Umuntu ngamunye ohlelweni lokuthuthukiswa kwakhe uthola izakhiwo zomuntu siqu, okwenza isakhiwo sakhe futhi ahlukanise umuntu phakathi kwabanye. Iqoqo ngalinye lalezi zakhiwo liyisisekelo, njengoba sonke senza ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene ezingeni zangaphandle nezangaphakathi, ithonya lalo elifaka ekwakheni ubuntu .
Ukuzwela njengemfanelo yobuntu
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi izingane ziqondisa kanjani ekuboniseni imizwa yabo, kodwa njengoba zivuthwa, isithombe siyashintsha, ubuntu bugcwele izakhiwo zomuntu ngamunye. Omunye ufunda ukufihla imizwa yeqiniso noma ukuyilingisa, othile uqina ngokwengeziwe ngokomzwelo, futhi umuntu akakwazi ukubhekana nalo, abe yisisulu sokuphazamiseka okuvame ukwesaba. Kunezimo ze-asyntonism - ukungabi khona kwemizwelo. Phakathi kwezinto zobuntu, echaza uhlangothi lwayo ngokomzwelo, ukuhlukanisa:
- Ukuzijabulisa . Kubonisa ukulungele ukusabela ekucaseni kwengqondo, kunesibopho sokwakhiwa kokungcupheni, ukuzwela.
- Ukujula kokuhlangenwe nakho .
- Ukuqina komzwelo nokufaneleka - ukuzinza nokuhamba. Lezi zakhiwo ziveza ikhono lomuntu lokuzwa imizwa emva kokunyamalala kwesisusa (ukuqina) kanye nokukwazi ukuvumelanisa ngokushesha nesimo esishintshayo (ubuchwepheshe).
- Ukuzinza ngokomzwelo . Kucatshangelwa ngezici ezimbili - isimo (ukukwazi ukucindezela imizwelo) kanye nomuntu siqu (ukungabi nampendulo ekuthandeni ngokomzwelo).
- Ukuzindla kuyindlela yokuveza imizwa yakho ngokusebenzisa ubuso obusweni, ukuzithokozisa, izinhloso, njll.
- Ukusabela ngokomzwelo - izinga lokubona, izinga lokuzwela komuntu.
- Ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo nokwethemba .
Ukuphelele kwezici zomuntu ngamunye kunquma uhlobo lomuntu, okwenziwa namuhla yi-ezine.
- Uzwela . Indoda yalolu hlobo ivuselwa kalula futhi ihlatshwe umxhwele, izenzo ezenziwe esimweni sokukhungatheka zivame ukuphenduka, kodwa ziphindaphinda ziphindaphindiwe.
- Ukuzwela . Kubantu abanjalo, ukuzindla ngokulinganayo kuyisici, balinganisa umhlaba ngokusho kwabo ngokomzwelo wabo, okubaluleke kakhulu kubo. Imizwa yomuntu onjalo iqondiswa kumuntu siqu, angenza izenzo ezimbi, ahlabe izinyembezi eziqotho.
- Ukukhathazeka . Abantu balolu hlobo bayashesha futhi baphikelela ekwenzeni imigomo, empilweni yabo imizwelo ihlale ishaya isihluthulelo. Banikeza amandla abo ngo-100%.
- Emotionally frigid . Ngenxa yalolu hlobo lubonakala ngengqondo ebandayo, umuntu onjalo ngeke akwazi ukuqonda okuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye, uvele engenakho ikhono elinjalo.
Lona umbono wamanje wezici ezingokomzwelo zobuntu futhi, yiqiniso, akuwona amagama okugcina, insimu izoqhubeka nokuthuthukisa, ivule imizwa yabantu ezinhlangothini ezintsha. Ngokuvamile, imizwelo, njengempahla yobuntu, yayibhekwa yiHippocrates, kuphela okwenzeka ngaphakathi kohlaka lwenye yezinhlobo zokuziphatha - i-choleric eyodwa.
Isimiso njengesakhiwo sobuntu
Umqondo wobumnene ubalulekile ekuchazeni umuntu, ngoba yilo mhlaba okuyisisekelo esizungeze ngazo zonke ezinye izici. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuzinza komzimba , futhi ngenxa yethonya layo ezintweni eziningi zobuntu bomuntu - ijubane lokuphendula okwenzakalayo, ukuguquguquka, ukuziphatha, indlela imizwelo evezwa ngayo, njll Ulwazi lobumnene luzobikezela uhlobo lokuphendula, kodwa ngeke likutshele ukuthi yini lowo muntu uzokwenza. Okusho ukuthi, le ndawo izotshela kuphela indlela yokuziphatha, kodwa hhayi ngezenzo ezithile.