- Uju. Ngangisegeni.
"Futhi ubonisani?"
- Sizobe nentombazane!
- Sawubona, ungathanda ukuyibiza kanjani?
Lo mbuzo ubuzwa ngabazali bonke esikhathini esizayo ngokulindela ukuzalwa kwendoda encane entsha. Futhi akumangalisi, ngoba isiphetho sokuphila komntwana osanda kuzalwa sincike egameni lomuntu. Futhi wonke ubaba nomama ovamile bafuna izingane zabo zibe nesikhathi esihle. Ukwenza indodakazi yakhe ethandekayo ikhule iphilile futhi ilalele, ifundwe ngempumelelo esikoleni, yangena eyunivesithi ehloniphekile, yashada ngempumelelo futhi yajabula ngabo nomndeni wabazukulu. Futhi igama lapha lidlala indima ebalulekile. Kuzibophezela ukuthambekela komlingiswa wesikhathi esizayo, okuzoshukumisa ngokugcwele yonke isiphetho somntwana esikhathini esizayo. Ngakho-ke, kufanele akhethelwe nayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo. Futhi kanjani ukuthi kahle kangakanani nokuthi yiliphi igama elingcono lentombazane elizoyikhetha, ake sixoxe namhlanje kulesi sihloko.
Indlela yokukhetha igama leyintombazane ngokwezincwadi ezingcwele?
Okhokho bethu kusukela esikhathini esedlule benza ukhetho lwegama lomntwana, intombazane noma umfana, ngokusho kwabangcwele. Abangcwele kuyincwadi ekhethekile, lapho amagama abo bonke abangcwele abangamaKristu abhaliwe ngokuvumelana nezinsuku ezivela kuzo. Ukukhethwa kwegama lentombazane kwenzeka kanjani kule ncwadi yesonto? Kulula kakhulu. Ngosuku lokuzalwa lomntwana, izinsuku ezingu-7 zokuqala zanezelwa futhi inombolo ephuma ekubalweni yabhalwa. Khona-ke, futhi, izinsuku ezingu-40 zangeziwe ngosuku lokuzalwa futhi futhi usuku lubalwe futhi lwarekhodwa. Phakathi kwalezi zinsuku ezimbili, futhi ukhethe igama. Isibonelo, ingane yazalwa ngoMeyi 1. 1 + 7 = May 8 kungukuqala. 1 + 40 = 41, kodwa ngezinsuku ezingu-May 31, bese kuthi ngosuku lwesibili ngoJuni 9. Kule gap bese ukhetha igama lomntwana wethu, bese igama elifanayo bese ulibhapathiza. I-saint ekhethiwe manje isibe ngumsizi womntwana wakho othandekayo. Impilo yakhe kufanele ikwazi intombazane, lapho ikhula futhi ufundisa lo moya ongcwele ukuba athandaze ngesikhathi sokudabuka futhi ukubonga nganoma iyiphi injabulo. Enye inguquko yokwazisa abangcwele ukuthatha igama lomuntu ongcwele owafika ngosuku lokuzalwa kwengane. Okukhethwa lapha, njengoba ubona, kuningi.
Ngumuphi igama okufanele ngilisebenzele intombazane ngesignali yezinkanyezi?
Izinkanyezi nazo zidlala indima ebalulekile ekwakheni isiphetho kanye nobunjwa bezingane. Ngakho-ke, lapho ukhetha igama, umuntu kufanele aqaphele izinkanyezi ngaphansi kwayo, futhi endaweni yamaplanethi ngalolo suku. Thola lemininingwane kanye nokusiza ukukhetha igama elifanele kakhulu kuzosiza abalingani bezinkanyezi abahlangene. Sizokhuluma kuphela ngezici ezijwayelekile zenkinga.
Ngakho, ama-Aries, Leo ne-Sagittarius yizimpawu zomlilo. Amantombazane azalwe ngaphansi kwalezi zinkanyezi akhula futhi anelukuluku, anemibono eyikhulu, afuna ukwazi konke ngokushesha, izimbambo zabo nezinduku zabo zikhuphuka noma kuphi lapho kungadingeki khona. Ngakho, amagama akhethekile kufanele anikezwe nge-tinge epholile. Isibonelo, uSnezhana, uSvetlana, Angelina.
I-Taurus, i-Virgo ne-Capricorn yizinkanyezi zomhlaba. Emantombazaneni azalwa ngaphansi kwalezi zibonakaliso kukhona abesifazana abahle nabomama, abafazi abaqotho nababekezelayo. Amagama kubo angcono ukukhetha ezifuywayo ezifuywayo. Isibonelo, uMaria, Valentina, Anastasia, Tatiana, Olga.
I-Gemini, i-Libra ne-Aquarius yizimpawu zomoya. Ukukhethwa kwegama lentombazane enjalo kufanele kuwele okuthile okufikayo, ukuvimbela inkululeko yakhe yothando. Amagama angcono kulokhu kuzoba yilokhokholo, ithemba, uthando, sophia, Catherine, Barbara, Pauline, Eugene.
I-Cancer, i-Scorpio namaPisces - ama-constellations ayenamanzi, amanzi. Ngentombazane ezalwa ngaphansi kweyodwa yalezi zinkanyezi, izici zokupholisa, ukuthula, ukuthula kukhona izici. Igama kufanele libe nelanga futhi elikhanyayo. Isibonelo, i-Violeta, i-Alla, i-Anna, i-Julia. Kodwa ekugcineni, ukukhetha kuhlale kungokwakho, abazali abathandekayo.
Indlela yokukhetha igama le ntombazane ngokulandelwa ngu-patronymic?
Enye indlela yokukhetha igama lentombazane ibizwa ngokuthi yi-patronymic. Okokuqala, khetha igama lendodakazi ukuze kuthi, kanye nobaba babe nokuvumelana okuhle okuvumelanako, futhi hhayi ukusika amahemuhemu futhi kubangele ukumamatheka kwabanye. Phela, omunye wabantwana bakhe abahlakaniphile ogama lakhe linguDiadaia Stepanovna. Wayecabanga ngani? Futhi okwesibili, izici zobuntu zegama likababa