Umlando wokufaniswa kombala ubuyela ezikhathini zasendulo. Kukhona ukuxhumana kombala nesikhathi: ngakho-ke, emva kwempi iBrithani inqume imfucuza, iRoma lasendulo - elibomvu, njll. Umbala ungaba nomthelela engqondweni nangokwenyama, futhi ngumuphi umthunzi othandwa ngumuntu, ungatshela okuningi mayelana nomlingiswa wakhe.
Imibala isho ukuthini kwengqondo?
I-psychology yokubona umbala iguquke emakhulwini eminyaka, abantu abahlukene kangaka bangaba nokwahlukana ekuhloleni kwamandla ngamunye wabo owenzayo. Kodwa ngokuvamile, kwakukhona isithombe esinjalo:
- obomvu - igazi nomlilo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lihlotshaniswa nenjabulo, ubuhle nothando, kanti olunye lufanekisela ubutha, impindiselo nempi;
- umhlophe - ubumsulwa, ubumsulwa, ubuhle;
- abamnyama - usizi, usizi, ukufa nokulila;
- ophuzi - umbala welanga, kodwa futhi nombala wokushona kwelanga, ekwindla futhi kumile;
- eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka - ukwethembeka, ubumsulwa nokuthembeka. Umthunzi wokuhlala njalo nesimo sengqondo, udumo oluhle;
- green - imvuselelo nobusha, umthunzi entwasahlobo.
Ukunqunywa komlingiswa womuntu ekusayineni kwengqondo ngombala
Umuntu ngamunye unemibala ayithandayo, ayingubo yakhe, ingaphakathi, umbala wemoto, njll. Izintandokazi zingashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngokuphathelene nemicimbi yokuphila, ubudala kanye nezinye izici, kodwa lokhu ngokuvamile kubonisa isitolo sezinhlamvu kanye nesimo somzwelo. Kukhona ngisho namasu akhethekile okukhomba ukuxhuma okujulile, kodwa uma ungafundi ngokujulile, ungangezela umbono wakho noma umuntu othakazelisayo ngesici sombala wezokwelapha.
Izinhlamvu zembala esisekelo:
- Abantu abamnyama bakhetha ukungaqiniseki ngaphakathi kwabo, bebona umhlaba ngokukhanya okubuhlungu. Uma umuntu ehlala ezungezile izinto nezinto zemibala enjalo, khona-ke isimo esibucayi empilweni yakhe sihlala isikhathi eside, futhi izinhloso zibhekwa zingenakutholakala. Izingane zidweba izithombe ezimnyama, ngezidingo ezidinga ukunakekelwa nothando;
- emhlophe umbala oyinhloko nombala wesisekelo. Abekho abantu abangathandi lo mbala, ngakho-ke ngeke ukwazi ukusho ngokuqondile ngomlingiswa lapha;
- uma imbala iyimbala ewuthandayo, khona-ke ekuqondweni kwengqondo lo muntu uzobizwa ngokuthi uhlakaniphile futhi angathembeki: akasithathi izinqumo eziphuthumayo. Ngalo mthunzi, umuntu uzama ukuzivikela ekuhlaseleni umhlaba wakhe wangaphakathi ngaphandle;
- obomvu bakhetha amandla, abantu abanamandla, abaphuthumayo nabaphumayo. Olubomvu ukuveza izinto, ukukhathazeka, amandla;
- obomvu ekuphenyweni kwengqondo kuhlonishwa abantu bamasiko angaguquki namanani omndeni. Lo mthunzi ubonisa injabulo evamile yokuthokoza;
- okwesibhakabhaka ukhethwe yilabo abalulekile ukuba bazizwe bezethemba futhi bathembele ekusizeni abanye. Umuntu uzizwa isidingo esikhulu sokuphumula nokuphumula, futhi yilo mthunzi ozizungezile ngesikhathi sokugula;
- green in the psychology of umbala choice kuyinto ukubonakaliswa amandla ezingenayo amandla, degree of ukungezwani kwemibandela. Uthengelela abantu abangahambi emigwaqweni ehluthulelwe futhi bafeze konke ekuphileni kwabo ngokwenza ngamandla abo.
Namuhla, ithonya lombala esimweni somuntu lisetshenziswe kokubili empilweni yansuku zonke nakwebhizinisi. Abakhiqizi bezingubo nokuzihlola bahlolisise lezi zixhumanisi futhi ngesisekelo sedatha etholakele banikeza umphakathi imiphumela yomsebenzi wabo. Abakhangisi bazama nokuthonya umthengi ngokusebenzisa umthunzi othize. Ngokusekelwe kulokho okushiwo ngenhla, kungaphetha ngokuthi isayensi yokutadisha ithonya lombala kumuntu uyokhula, ihlole izindlela ezintsha zokulungisa imizwelo nemizwa yabantu.