Wonke amakhosikazi amaphupho okuba othandekayo kakhulu futhi abathandayo, ngakho-ke njengase-movie: ukubukeka kothando, amazwi abathandekayo nezipho ezinjalo, futhi hhayi kanye ngonyaka ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa. Kodwa yini okumelwe uyenze, ukuthi ungaba kanjani yedwa, othandekayo futhi oyifunayo owesifazane, noma ngisho namadoda amaningi, ukuba angene ezixukwini?
Ubuhle buzosindisa umhlaba?
Amantombazane amaningi acabanga ukuthi ayazi impendulo yalo mbuzo kuphela edingekayo ukuba abe enhle njenge-model, futhi azokwamukeleka kakhulu kubafana. Ukudla okulinganiselwe kulezi zinto, ubuhle bungaba nesithakazelo kumuntu, kodwa kube nini? I-polls yemibono ibonisa ukuthi iningi lamadoda liyibheka ukuthi alifisi okwenzelwe ubuhle be-silicone, kodwa abesifazane, abangabonisana nabo ngezindaba zakamuva, bese bebheka ngokuthula ukushona kwelanga. Ngakho ungazenzekela ngokwezifiso ezindinganisweni zobuhle (awaziwa okwamanje futhi owasungulwa, ngendlela), kodwa umphumela odlala isikhathi eside awunikezeli. Amadoda afuna owesifazane ukuba abe ibhokisi elinesibili phansi, imfihlakalo engakaze ibe namathayi wokuqagela. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho uzothenga ezinye izingubo ezigqamile, ezigqoke ikhabethe kakade zikhulu, cabanga ngakho, mhlawumbe ungathenga incwadi ngemali efanayo, kuyoba usizo kakhulu.
Cha, yebo, ukuzinakekela nokuziqaphela wena, owesifazane ongenalutho ngeke angene kulowo muntu, kodwa akufanelekile lapho ukhohlwa ngezwe elingaphakathi, ukuthathwa ngokubukeka. Okuqukethwe kufanele kufane nendawo yangaphandle, kahle, uzicabange, kungenzeka yini ukuvula isikhwama se-chocolate, silindele ukubona khona i-caramel encane? Nalapha nantombazane, ethathwe ngokupompa ama-silicone kuzo zonke izindawo ezidingekayo futhi ekhohlwa ngakho konke okunye, i-wrapper iyaphakazelisa, ibangela isifiso sokudlula, futhi ukudumazeka okuphelele kwalowo muntu. Manje asikhulumi ngalabo benduna ababuka owesifazane njengombono oqinisekisa isimo sabo, kodwa amakhophi anjalo awajabulisi nawe, akunjalo?
Abesifazane abanjengami abathandi amadoda ...
Futhi ngubani owakutshele ukuthi, ngicela ngibuze? Izindinganiso ezingavamile zokubukeka azikho futhi azikwazi ukuba khona, bonke abantu bahlukile futhi umuntu ngamunye unalo ukunambitheka kwakhe siqu, futhi nobuhle besifazane, naye. Ngokuvame ukungavumi phakathi kwamadoda yizinsikazi ezingaphephile, futhi hhayi labo bonke abangafinyeleli amantombazane avela kulesi sikhwama ngandlela-thile. Ngakho-ke ukuzethemba ukuthuthuka kuyadingeka. Uyakhanga nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku nobusuku, e-suit suit nase-swimsuit, futhi ngaphandle kwalo, uyazi lokho, akunjalo? Pho kungani ucabanga ukuthi umuntu akakwazi ukukukwazisa? Lahla ukwesaba okwesiphukuphuku, ugqoke ingubo enhle kanye nenhloko ephakanyisiwe ehamba phambili emgwaqweni, uphawula ngamadoda athakazelisayo. Uke waphawula? Cha? Hamba esibukweni uphinde udwebe "ukudubula" ngamehlo akho. Futhi yikuphi lokhu? Yisiphi isimo esibuhlungu, esesabekayo esingaphansi kwesikhumba sakhe, lapho kumomotheka, lapho kukhona khona inhlansi emehlweni akhe, futhi ekugcineni, ukuhlambalaza? Ingabe uhlelwe ku-wave wave? Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha ukuzama kwesibili, kungcono, kwesokudla? Yebo, akuwona wonke ngesikhathi esisodwa, konke okudingeka kufundwe, nokuqaphela ukuheha komuntu siqu.
Abesifazane abathandekayo bayazi njalo ukuthi bangabashadile,