Amantombazane amaningi, ikakhulukazi asebancane, abheka amaphupho abo ukuze aphendule umbuzo othi: "Indlela yokuceba nokudumile?". Kuyinto eqondakalayo nokuphila okuhle engikufunayo kubo bonke. Ake siqale sicabange ngendlela abantu abajwayele ngayo ukuduma, bese sizobuka izindlela ezingasiza labo abaphupho babo abasha abazange baphumelele.
Sonke sasizwa izindaba eziningi (ngenxa yemidiya yazo yonke imibala) mayelana nokuthi izinkanyezi zethu sezidumile kanjani. Umuntu othile wakhipha imali kubazali (uxhaso), othile wathande umkhiqizi (umqondisi, umhleli, njll) ukubukeka, nomunye, egoqa izinyawo (ngezinye izikhathi ebunzini lakhe) egazini eligodliwe kuyo yonke iminyango, ngokoqobo ngizitholela indawo ngaphansi kwelanga. Abanye babenenhlanhla yokuba endaweni efanele ngesikhathi esifanele, futhi bakwazi ukuhlula ithalenta labo umuntu ofanele. Ngamunye unendaba yakhe siqu, ezithakazelisayo futhi efundisa ngendlela yayo, futhi kusukela emlandweni ngamunye "we-stellar" onjalo kungenzeka ukukhuthazelela okuthile ngokwayo.
Ungaba udumo kanjani?
Ngakho-ke, ukuthi ungaba kanjani ocebile nodumile, yini okudingeka ukwenze kulokhu? Nasi uhlu lwethu lwezindlela. Akunqatshelwe ukuzama, uma kungenjalo bonke, ke abambalwa abaqinisekile, kwelinye lamacala ngempela linenhlanhla.
- Indlela ende kunazo zonke kanye nokuvinjelwa kakhulu ukuthuthukisa ngendlela ekhethiwe. Thola imfundo ngokubhalisa enyuvesi yaseMoscow ekukhethweni okukhethiwe. Ngesikhathi sokuqeqesha, yakha isithombe esicacile nesingavamile ukuthi unake. Futhi-ke iminyaka yokusebenza kanzima nezinyathelo ezincane zokudumisa kanye nempumelelo.
- Muva nje, imibukiso ehlukahlukene ngokukhethwa kwamathalenta amasha kuye kwaba ethandwa kakhulu. Yebo, ungasho ukuthi izindawo zesiklomelo zithengisiwe esikhathini esidlule futhi awunalo ithuba. Futhi ungatshela futhi ucabange ngendlela othanda ngayo, kodwa uhambe ukuphonsa kuwufanele, okungenani ngenxa yokwenza abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo phakathi kochwepheshe nabacindezeli. Futhi mhlawumbe uzothola inhlanhla, futhi ithalenta lakho lizohlonishwa yinoma yimuphi umkhosi odumile.
- Ukuthola umuntu onentshisekelo ngamakhono akho, udinga ukuthola abajwayele ukuwazisa. Xhuma abangani, abantu obaziyo nabantu abangajwayele kakhulu "ukwakha amabhuloho" endaweni oyidingayo.
- Uyaqiniseka ngethalenta yakho? Khona-ke ungazama ukuhlukana ngokwakho, ukurekhoda izingoma zakho (ukwenza iphothifoliyo, njll) nokuvimbezela izikhungo zomkhiqizi (i-ejensi yezinhlobo) nazo. Ekugcineni, uthola ithuba lokufakazela ithalenta lakho kanye nokuphela.
- Siyaqiniseka ukuthi noma ubani angakwazi ukuguqulwa, uma kukhona wonke amathalenta we-crumb, into esemqoka ukwazi ukuthi kanjani? Ngakho ngubani okuvimbela wena ukuba wazi lokhu? Udinga nje ukuthi ufunde ukuba ngumkhiqizi, futhi njengephrojekthi ye-diploma ukuzibonakalisa uthanda intandokazi.
- Njalo indawo yonke inqunywe imali, bekuyiyo, njalo futhi kuyoba njalo. Uma ucabanga kanjalo, indlela eyodwa kuphela yokuphuma ukuthola umxhasi. Akukhona ngesithombe esiyinkimbinkimbi yentombazane eyisiphukuphuku esikholelwa ukuthi ubusuku obuthile obuchitha naye, bayobe "inkanyezi." Lokhu akulona iqiniso, kodwa kusho oxhasayo ukuthi ngubani ozokholelwa ukuthi iphrojekthi yakho izodingeka, ukuthi ithalenta lakho liyi-investment enenzuzo nenzuzo. Kodwa lapha kuyadingeka ukuthi upende kahle
Uhlelo lwebhizinisi lwephrojekthi yakho ukuze umxhasi ozobona ukuthi kuyadingeka ukutshala imali yakho kuwe. - Jabulela isipiliyoni sezinkanyezi zaseNtshonalanga, u-Justin Bieber, isibonelo. Spread kumarekhodi e-intanethi ngezenzo zabo kumasayithi abukwa kakhulu, mhlawumbe uzobona "inkanyezi" futhi unikeze ukuphathwa kwabo.
- Ungalokothi ulingise noma ubani, noma ngendlela yokusebenza, noma ngendlela yokugqoka. Emhlabeni wezitembu, abantu abaphikisanayo bayakwazisa kakhulu, banikeza into entsha, into enye enye isibindi noma ithalente esingekho.
- Kholelwa kuwe, ukuzethemba okukhulu uma ubonisa amakhono akho, yonke isenzo kufanele sithi usuvele ukwazi ukuwina umphakathi.
Njengoba unqume ukudumile, hamba ekugcineni, ungalokothi ushiye. Khona-ke ukukhuthazela kwakho kuyothola ukuvuza.