Sonke sinohlobo oluthile lobuqili. Awungakaze uthole lo mbono ekhanda lakho? Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu ubonakala ecabanga ukuthi isimo sakhe sengqondo ngokucacile singaphezu kwemingcele yalokho okuvunyelwe. Kodwa ukuze ungacabangi ngeze futhi ungaqageli, ake sibheke isimo salesi simo futhi sithole lokho ukuhlolwa kwesimo sengqondo.
Incazelo yesimo sengqondo
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi, ngaphambili, uthi, ukwenza isinqumo sakhe, isazi sifunda isimo sengqondo somklayenti wakhe ngokusebenzisa ingxoxo naye. Bese uhlaziya ulwazi olutholayo njengezimpendulo zakhe. Into ethakazelisayo kunazo zonke ukuthi le "iseshini" ayipheli. Isazi sezifo zengqondo siphinde sihlole ukubonakala komuntu, ukukhuluma kwakhe nokungaqondile (isib. Ukuziphatha, ukuziphatha, inkulumo).
Umgomo oyinhloko udokotela ukuthola ukuthola ukubonakala kwezibonakaliso ezithile, okungenzeka kube okwesikhashana noma kudlulele esiteji sokukhubazeka (noma kunjalo, kodwa ukhetho lokugcina alujabuli kangako kuneyokuqala).
Ngeke sizenzele inqubo ngokwayo, kodwa sinikeze izibonelo zezincomo:
- Ukubukeka . Ukuze unqume isimo sengqondo, qaphela ukubonakala komuntu, zama ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi imvelo yomphakathi ayibhekisela kuyo. Yenza isithombe semikhuba yakhe, izimiso zokuphila.
- Ukuziphatha . Kulo mqondo kumele kufaka lokhu okulandelayo: ukuboniswa ubuso, ukunyakaza, ukubonisa ubuso, ukuthinta. Izindlela zokugcina zisiza ekunqumeni kangcono isimo sengqondo somntwana. Phela, ulimi lomzimba olungenalutho lubonakala kakhulu kuye kunomuntu omdala. Futhi lokhu kuphakamisa ukuthi, uma kwenzeka, ngeke akwazi ukuphunyuka empendulweni yombuzo obhekwe.
- Inkulumo . Qaphela izici zokukhuluma zomuntu: ijubane lenkulumo yakhe, i-monosyllabicity yezimpendulo, i-verbosity, njll.
Uma uthola ukuxilongwa, lochwepheshe ubeka yonke into ngokufishane futhi ngokucophelela. Isibonelo, uma umuntu enesimo sezinzwa zegazi, incazelo izofana nalezi ezilandelayo:
- akukho okungajwayelekile ememori, imizwa;
- akukho isiyezi, ukuphathwa ikhanda njalo;
- ukuqaphela kucacile.