Emphakathini wanamuhla, indima yomuntu ngamunye, njengento ehlukile eholele ngqo ekuthuthukisweni komphakathi wonke njengamanye, uye wanda ngokumangalisayo. Futhi akukhathaleki noma ngabe isakhiwo se-micro- noma macro-social. Futhi yingakho ezimweni eziningi kunesidingo sokunikeza incazelo ecacile yobuntu bomuntu ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukusebenzisana okunethezekile nokuxhumana okuhambelana nabantu abakwiqembu lezenhlalo ezahlukene, isibonelo, eqenjini eliqeqeshiwe.
Dala i-Harmony
Ngiyavuma, kunzima ukwakha isimo esivamile sokusebenza uma kukhona izingxabano eziphakathi kwabasebenzi ngenxa yokuthi abanye babo, ngenxa yobugovu babo kanye nokuzihlonipha kwabo ngokweqile, abakwazi ukuzenza izinto ezingathandeki. Lezi zimfanelo, ezibandakanya izici zomzwelo zobuntu bomuntu, njengokufutheka okusheshayo noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuzwela nokuhluleka ukuvikela iphuzu lomuntu, kumele kuqashwe umqashi uma esebenzisa ilungu lomsebenzi.
Izinhlangothi ezimbili zemali efanayo
Okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi umuntu osevele esemncane ubumba njengomuntu, ngaphansi kwethonya lezici eziningi zangaphandle ezingase zibe kuhle noma cha. Esikhathini esilandelayo, ukuphikisana okwandayo emiphakathini ewonakele kuvame ukuthuthukiswa, futhi umuntu uhlakulele ubuntu obunamandla, okwazi ukwenza ngokushesha izinqumo ubuntu, ngokuvamile ephethe izimfanelo zobuholi. Kubantu abanjalo kulula kakhulu ukucacisa zonke izici ezigqugquzelayo zobuntu, ezifakwe yisimo sokusinda nokujwayela isimo esimweni esingalungile.
Nakuba, njenganoma imuphi indondo, kunezinhlangothi ezimbili. Ukuvezwa ngethonya lamathonya angaphandle angaphandle, isibonelo, ukuhlekwa usulu nokungabi nenhlonipho evela kontanga, ingane ingakwazi "ukungenelela" ngokuphelele, ivalwe ngaphakathi kwayo futhi ihoxise kamuva kulesi simo inzima kakhulu, ngoba lezi zingane zikhula ngokushesha ukuzethemba .
Okuhlukile
Naphezu kokuthi umphakathi wonke uphila ngokuvumelana nemifula, imithetho eqinisiwe, izici eziqondene nobuntu bamalungu awo ngokungangabazeki enye yezingxenye eziyinhloko ze vector yentuthuko yayo. Umuntu ngamunye unamakhono athile nezimfanelo ezithile ngezinga elilodwa noma elinye lesibonakaliso futhi njengoba kungekho ziflephu ezimbili zeqhwa ezifanayo ezifana nesembozo seqhwa esivumelanayo futhi esivumelanayo ekuqaleni, akukho futhi abantu ababili emvelo abanalo izici ezifanayo zezimfanelo zobuntu. Lezi zihlanganisa amazinga ahlukahlukene omthwalo wemfanelo, ukwethembeka, ukuhlonipha, ukuyala, njll.
Ngokuhlukahluka okuhlukahlukene kokuhlanganiswa kwezici ezinhle nezimbi zomuntu ngamunye, isithombe esisodwa salokho umuntu azalwa khona. Kukhona ukuqonda okucacile izimbangela zokuziphatha kwakhe futhi kungenzeka nakakhulu
Ngokuvamile, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi naphezu kwazo zonke eziyingqayizivele, ngamunye wethu uyingxenye yomzimba owodwa onomthelela ongenamphela kithi, onomthelela ekwenzeni izinqumo futhi kuzo zonke izinyathelo esithatha kulo mpilo kanye nekhono lamalungu ngabanye umphakathi uhlangana ngokuvumelana "nabantu bakithi" kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni okuphumelelayo kwanoma imuphi umphakathi onempilo.