Abantu abaningi baye babona ukuthi esinye sezihlobo noma abantu abaseduze bashiye ukuphila kwabo, ngakho-ke, ukufa kuqukethe ukungaqiniseki, ukwesaba, ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka. Isizathu esibalulekile lapho ukwesaba ukufa kuvela khona ukukhathazeka ukuthi asikho isikhathi esanele sokufeza zonke izinto ezibalulekile.
Kwabaningi, umqondo wokufa akulula ukunikeza. Kunzima kakhulu ukusinda ekulahlekelweni komuntu othandekayo kanye neningi lokhu kuyingozi, okungazange kwenzeke "ukuhamba" okungaphezu konyaka. Umuntu angayeka kanjani ukwesaba ukufa, uma isimo sokwesaba siphelile, kuyinkinga ebalulekile edinga ukuxazulula ngokushesha.
Ungabeka kanjani ukwesaba izifo nokufa?
Ukuze ungesabi ukufa, kubalulekile ukwenza okudingekayo noma okufunayo. Lokhu akusho ukuzimisela ukushiya impilo, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngale ndlela ungayeka ukwesaba umqondo wokufa. Awudingi ukuhlehlisa okuthile kamuva, kufanele uhambise emgomweni nsuku zonke.
Udinga nje ukuyeka ukuzihlola futhi akudingeki ukwesabe ukufa. Kuze kube manje, lokhu kuyinkinga yangempela - abantu bahlanganyela ekuziphatheni okwezinye izifo, okuyinto eqinisweni lapho.
Ungakuyeka kanjani ukwesaba ukufa kwabathandekayo?
Ukuze unqabe ukwesaba ukufa futhi ubheke ngqo emehlweni akhe, udinga ukuthola isiqinisekiso ngaphezu kweminyaka ukuthi ukufa kuyinto ephakathi nokulahla komkhuba wokuphila kwansuku zonke.
Ukuze ungesabi ukufa, udinga nje ukuphila! Ukuphila njengokungathi usuku ngalunye luyokugcina, ukujabulela yonke imizuzu futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi injabulo evela empilweni izophela ngaphambi kokuba impilo izophela, ngakho kufanele ubambelele kuwo wonke amandla akho.
Kungani abantu besaba ukufa?
Isizathu esiyinhloko esenza abantu besabe ukufa akungaziwa,
Yiqiniso, akujabulisi, ngesinye isikhathi isimo senzeke ngokumelene nentando. Ikakhulukazi ukufa. Kodwa ingabe kukhona isizathu sokumesaba? Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu bakhululekile kuzo zonke izinto, futhi akudingekile ukudweba impilo yakho njalo ngomzuzu. Kungcono ukuchitha isikhathi nezihlobo nezihlobo, futhi ungacabangi ngokufa. Akudingekile ukuba uchithe impilo yakho ekuxabaneni nasekuthukeni, kodwa kungcono ukufunda izwe futhi ngeke kube khona isikhathi sokwesaba ukufa, futhi akukho sidingo.