"Ukuphila kufana nemidlalo: abanye bafika ukuncintisana, abanye bahweba, futhi bajabule kakhulu ukubukela," kusho uLev Tolstoy, ekhuluma ngokuphila komuntu. Wayenembile noma engalungile, uzichaza yena ngokwakhe. Ukufakazela ukuthi emazwini akhe awekho okusanhlamvu kokuhleleka, kuyoba, okungenani, okungenangqondo. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ukuze ungathathi kahle amagama omlobi, udinga ukuthola ukuthi isimo siphila sisebenza ngokugcwele, bese-ukuthola ukuthi kusho ukuthini umuntu ngamunye.
Incazelo yombono "wokuphila okusebenzayo"
Ukuphila okusebenzayo komuntu akuyona nje isimo sengqondo sokukhathalela izwe elizungezile, elibonakaliswa ezenzweni nasemicabangweni yomuntu ngokwakhe. Into yokuqala abantu abaningi abanaka ngayo lapho ukuxhumana nomuntu ongamazi kusesikhundleni sakhe sokuphila. Nguye osihlukanisa phakathi komunye nomunye ngokomqondo. Lesi sikhundla empilweni sivumela noma asivumeli umuntu ngamunye ukuba anqobe ubunzima. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyimbangela yokuphumelela noma ukwehluleka kwethu. Ngetulu kwaloko, ngetizatfu letinyenti simo lesibalulekile sikhombisa siphetfo semuntfu.
Indawo yokuphila inezibonakaliso kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila, ezithinta izikhundla zokuziphatha nezomoya, umsebenzi wezenhlalakahle nezomsebenzi. Isikhundla esisebenzayo sibonakala ngokuphendula okusheshayo komuntu othize ezimweni zokuphila nokulungele kabanzi kwezenzo zekhonkrit.
Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukuphawula ukuthi isikhundla sokuphila ngokuvamile sihlanganisa:
- izintandokazi zezombusazwe;
- umbono womhlaba womuntu;
- izimiso zalo, njll.
Ukubunjwa kwesimo sokuphila okusebenzayo
Yenziwa kusukela ekuzalweni komuntu. Isisekelo sokuvela kwawo ukuxhumana nabanye, ithonya labo ekuthuthukiseni komuntu ngamunye wethu.
Yisinyathelo esizigcina siyimfihlo yangempela yokuthuthukiswa komsebenzi osebenzayo. Kodwa ukukhula kwayo, njengokunye okunye endaweni yonke, kudinga uhlobo "lwebhethri" olunikeza amandla kulokhu kuthuthukiswa. "Ibhethri" yakho isifiso. Ngempela, yibo kuphela abakwazi ukubenza balwe nobunzima, basize ekufezekeni imigomo oyifunayo.
Sonke siye sabonana nabantu abaye baba nesimo esisebenzayo ekuphileni kwabo. Bahlukaniswa ngaphakathi phakathi kwabanye. Ezinkampanini, ngokuvamile, abaholi. Abantu abanjalo bayakwazi ukuhola umphakathi, ngoba umbono wabo kanye namakhono abo angaphakathi abangela isifiso sokuzilandela.
Izinhlobo zokuphila okusebenzayo zobuntu
Isikhundla "esihle" sisekelwe ekugcinweni kwemithetho yokuziphatha nokunqoba kokuhle phezu kokubi.
Isikhundla "asibi". Ungacabangi ukuthi abantu abakhuthele ngempela labo abenza "kahle," ngokuphambene nalokho, umuntu kumele aqonde ukuthi izenzo zabo zingabangela umonakalo emphakathini nakwabo. Ucabanga ukuthi zonke izinhlobo zezinhluzane namaqembu ama-bandit adalwe yibani? Ngokulungile, abantu abakhuthele, ngokuqinisekile, baveza izinkolelo nezinjongo ezithile ezilimaza emphakathini.
Ukuphila kwethu akuyona into eqinile futhi engaguquki. Lishintsha ngokuzenzakalelayo, ukuthuthukiswa kobuchwepheshe obusha kanye nomthelela wabantu emhlabeni wethu wangaphakathi. Kubalulekile kuphela ukuba nesithakazelo ekuthuthukiseni izwe elizungezile.
Kubantu bohlobo lokuqala, into esemqoka akuyona nje ukuzibophezela thina kuphela kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kuphela, kodwa futhi ezindabeni zomhlaba jikelele emhlabeni jikelele. Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke umuntu oyokwazi ukuphakamisa izimfanelo zakhe ukuze kuzuze umphakathi, futhi izimiso, izinkolelo, ukubuka umhlaba kuzoguqulwa ukuze kufinyelele impumelelo. Kodwa ukuthi isikhundla sokuphila siyobe sincike kuphela kumuntu ngokwakhe.