Ukuthatha umhlalaphansi, ubuhlobo buyizinto ezimbili - abanye bayibona njengethuba lokuphumula nokuziphilela, kanti abanye bacabanga ukuthi umhlalaphansi uzoba sekupheleni kwawo konke ukuphila, ngakho-ke besaba ngalesi sikhathi. Ngeshwa, ezweni lakithi ukuhluka kwesibili kwesimo sengqondo empilweni yempesheni. Futhi kubonakala sengathi abantu abacabanga ukuthi kufanelekile, kahle, ngempela, ukuthi benzeni ekuthatha umhlalaphansi, yini ongayenza, ngaphandle kokubuka imibukiso ye-TV engapheli futhi uxoxe nabo nabangani bakho? Kodwa kubonakala sengathi kunjalo! Abaningi bayazi ukuthi benzeni uma behlala emhlalaphansi, benza ibhizinisi, futhi bazihlele isikhathi sokuzilibazisa esithakazelisayo. Futhi uma abanye bengakwazi, khona-ke ungayenza - thatha isibonelo kubo. Futhi ukuqondiswa kokunyakaza kuzothathwa yiziphakamiso ezilandelayo zalokho ongakwenza empesheni.
Yini okufanele uyenze lapho uhlala umhlalaphansi owesifazane?
Ukuphila emhlalaphansi kungakwenza ujabule, kodwa kuphela uma ungakhononda ukuthi akukho lutho okufanele ukwenze, kodwa ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze ekugugeni kwakho kakade sekwephuzile. Ngakho-ke siyalahla imicabango enjalo futhi sikhumbule ukuthi ngokuthatha umhlalaphansi akukho lutho olushintshile, usulahlele isibopho sokuya emsebenzini futhi uthole isikhathi esiningi samahhala. Futhi ungathola ukuthi ungenzani nalo.
- Umsebenzi oqhubekayo emsebenzini ngokuvamile awukuvumeli ukuba uhambe ngendlela enempilo, kunezigidi zamakhilogremu amaningi, futhi izwi lokusilalisa esilizwa kuphela ngamaphupho. Ngesikhathi sokuthatha umhlalaphansi, ekugcineni ungazinakekela, ngaphandle kwalokho, asikho isidingo sokugijima noma kuphi. Qala ukwenza izivivinyo zama-morning, ubhalisele echibini lokubhukuda noma i-yoga, khumbula indlela yokupheka ukudla okunempilo nokumnandi futhi ufunde izindlela zokupheka ezintsha.
- Kade kangakanani uke wakwazi ukufunda okuthile okuthakazelisayo kwamuva? Akukhona mayelana nokufundwa kwezincwadi kanye nokufundwa kwamathebhu. Sebevele bakhohlwe lapho benencwadi enhle ngempela ezandleni zabo, kunjalo? Lungisa lokwehluleka, uthathe izigaba zakudala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlala ekhaya noma ungaphandle, ujabulele imisebenzi engapheli. Ngendlela, uma ungakwazi ukuthenga amabhuku, iya emtatsheni welabhulali, lapho uzothola ithuba lokukhuluma nabathandi abafanayo bezincwadi njengawe. Kholelwa ukuthi ukuchitha isikhathi kuhle kangcono kunemicikilisho yobuwula kanye nemibukiso yokukhuluma.
- Ingabe unayo izinto zokuzilibazisa? Manje kunesikhathi sokuyithatha ngokungathí sina. Futhi okumele ukwenze, khetha wena. Mhlawumbe uthanda ukudweba nge-watercolor noma ngabe uke waphupha ukubhala phansi amanoveli abesifazane?
- Hamba kaningi, futhi uma kungenzeka, hamba. Unempesheni ngalesi sikhathi. Futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi manje sekwephuzile kakhulu ukwenza lokhu, bheka izibalo - kunabantu abaningi abahamba umhlalaphansi aseYurophu, futhi abahola impesheni yaseJapane nabo bayakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzithandela. Ngendlela, uma uzizwa amandla okusebenza, yenza.
Indlela yokwenza imali ngomhlalaphansi?
Ucabanga ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani imali ngokuthatha umhlalaphansi futhi uzimisele ukucabanga ukuthi ekugugeni lokhu akunakwenzeka? Kodwa cha, isibonelo sika-A. Selezneva, oneminyaka engama-70 ubudala, owaqala ibhizinisi lakhe, futhi eneminyaka engu-76 ubudala enezintambo zezitolo, uyaziwa kabanzi. Futhi akayena wedwa, abesifazane abaningi bangaziqhayisa ngemali eyengeziwe yokuthola umhlalaphansi. Okumele ukwenze kuwe, khetha ngokusho kwamakhono akho. Uyazi kahle ikhompyutha? Qala ukwenza amasayithi noma uhlele iqembu labantu abahlala emhlalaphansi abafuna ukufunda ukufunda nokubhala. Abantu abaneminyaka yobudala bemhlalaphansi bayothola kulula ukuqonda isayensi nontanga yabo.
Ungenza futhi ukuzilibazisa kwakho umthombo wemali engenayo. Amadodakazi aseDacha angathengisa izithelo zomsebenzi wabo - imifino nezithelo ezintsha zihlale zithengwa kakhulu ezitolo ezinkulu (kusukela kumkhiqizi ongaziwa), kodwa ezimakethe ezandleni ezakhulile. Ukuthungula okunekhono noma abathandi bokugaya bangathengisa imikhiqizo yabo futhi bahlele. Futhi abathandi bezimbali zasendlini bangaqala ukuzalanisa nabo ukudayiswa.