesilisa laba yibugovu, bancane, futhi lokhu kuyisizathu esiyinhloko senani elikhulu lohlukaniso ezweni lethu. Kuyinto evamile ukuhlangabezana nomama ongayedwa ofundisa, enikeza izingane zabo, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kosizo ubaba ophilayo! Nsuku zonke, izingane zifuna ukudla nokunakekelwa, azikwazi ukulinda upapa ukuba avuke umthwalo wemfanelo nokuqonda okubalulekile kwezinto, izibopho ezenziwa. Ngokuqinisekile sibophezelekile kulabo abathandwayo, ngisho nalapho kuziwa ekati noma inja, singalokothi sisho umthwalo walabo bantu abaphathiswe nguNkulunkulu. Futhi kulo mthwalo wemfanelo abesifazane bayakwazi kakhulu ... Lena inkinga enkulu esikhathini sethu.
Amandla okuba nomthwalo wemfanelo amaphutha abo futhi aphuthelwa ngokuqinisekile imfanelo ebaluleke kakhulu, kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. Futhi uma wonke umuntu ongashadile eyozilandela kulolu hlelo, hhayi ngokugxila ekubuthakathaka kwakhe konke emininini, futhi enze ngokuvumelana nonembeza kanye nezibopho ezenziwa - ukuhlala emphakathini wethu kuzoba ngcono kakhulu.